Episodes

  • Let's Demystify the Alpha

    Let's Demystify the Alpha
    Jul 2 2025
    I have Olver Starr with me to talk about how we got it all wrong when it comes to what an Alpha is.

    And Oliver should know, he works with wolves and removes mama bears from under houses!

    In a world where a bunch of men on podcasts are giving you a bunch of BS about the Alpha male... come hear the real scoop.

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    Oliver Starr is a wolf conservationist, author, and former tech executive whose work bridges the worlds of the wild and the boardroom. As the founder of the Tahoe Wolf Center and creator of the Benevolent Alpha Leadership Framework, Oliver draws on decades of firsthand experience with wolves to challenge outdated models of dominance-based leadership. His book, The Wolf Lover’s Guide to Raising Dogs, is a top-rated release in animal behavior, and his viral social media content educates millions about the true nature of wolves. A TEDx speaker and seasoned entrepreneur, Oliver advocates for leadership rooted in empathy, cooperation, and the wisdom of the pack.



    v- TahoeWolfCenter.org

    - OliverTheWolfGuy.com (Merch)


    - YouTube (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.youtube.com/@oliverthewolfguy


    - TikTok (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.tiktok.com/@oliverthewolfguy


    - X (formerly Twitter) (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.twitter.com/olivrthewolfguy


    - Instagram (Oliver Starr): https://www.instagram.com/ostarr LinkedIn (Oliver Starr): https://www.linkedin.com/in/oliverstarr
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    26 mins
  • Why She Got To Be So Vague

    Why She Got To Be So Vague
    Apr 2 2025
    Ever felt like you’re not getting a straight answer from a woman? Like her words are wrapped in layers of implication, energy, and mystery?

    In the realm of sex, intimacy, and tantra, what appears vague is often an invitation to go deeper. I explore why women communicate the way they do, what’s actually happening beneath the surface, and how men can meet that energy—not with frustration or force, but with curiosity and conscious leadership.

    This episode is a wake-up call for men who want to stop skating on the surface and start penetrating the truth with presence, precision, and power.

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    32 mins
  • Why you should read what she's reading

    Why you should read what she's reading
    Mar 19 2025
    Tanja is solo today talking about her work with couples... Couples don't communicate well and when it comes to sex it's usually even more tragic. Why you should read and watch what she does to ask better questions and stop making assumptions. Improve your sex life.

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    28 mins
  • How To Live Into Your Best Self

    How To Live Into Your Best Self
    Mar 6 2025
    People often wonder what happens in your life when you heal your past patterns and wounds and start to move into self care. Is it selffish to put yourself first? Farren joins me again and shares the successes on this journey to being true to youself.

    Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com
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    25 mins
  • Have you found your NO?

    Have you found your NO?
    Feb 27 2025
    In a world where good men don't want to be jerks, the idea of saying no to others can be hard. How can you be true to yourself and not hurt others. Learning to say no, without explanations will be the power you need to get back to living the truth of your life and stop putting yourself last.

    Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com
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    31 mins
  • Divorce Strategies and Trauma

    Divorce Strategies and Trauma
    Feb 20 2025
    My guest today is Farren West, one of my friends and clients. He shares his path since his divorce 5 years ago and how he was stuck in the nice guy space and suffered unhappiness for many years.

    Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com
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    32 mins
  • Are Your Strategies Working For You

    Are Your Strategies Working For You
    Feb 12 2025
    What is the difference between addiction and strategies? Are your strategies working for you or hurting you. Alberto discusses his journey through different addictions.


    Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com
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    40 mins
  • Four Pillars of Self Love

    Four Pillars of Self Love
    Feb 5 2025
    Alberto is with me again and we are tackling the self love dilema. What actually is it and how do you make it happen?

    There are 4 pillars to self love, self commitement, self trust, self respect and self love. Explore the way to fall in love with yourself and why it matters.

    Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share. Tanja@tanjadiamond.com
    Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com
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    29 mins