What does real friendship look like in marriage? In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather unpack how each of the nine Enneagram types builds, strains, and restores friendship within marriage.

From the Type 1 perfectionist learning to relax, to the Type 7 enthusiast slowing down, to the Type 9 peacemaker finding their voice—every couple will see themselves somewhere in this conversation.

You’ll learn how each Enneagram type loves, connects, and communicates, the biggest friendship challenges for every type, and simple ways to bring more laughter, grace, and presence into your marriage. They also share why friendship—not just romance—is what keeps you choosing each other, and how faith and self-awareness work together to bring healing and depth.

Whether you’re new to the Enneagram or already know your number, this episode will help you grow closer, communicate better, and rediscover joy in your marriage friendship.

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What if the secret to a lasting, joy-filled marriage isn’tjust love—but friendship?

In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael andHeather open up about how their 26-year relationship has been built (and rebuilt) on laughter, curiosity, and connection. From navigating conflict with grace to rediscovering what it means to like your spouse—not just love them—this conversation will remind you why every healthy marriage starts with friendship.

They share real stories, practical tips, and honest momentsabout keeping friendship alive through the chaos of kids, work, and everyday life. Whether you’re newly married or decades in, this one’s for you.

In this episode:

Why friendship is the foundation of every strongmarriage

How to rebuild connection when life feels routine

Ways to laugh, play, and stay curious together

The power of humility and apology in friendship

What does your favorite reality TV show say about your personality and your marriage?

In this fun and eye-opening episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather Brown break down how each Enneagram type (1–9) engages with reality TV — and how it reveals what we value, fear, and need in our relationships.

From the rule-following Type 1s who yell at the TV whenthings aren’t “fair” to the adventure-loving Type 7s who just want one more episode, every personality type finds something different in the drama.

In this episode:What each Enneagram type notices (and why) while watching reality TVHow your type’s core fear and desire shape what you enjoyWhat these viewing habits reveal about how you connect with your spouseWhy the Enneagram helps you understand both entertainment and each other

Whether you’re watching Love Is Blind, Survivor,or Hell’s Kitchen, this conversation will help you laugh, learn, and see your marriage in a whole new way.

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Every couple argues—but not every couple understands how their personality shapes communication.In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather Brown unpack how each Enneagram type (1–9) communicates, reacts under stress, and what it takes to truly connect in marriage.After 26 years of marriage, they’ve learned that conflict isn’t about who’s right—it’s about how you talk when things go wrong. This practical conversation will help you recognize your patterns, understand your spouse, and grow closer even in disagreement.In this episode:How each Enneagram type communicates in conflictWhat to say (and avoid) with your spouse’s typeReal examples from Michael & Heather’s marriageHow to turn tension into teamworkWatch this one with your spouse, pause to discuss, and start speaking each other’s language.#ImperfectlyMarried #MarriagePodcast #ChristianMarriage #EnneagramMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriageCommunication #HealthyRelationships

Reality TV may entertain us but does it actually show how we should see real love, commitment, and marriage?In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Heather and Michael dive deep into how shows like The Bachelor, Love Is Blind, and Love Island have changed our culture’s view of romance and relationships. They explore why these “reality” shows are anything but real, how they can distort our expectations, and what it looks like to rebuild a healthy, faith-based view of love in a world that glorifies fantasy.From emotional comparison and unrealistic standards to hookup culture and discontentment, this honest conversation unpacks the real effects of what we watch—and how to protect your heart and your marriage from being shaped by entertainment instead of truth.

Key Takeaway: You’re being formed by something. Let it be God’s Word, not the world’s version of love.

Social media is everywhere—but how does it really impactyour marriage? In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Heather and Michael walk through each Enneagram type (1–9) and reveal the unique struggles, growth opportunities, and faith anchors connected to how you and your spouse show up online with social media.

From perfectionism and comparison, to escaping, hiding, orseeking validation, every type experiences social media differently. But the good news? With awareness, scripture, and practical tools, you can learn how to guard your heart, honor your spouse, and strengthen your relationship both online and offline.

Key takeaway: Social media isn’t the villain—it’s how youuse it. Set boundaries, celebrate growth, and remember God’s call to guard your heart while showing up for your marriage.

We love it. We hate it. We scroll for hours. But what issocial media really doing to our marriages? In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather open up about their own love–hate relationship with Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook—and how the “highlight reel” culture feedsinsecurity, comparison, and even micro-cheating.

From dealing with online hate to setting healthy boundaries,they share practical tools for protecting your relationship in a digital world. You’ll discover:

Why comparison is the thief of joy (and contentment) inmarriageHow social media creates “faux intimacy” and false expectationsBoundaries every couple needs around passwords, phones, and DMsWhy authenticity beats the highlight reel every time

Whether you’re struggling with insecurity, feeling behind inlife, or wondering if social media is stealing joy from your marriage, thisreal conversation will give you hope and practical next steps.

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Why do the same fights keep happening? Why does your spouse shut down when you try to connect? In this episode of Imperfectly Married, Michael and Heather share how the Enneagram gave them a new language for love, compassion, and conflict resolution. From discovering their core fears anddesires to learning how to see life through each other’s lens, they unpack real stories of breakthrough moments in their 26 years of marriage.

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