Episodes

  • Live Coaching with Robert Part 2

    Live Coaching with Robert Part 2
    Sep 3 2025
    Tanja is back with Robert with candid coaching and dropping into a topic i hear many men deal with. The shame of desiring sex. How to be a good man and own your sexuality when your childhood and early teens programs didn't set you up well.
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    57 mins
  • Live Coaching Call w/ Robert

    Live Coaching Call w/ Robert
    Aug 27 2025
    A brave listner of Men, Sex and Tantra takes Tanja up on being coached on the podcast.

    Robert has faced what a lot of good men are facing today... confusion around what women want and why when a man attempts to give them what they ask for, they are rejected.

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    53 mins
  • Yep- Our Friend Vulnerability

    Yep- Our Friend Vulnerability
    Aug 20 2025
    Mathias and Tanja dive into the topic of vulnerability and it's most men's least favorite topic... we get it.

    Some men would say "OK vulnerability is not as important as authenticity. I think authenticity is important!


    But let's unpack this: in order to be authentic to yourself… First you have to know yourself.


    Second of all, you are an evolving being and so from one perspective "being authentic" you might be authentic to a way you existed before or a way of being… But in authentic in a way that you are growing into that is less familiar to you...


    And it's easy to communicate from those places that we feel sure and confident...


    But is much more difficult to be in, and communicate from, those places where you might feel unsure… Or unformed, or at risk. Or even worse… From a place of being completely undone...

    And that's where the true jiuce of life lives!

    Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com
    Intro Coaching Session Here
    Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

    J. Mathias Bennett is an Author, Leadership Advisor, and Speaker. He helps visionaries with ‘ecosystems’ worth of projects to connect with themselves, clarify their approach, and connect with resources to help build the regenerative world that is possible.


    His experience spans technology spirituality, regeneration and leadership. Mathias loves to speak, share and coach on the connection between the spiritual and physical realms, and how to listen to the Universe when it whispers, so it doesn’t have to shout.


    Mathias is also a strong proponent of centering indigenous wisdom and Divine feminine wisdom - in the form of Eros - to help reveal Truth, and co-create wholeness into being.

    To connect with Mathias - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jmathiasbennett/
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    40 mins
  • The Importance Of Being Curious About Truth

    The Importance Of Being Curious About Truth
    Aug 13 2025
    Some people think about the truth : "you want the truth? You can't handle the truth!!"
    With a sense of happiness or duty...

    From a western standpoint, our mind is conditioned to think about things. Especially from a western scientific standpoint, we take things and slice and dice them into smaller and smaller quantities, analyze them, interpret our analysis, then extrapolate that interpretation of that analysis to put in a report to be a peer reviewed, for maximum competitive advantage...

    But if you're curious about the truth and whatever area you have the greatest interest , there's delightful light, playful spontaneity about it.

    Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com
    Intro Coaching Session Here
    Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

    J. Mathias Bennett is an Author, Leadership Advisor, and Speaker. He helps visionaries with ‘ecosystems’ worth of projects to connect with themselves, clarify their approach, and connect with resources to help build the regenerative world that is possible.
    His experience spans technology spirituality, regeneration and leadership. Mathias loves to speak, share and coach on the connection between the spiritual and physical realms, and how to listen to the Universe when it whispers, so it doesn’t have to shout.
    Mathias is also a strong proponent of centering indigenous wisdom and Divine feminine wisdom - in the form of Eros - to help reveal Truth, and co-create wholeness into being.

    To connect with Mathias or request a consult- head to LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jmathiasbennett/
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    34 mins
  • Do You Lead And Live With Courage?

    Do You Lead And Live With Courage?
    Aug 6 2025
    J Mathias and I get into the definition and idea of courage. It's my numer 1 value and I use it everyday to make decisions and stay in alignment with my integrity. Is courage a heroic act or something you are driven to by an impulsive action.

    "Courage is that which is in alignment with a particular value or goal" Mathias

    Do you have the courage to do what you need to do in your life?


    Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com
    Intro Coaching Session Here
    Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach


    J. Mathias Bennett is an Author, Leadership Advisor, and Speaker. He helps visionaries with ‘ecosystems’ worth of projects to connect with themselves, clarify their approach, and connect with resources to help build the regenerative world that is possible.

    His experience spans technology spirituality, regeneration and leadership. Mathias loves to speak, share and coach on the connection between the spiritual and physical realms, and how to listen to the Universe when it whispers, so it doesn’t have to shout.

    Mathias is also a strong proponent of centering indigenous wisdom and Divine feminine wisdom - in the form of Eros - to help reveal Truth, and co-create wholeness into being.

    To connect with or consult with Mathias go to LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jmathiasbennett/
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    26 mins
  • What Are You Doing With Your Life...

    What Are You Doing With Your Life...
    Jul 30 2025
    My new guest J Mathias Bennett brings a refreshing perspectve to things that make men stand out from the ordinary and become unforgettable.

    Our next 4 episodes dive into what seems like some familiar topics and yet we deep dive into questions and answers that will leave you rethinking things.

    It's what happens when spiritual meets strategy. Buckle in and learn to question everything.

    Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com
    Intro Coaching Session Here
    Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach


    .Mathias Bennett is an Author, Leadership Advisor, and Speaker. He helps visionaries with ‘ecosystems’ worth of projects to connect with themselves, clarify their approach, and connect with resources to help build the regenerative world that is possible.


    His experience spans technology spirituality, regeneration and leadership. Mathias loves to speak, share and coach on the connection between the spiritual and physical realms, and how to listen to the Universe when it whispers, so it doesn’t have to shout.


    Mathias is also a strong proponent of centering indigenous wisdom and Divine feminine wisdom - in the form of Eros - to help reveal Truth, and co-create wholeness into being.

    To connect with or inquire about a consultation - Mathias on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jmathiasbennett/
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    32 mins
  • Strong Men Don't Need Watered Down Women

    Strong Men Don't Need Watered Down Women
    Jul 23 2025
    Enough of the BS that a masculine man needs a watered down woman. Most strong men I have met are not intimidated nor turned off my a strong woman. Oliver is a badass and his woman is a force of nature. When Oliver gets attacked by a wolf, it's a woman who saves him.


    Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com
    Intro Coaching Session Here
    Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

    Oliver
    - TahoeWolfCenter.org

    - OliverTheWolfGuy.com (Merch)


    - YouTube (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.youtube.com/@oliverthewolfguy


    - TikTok (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.tiktok.com/@oliverthewolfguy


    - X (formerly Twitter) (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.twitter.com/olivrthewolfguy


    - Instagram (Oliver Starr): https://www.instagram.com/ostarr LinkedIn (Oliver Starr): https://www.linkedin.com/in/oliverstarr
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    37 mins
  • Sex, Aging and Wolves

    Sex, Aging and Wolves
    Jul 16 2025
    Olver Starr is still with us and we explore what can wolves show us about the potency of aging in a world obbsessed with youth.

    Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com
    Intro Coaching Session Here
    Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach

    Oliver-

    - TahoeWolfCenter.org

    - OliverTheWolfGuy.com (Merch)


    - YouTube (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.youtube.com/@oliverthewolfguy


    - TikTok (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.tiktok.com/@oliverthewolfguy


    - X (formerly Twitter) (Oliver the Wolf Guy): https://www.twitter.com/olivrthewolfguy


    - Instagram (Oliver Starr): https://www.instagram.com/ostarr LinkedIn (Oliver Starr): https://www.linkedin.com/in/oliverstarr



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    28 mins