• Mental Health Moment 2 - Cyberbullying
    Sep 4 2025

    Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,

    In this episode, we are talking cyberbullying.

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

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    3 mins
  • Episode 135: Relationship Series - Relationship with Self
    Aug 28 2025

    In this episode Joseph and Paula explore what it means to have a healthy relationship with yourself—and why it matters. The co-hosts break down the key elements of self-respect and emotional well-being. Our hosts share personal reflections, expert insights, and practical tips to help build a more supportive and nurturing inner dialogue. Whether you’re working on healing, growing, or simply learning to show up for yourself, this episode is a reminder: the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with you.

    Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

    Past Episode mentioned Life Lived Better Podcast Episode 96: Inner Dialogue

    Resources used to create this episode:

    • Greater Good Science Center (UC Berkeley)Kristin Neff’s Self-CompassionPsychology Today

      Books of Interest on this Topic

      • The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown

      • Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach

      • Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab

      • Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff

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    24 mins
  • Mental Health Moment 1 - Stress
    Aug 21 2025

    We are excited to let you know about a new addition to our format. We are calling Mental Health Moment, where we will provide insight into issues that affect most of us…but it will be done quickly…with the intention of dropping a nugget in between our more involved episodes. We hope you enjoy them.

    In the inaugural episode, we are talking about something that shows up for everyonestress.

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

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    3 mins
  • Episode 134: Relationship Series - Social Relationships
    Aug 14 2025

    In this episode Joseph and Paula explore the dynamics of social relationships—the good, the bad, and everything in between. What makes a friendship truly supportive? And how can you tell when a relationship is starting to become emotionally draining or toxic? From red flags like manipulation, competition, and one-sided effort to green flags like mutual respect, trust, and accountability, the co-hosts break down the key differences between healthy and unhealthy social bonds. They also share practical tips on setting boundaries, recognizing when to walk away, and how to prioritize your well-being in your social life.

    Whether you're questioning a long-time friendship or learning how to build better connections, this episode offers insight and guidance you won’t want to miss.

    Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

    Resources used to create this episode:

    Friendship: The Evolution, Biology, and Extraordinary Power of Life’s Fundamental Bond by Lydia Denworth

    Greater Good Science Center – UC Berkeley https://greatergood.berkeley.edu

    Mental Health America (MHA) www.mhanational.org

    The Gottman Institute www.gottman.com

    Apps You Might Want to Check Out:

    Peanut (for women seeking community and friendship)

    Meetup (find local interest groups and events)
    Hey! VINA or Friender (apps to make platonic connections)

    Circles (group support for people going through similar life experiences)

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    30 mins
  • Episode 133: Relationship Series - Professional Relationships
    Jul 31 2025

    In this episode, Joseph and Paula continue their series on relationships by taking a look at the essential elements of healthy professional relationships—what they look like, why they matter, and how to build them. From setting boundaries and fostering mutual respect to communicating effectively and navigating workplace dynamics. The co-hosts explore how strong professional connections can lead to personal growth and career success. Whether you're new to the workforce or looking to strengthen your current work relationships, this conversation offers practical insights and information to help you thrive professionally while staying true to yourself.

    Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

    Previous Episodes Mentioned:

    Episode 78: Emotional Intelligence

    Resources Used in the Creation of this Episode:

    Crucial Conversations by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan, and Switzler

    Dare to Lead by Brené Brown

    Harvard Business Review (HBR) www.hbr.org

    MindTools www.mindtools.com
    The Center for Creative Leadership (CCL) www.ccl.org

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    40 mins
  • Episode 132: Relationship Series - Introduction
    Jul 17 2025

    Welcome to the kickoff of our new series on Relationships. Join Joseph and Paula as they wade into discussions on what it really means to build and maintain meaningful, supportive connections in every area of life. In this series introduction, the co-hosts lay the foundation for upcoming conversations about professional relationships, friendships, family dynamics, parent-child connections, romantic partnerships, and even the relationship we have with ourselves. Join us as the key ingredients of healthy relationships are explored —like trust, boundaries, communication, and accountability—and why they matter now more than ever. Whether you're looking to strengthen a bond or heal from past patterns, this series is for you.

    Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    We would love for you to rate & review our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

    Previous Episodes Mentioned in this one:

    Link to Episode 125: The Power of Boundaries

    Resources used to create this episode:

    • 10 Psychological Signs You're in a Healthy and Balanced Relationship
    • The Foundation of Healthy Relationships | Psychology Today
    • Heller Garland, P. (2024, April). Basic Communication Skills. Addiction Studies Program. Denton; University of North Texas.

    #Relationships #Podcast #Wellness #SelfHelp #Improvement #SelfImprovement #Healthy #Communication #Counselors

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    34 mins
  • Episode 131: Behind the Door: What Really Happens in Therapy
    Jul 3 2025

    Join us every other Thursday for a new episode!

    In this episode, Joseph and Paula are breaking down the mystery of what actually happens in therapy. Whether you're considering therapy for the first time or just curious about the process, the co-hosts will walk you through what to expect in a typical session—from the initial intake to building trust with your therapist and setting goals. They will also talk about different styles of therapy, theories of practice therapists might use, and why it’s okay if it feels awkward at first. Tune in as they demystify therapy and help you feel more prepared and confident about taking that first step toward mental wellness.

    Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

    The link they promised for finding a therapist on Psychology Today

    Find a Therapist, Psychologist, Counselor - Psychology Today

    Resources used to develop this episode:

    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: Does CBT Work?

    Group Therapy: Definition, Types, Techniques, and Efficacy

    What is Family Therapy and Systemic Practice? - Association for Family Therapy and Systemic Practice

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    37 mins
  • Episode 130: Why Everyone Should Try Therapy: The Real Benefits
    Jun 19 2025

    From improving emotional resilience to enhancing relationships and managing everyday stress, therapy offers valuable tools for anyone looking to live a healthier, more balanced life. Join Joseph and Paula as they explore the real benefits of therapy. They will share the different types of therapy, how it can be a powerful tool for personal growth, healing, and mental well-being. They will highlight how therapy offers a safe space to explore your thoughts and emotions and how professional support can help people navigate life's ups and downs. Tune in to learn why prioritizing your mental health is one of the best investments you can make in yourself.

    Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Info@lifelivedbetter.net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.

    We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

    Resources used to create this episode:

    Benefits of Therapy

    Red Flags to Look Out for in Therapy | U.S. News

    When therapy goes wrong: the problem of underqualified practitioners

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    50 mins