• Episode 39- The Grace Wrapped in a Manger — Why Christmas Was Never About the Gifts
    Dec 25 2025

    In this episode of Lies. Changes. Truth. we take a step back from the noise, the shopping lists, and the wrapped boxes to uncover the deeper truth of Christmas. We’ll explore how we’ve been conditioned to focus on gifts instead of grace, and how that misplaced focus can quietly rob us of meaning, gratitude, and transformation. This episode invites us to realign our hearts with the purpose of the manger—not what we receive, but who was given—and how changing that perspective can lead us to a more grounded, grateful, and spiritually rich life.

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    18 mins
  • Episode 38- The Lie That You Can’t Take Advice From Someone Less Successful Than You
    Dec 18 2025

    In this episode of Lies. Changes. Truth. we confront the lie that wisdom only comes from people who are more successful than us. We’ll explore how pride and comparison can blind us to valuable insight, causing us to miss lessons that could save us time, pain, and costly mistakes. By challenging this mindset, we take an important step toward humility, growth, and true wisdom—because truth isn’t determined by status, and changing how we listen can elevate our lives in powerful, unexpected ways.

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    20 mins
  • Episode 37— "The Lie That Children Shouldn’t Suffer Consequences — Love, Discipline, and the Pain That Teaches”
    Dec 13 2025

    In this episode of Lies. Changes. Truth., we challenge the lie that children shouldn’t experience consequences. We explore how discipline, accountability, and even discomfort play a vital role in shaping character, responsibility, and resilience. Because true love doesn’t remove every hardship — it prepares our children to face life wisely.

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    25 mins
  • Episode 35 — “The Line Between Loyalty and Love: When Purpose Has the Final Say”
    Dec 5 2025

    In this episode of "Lies. Changes. Truth." we’re diving into one of the most challenging tensions we face in relationships: the moment when loyalty starts pulling us in one direction, but love — real love — starts calling us somewhere else. We’ll unpack the lie that staying loyal at all costs is noble, even when that loyalty is draining us, delaying us, or destroying the purpose God placed inside us.

    Together, we’ll explore how confusing loyalty with love can keep us stuck in cycles of obligation, guilt, and emotional burnout. We’ll talk about the relationships we cling to out of fear, the people we protect out of habit, and the ways we silence our own evolution to stay who we used to be for people who no longer see who we’re becoming.

    Most importantly, we’ll uncover how purpose — when we finally listen to it — has the final say. Purpose reveals when it’s time to stay, when it’s time to shift, and when it’s time to lovingly release what no longer aligns with who we’re called to be.

    This episode will challenge your heart, stretch your perspective, and help you move from relational survival mode to relational wisdom. And as always, we’ll break the lies, embrace the changes, and uncover the truth that sets us free — one conversation at a time.

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    18 mins
  • Episode 34- “The Lie That We’ll Always Have Them: Give Them Their Flowers Before the Funeral Home Does”
    Nov 27 2025

    In this episode of “Lies. Changes. Truth.” we will be dealing with one of the most painful lies we tell ourselves — the lie that we’ll always have the people we love. We move through life assuming there will be more time, more chances, more moments… until there aren’t.

    We will uncover how this mindset keeps us distracted, disconnected, and distant from the people who matter most. We’ll explore how waiting until a funeral to express love, gratitude, or appreciation robs us of the healing, joy, and connection we could have given — and received — while they were still here.

    Together, we will take our beginning steps toward showing honor now, giving flowers now, speaking love now. Because we don’t have to wait for grief to teach us what gratitude should’ve taught us earlier.

    As usual, we will examine how changing our mindset can elevate us to a more intentional, compassionate, and present version of ourselves — one that refuses to let pride, busyness, or fear keep us from loving people while we still can.

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    21 mins
  • Episode 33- You Don’t Have to Leave Them Behind — When Loyalty Meets Purpose
    Nov 21 2025

    In this episode of "Lies. Changes. Truth." we will be exploring the tension between loyalty and purpose, and the lie that living in your purpose automatically means leaving your family behind. We’ll uncover how fear, guilt, and old narratives convince us that growth requires abandonment, when in reality, it requires alignment.

    We will discover how stepping into the life God called you to live doesn’t have to disconnect you from the people you love — it simply calls for new boundaries, healthier expectations, and a clearer understanding of your assignment.

    Together, we’ll learn how holding onto relationships the right way empowers you instead of drains you. We’ll take our beginning steps in separating who you’re supposed to carry with you from who you’re only meant to pray for. Because purpose isn’t about isolation — it’s about elevation.

    As usual, we will examine how changing our mindset can lift us into new, more intentional and impactful heights, allowing us to love our family better without losing ourselves in the process.

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    23 mins
  • Episode 32 — “The Lie That We Owe Our Family Our Loyalty”
    Nov 14 2025

    In this episode of "Lies. Changes. Truth." we will be dealing with one of the hardest truths to face — that loyalty to family should never come at the cost of your peace, purpose, or growth. We will uncover how the lie that we owe our family unwavering loyalty has trapped so many of us in cycles of guilt, obligation, and emotional bondage.

    We’ll explore how breaking free from unhealthy family expectations doesn’t mean abandoning love — it means redefining it. Because love without boundaries leads to burnout, and loyalty without discernment leads to destruction.

    Together, we’ll take our beginning steps in recognizing the difference between honoring our family and being enslaved by them. We’ll learn that true loyalty starts with being loyal to who God created us to be — not who our family demands we become.

    As always, we will examine how changing our mindset can free us to live more purposefully, love more authentically, and walk more boldly in truth.

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    15 mins
  • Episode 31 -The Compromised Church — When Politics Becomes the New Religion
    Nov 7 2025

    In this episode of "Lies. Changes. Truth." we will be dealing with the spiritual and moral danger of a Church that has traded conviction for comfort and holiness for political alignment. We’ll uncover how easily the Gospel can be compromised when we begin to serve agendas instead of Christ, and how this subtle shift has weakened our witness to the world.

    We will examine how the desire for influence and acceptance can cause believers to justify corruption, excuse injustice, and call division “discernment.” We’ll look at what happens when the Church forgets her first love — when politics becomes the new religion, and Christ’s Kingdom takes a back seat to earthly power.

    Throughout this conversation, we’ll take our beginning steps in reclaiming what has been lost — humility, integrity, and the courage to stand for truth even when it’s unpopular. Because revival won’t come through policy; it comes through purity.

    As always, we will explore how changing our mindset can restore not only our personal faith but also the credibility of the Church. The world doesn’t need a compromised Church — it needs a courageous one that still believes Jesus is Lord, not a political party.

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    17 mins