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Intimacy After Infidelity | Rebuild Connection, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness for Adultery, Avoid Divorce

Intimacy After Infidelity | Rebuild Connection, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness for Adultery, Avoid Divorce

By: Kristina Joy | Affair Recovery Coach Spiritual Healing Shed Your Shame
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 The Go-to Podcast for Christian Women Who Want to Heal Their Heart to Shed Their Shame! *RANKED TOP 2.5% GLOBALLY* Do you wish someone would stop and see you, instead of looking through you or past you? Are you Googling ways to communicate and connect with your husband, but you’re still not feeling heard? Do you lay awake at night wondering if your marriage can survive infidelity or what’s the first step to file for divorce? Your vows are broken, and you’re so full of shame that you’re sure there’s no way God or your husband could possibly forgive you. I am so grateful you’re here! This podcast will help you find hope, get a grasp on your emotions at a deeper level, and learn how to get raw and honest with God like your life depends on it- because it does. You’ll also get coaching for the steps along the journey of restoration, communication, and trust. Hey, I’m Kristina Joy. Forgiven daughter of Jesus, Mom, and Coach. For years, I tried to break free from my infidelity in all the wrong ways. I tried by sheer willpower, I tried reading my Bible more, and I even considered joining a 12-step program. None of it worked. I finally realized that if I was going to find true freedom in my life, I needed to let Jesus heal some deep wounds in my heart. Through prayer, a whole lot of research, and developing new healthy habits, I was finally able to find healing to shed my shame once and for all. I learned I could choose to leave the affair behind. I could choose to pursue my own emotional healing and growth, no matter if my marriage survived or not. I could create new healthy habits that would move me forward in confidence, with strength and dignity. And I am SO ready to share what I’ve learned with you! If you are ready to finally find your true self in Christ, Experience ultimate freedom from your bondage, Feel authentic connection without the secrets, And move forward with strength and dignity, Then find your safe space and pop in those earbuds. I’m about to show you that intimacy after infidelity is possible, and life can be way better than it ever was before. Get ready- let’s rebuild your intimacy better than it’s ever been!Copyright 2023 All rights reserved. Christianity Hygiene & Healthy Living Relationships Social Sciences Spirituality
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  • 79 | When You Crave What Doesn’t Serve You

    79 | When You Crave What Doesn’t Serve You
    Aug 26 2025

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    You know he’s not good for you, so why do you still think about him?

    If you've ever found yourself craving attention, safety, or affection from someone who hurt you, this episode is for you.

    In today’s conversation, I’m unpacking:

    - How I started to recognize addictive patterns and anxious attachment

    - What your cravings are really trying to tell you

    - Why your nervous system might chase the familiar, even when it’s painful

    - How to respond with love, not shame, and take your next right step forward

    This isn’t about self-sabotage. It’s about healing the real need underneath the craving and gently coming home to yourself and God.

    You’re not too much. You’re not too far gone. And you don’t have to do this alone.

    Connect with me: 📞 Book a 1:1 call: Schedule here

    📘 Join the 4-week healing course: Coming Home to Freedom

    📩 DM me on Instagram @kristinajoycoaching with CALL if you’re ready for more support
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    15 mins
  • 78 | Still Missing Your Affair Partner? How To Rebuild Real Connection After Your Affair

    78 | Still Missing Your Affair Partner? How To Rebuild Real Connection After Your Affair
    Aug 19 2025

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    You cut off the relationship. You’re doing “the right things.” But the ache? It’s still there.

    Why do I still miss him? Will this longing ever go away?

    Yes, the ache is real. But it’s not about him—it’s about what you’re truly wired for: emotional intimacy, safety, and being seen.

    This episode is your gentle guide to reclaiming that connection… without outsourcing your worth.

    💡 Here we explore:

    • Why missing him doesn’t mean you messed up
    • What connection really is (and what it isn’t)
    • How to stop outsourcing your need for attention and affection
    • The difference between emotional intimacy and codependent intensity
    • How to start tending to the “home within” and find peace with God and yourself

    Next steps:

    📩 Let's coach 1:1! https://calendar.app.google/v7dKcC7aZVfH8YHL8

    ✨ Course + Group Calls: Coming Home to Freedom, rebuild intimacy with yourself and God while releasing shame. 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

    ✨ Workshop: Coming Home to Jesus, 30 min. guided healing experience 👉 www.kristinajoycoaching.com

    💬 Join our safe and growing community, www.facebook.com/groups/intimacyafterinfidelity

    💙 Find me on Instagram! @kristinajoycoaching
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    17 mins
  • 77 | No Contact Doesn’t Actually Work (And Here’s What Does)

    77 | No Contact Doesn’t Actually Work (And Here’s What Does)
    Aug 12 2025

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    You cut contact. You deleted the number. You swore you’d never reach out again. So why does it still hurt? Why do you still miss him?

    I get it. No contact isn’t a quick fix. It’s like withdrawal.

    And healing is about way more than blocking someone.

    In this episode, I’m sharing:

    • Why cutting contact can still leave you craving him
    • What helped me actually move forward
    • The difference between willpower and inner transformation
    • How to return to yourself again and again, with love

    This isn’t about shame or weakness. It’s about choosing you and God, one small moment at a time.

    If that’s where you are, my 4-week course Coming Home to Freedom is open now. It’s where we retrain your body to feel safe again, with Scripture, nervous system healing, and a community that gets it.

    Or book a 1:1 coaching call if you want to talk it through personally.

    You’re not broken. And you’re never alone.

    Let’s Connect:

    📞 Book a 1:1 call: Schedule here 📘 Join the 4-week community course: Coming Home to Freedom 📩 DM me on Instagram @kristinajoycoaching with CALL if you’re ready for support
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    13 mins
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