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In this episode, we invite you into a raw, God-centered conversation about what it means to cast a vision for a new kind of love. You’ll hear Avonlea’s personal journal entries from “Calling in the One,” and the cautious moments of reuniting in person after weeks apart. Whether you're healing your marriage or your own heart, we pray this episode brings clarity, hope, and encouragement.

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In this episode, we return to the raw and painful moments of August 2023—the second month in our healing journey. We talk about the impossible odds of saving our marriage after betrayal, the emotional weight of therapeutic separation, and the heart-wrenching process of rebuilding from ground zero. From moments of profound spiritual insight—like a lakeside baptism and the realization of hidden idols—to crushing lows marked by loneliness, fear, and exhaustion, this episode pulls back the curtain on the intense work of healing. We also reflect on what true intimacy means, the trauma of broken trust, and the quiet, relentless hope that somehow, even this can be redeemed.

If you’ve made it this far with us, we’d love to hear what’s been most helpful to you. Message us on Instagram or Facebook @loveafterliespodcast, or text us anonymously—we’re honored to walk this road with you.

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In a spiritual context, a "sacred wound" refers to a deep, transformative trauma or suffering that, instead of being a source of negativity, becomes a catalyst for growth, healing, and a deeper connection with the divine or oneself.

When God creates Eve, He calls her an “ezer kenegdo.” That’s the word used in the original Hebrew in Genesis 2:18. Turns out, this phrase is notoriously difficult to translate into English.

Josh and Avonlea discuss how these two important topics influenced their healing journey.

Calling in "The One" Revised and Expanded: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life

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Josh and Avonlea dive deeper into their journey of recovery and healing and share some of the resources that helped them navigate through the process.

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Full Disclosure: How to Share the Truth After Sexual Betrayal

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Josh and Avonlea share more details about their journey and specifics about how they handled the first month after D Day.

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In this episode, Avonlea and Josh talk about trauma and betrayal trauma, as well as a lesser known subject: post traumatic growth.

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Josh and Avonlea share what they have learned about lust, sex, and addiction, and how that knowledge empowered them on their journey of healing and recovery.

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Josh and Avonlea discuss the question of divorce after infidelity.