Many marriages today are stuck in a quiet tug-of-war, wives stepping up because they feel they have to, and husbands pulling back because they don’t know where they fit in. The result? Both end up in exhaustion, resentment, and a disconnection that no amount of “date nights” can fix.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the cycle of “I’ll just do it myself” while longing for your husband to step up, OR if you’re a husband who wants to lead but nothing you do seems good enough, this conversation will give you the clarity and hope you need.

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Money fights in marriage aren’t really about dollars and cents, they’re about control, trust, and fear.

In this episode of Marriage Unmasked, we’re getting to the heart of why finances can feel like a battlefield in your marriage and how to start creating safety, teamwork, and unity, even if you don’t agree on every purchase or budget decision.

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When in-laws show disrespect, and the one person you expect to protect you, your spouse, says nothing, it cuts deep.

Maybe it was a comment that embarrassed you in front of everyone. Maybe it was an ongoing pattern of criticism or dismissiveness. What hurts even more is when your spouse doesn’t speak up. Their silence can feel like betrayal, leaving you questioning your place in the marriage, the family, and your worth.

We'll answer questions like: Why is this so painful? What hidden fears are causing the silence? How do you both move forward when this happens?

If you’ve ever walked away from a family gathering feeling alone, hurt, and wondering if things will ever change, this conversation is for you.

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