"It's a choice too. You have to choose to be positive. You have to choose to allow yourself to move forward and understand that this is the only life that we get, and we need to help others." —Dr. Monica Parham
Some days it feels like life shatters overnight, and the world expects us back at work by Monday. In this raw conversation, we go inside life after loss when the person who felt like home is suddenly gone, and the only options are staying stuck in the closet or choosing a new way forward. This is grief, faith, and reinvention told from inside the storm, not from a distance.
Dr. Monica Parham shares how a small-town girl became a dentist, survived divorce, found the love of her life, and then lost him during the pandemic. Her journey through deep heartbreak, prayer, and radical self-reinvention now shapes how she works, parents, dates, and lives with a new sense of courage.
Press play to sit with a friend who understands loss and is proof that thriving again is possible, even when it feels impossible.
• Life after loss when a soulmate and best friend is gone
• The "closet" season and what finally sparked a turning point
• Why honoring a great love can mean building a bigger life
• Dating, Golden Bachelor, and finding joy after widowhood
• Faith, family, and community as anchors through intense grief
• Daily health habits that support emotional healing and resilience
• What it means to live, love, survive, and truly thrive
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Episode Highlights:
02:28 Meet Monica: Small Town To Big Dreams
07:13 Grief In The Closet: The Darkest Months After Loss
11:20 Saying Yes To Life Again And Helping Others Heal
13:40 Dating In Our 60s And Learning To Move Forward
15:24 Hitting Rock Bottom And The Moment Everything Shifted
17:42 Work, Patients, And Responsibility While Grieving
20:17 Why Community And Routine Matter In Early Grief
29:48 Monica's Life Motto: This Too Shall Pass And Let It Go
34:10 From Surviving To Thriving: Saying Yes To New Experiences
36:10 Choosing Positivity, Self Work, And Being A Light For Others
39:08 Lifelong Friendship, Dental School Memories, And Gratitude
Resources:
Books
📖Grid: Once in a Lifetime You Get to Start Over by Dr. Kimberly Hubenette
📖Live, Love, Survive, Thrive! by Dr. Kimberly Hubenette
📖Get Megan's Book: How I Lost Everything and Everyone but Found Myself in the End
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