• Untitled Episode
    Jan 6 2026

    Summary

    In this episode of The Marriage is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips podcast, hosts Bryan Hooks and Paul Sargent explore the reasons behind staying married. They discuss the importance of commitment, the weight of responsibility, and the challenges that come with marriage. The conversation emphasizes love as a choice, the significance of self-love, and the impact of marriage on children. The hosts reflect on their personal experiences and insights, encouraging listeners to consider their own reasons for staying married and the work involved in maintaining a healthy relationship.


    Takeaways

    • Marriage requires constant effort and commitment.
    • Choosing to stay married is a daily decision.
    • Self-reflection is crucial in understanding marriage.
    • Love is an action, not just a feeling.
    • The weight of responsibility can be heavy for husbands.
    • Facing challenges together strengthens the relationship.
    • Setting a good example for children is important.
    • Communication is key during tough times.
    • Self-love is essential for loving others.
    • Belief in the marriage foundation is vital for longevity.



    We hope you enjoy!

    Please reach out to us at:

    marriageistougher.com

    facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher

    instagram.com/marriageistougher/

    Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas

    Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!
    This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!

    Thank You,
    Bryan and Paul

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    36 mins
  • Surprise Gift Tips
    Dec 23 2025

    In this episode of The Marriage is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips podcast, hosts Bryan Hooks and Paul Sargent discuss the intricacies of planning surprise gifts for their spouses, particularly focusing on the importance of communication, involvement, and creating memorable experiences. They share personal anecdotes about their own experiences with surprise trips and the dynamics of family involvement, emphasizing the need for balance between surprise and collaboration in gift-giving. The conversation also touches on budgeting for gifts and the significance of capturing family moments during these experiences.

    Takeaways

    • The importance of planning surprise gifts for your spouse.
    • Involving your partner in decision-making enhances the experience.
    • Family dynamics play a crucial role in gift-giving.
    • Creating memorable experiences is more valuable than material gifts.
    • Communication about expectations is key in relationships.
    • Budgeting for gifts can alleviate financial stress.
    • Surprises can strengthen the bond in a marriage.
    • Capturing moments during family trips adds to the experience.
    • Understanding your partner's preferences is essential for gift-giving.
    • Regular weekend experiences can enhance marital satisfaction.



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    25 mins
  • Husbandly Insecurities
    Dec 16 2025

    n this episode of 'The Marriage is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips' podcast, hosts Bryan Hooks and Paul Sargent delve into the topic of husbandly insecurities. They discuss personal experiences and perspectives on how insecurities manifest in marriage, particularly focusing on financial provision and relational dynamics. The conversation highlights the importance of communication, understanding, and support in overcoming these insecurities and building a stronger marital bond.


    We hope you enjoy!

    Please reach out to us at:

    marriageistougher.com

    facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher

    instagram.com/marriageistougher/

    Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas

    Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!
    This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!

    Thank You,
    Bryan and Paul

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    31 mins
  • Seeking Discipleship, Seeking Relationship, Seeking Community
    Dec 9 2025

    We hope you enjoy!

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    This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!

    Thank You,
    Bryan and Paul

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    27 mins
  • TABLE THE CONVERSATION
    Nov 18 2025

    Join Bryan and Paul in this episode of "The Marriage is Tougher Than Woodpecker Lips" as they delve into the art of tabling conversations in marriage. Discover strategies for stepping away from heated discussions and effectively returning to the table with respect and an open mind. Whether you're a seasoned listener or new to the community, this episode offers valuable insights into maintaining healthy communication and resolving conflicts in relationships. Tune in to learn how to navigate the complexities of marriage with grace and understanding.

    We hope you enjoy!

    Please reach out to us at:

    marriageistougher.com

    facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher

    instagram.com/marriageistougher/

    Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideas

    Don't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!
    This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!

    Thank You,
    Bryan and Paul

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    30 mins
  • The Path Of A Prayer Answered
    Oct 28 2025

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    This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!

    Thank You,
    Bryan and Paul

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    24 mins
  • Lessons Were Learned w/ Paul Montalvo
    Sep 30 2025

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    marriageistougher.com

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    Bryan and Paul

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    54 mins
  • Doing The Best I Can, But Are You Really?
    Sep 18 2025

    We hope you enjoy!

    Please reach out to us at:

    marriageistougher.com

    facebook.com/MarriageIsTougher

    instagram.com/marriageistougher/

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    This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!

    Thank You,
    Bryan and Paul

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    30 mins