• 351: [Soapbox] Don't apologize too fast
    Dec 25 2025

    In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host and sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman discusses the concept of not apologizing too quickly in intimate relationships. She explains why immediate apologies can often miss the mark and how important it is to first listen and empathize with your partner's feelings and experiences before apologizing. Jessa elaborates on why understanding the emotional impact on your partner and providing a space for them to express their hurt is crucial for a sincere apology. She also explores different motivations people have for quick apologies and provides strategies to avoid misunderstandings in the future.


    00:00 Introduction to Better Sex Podcast

    00:44 The Importance of Not Apologizing Too Quickly

    01:52 Understanding Your Partner's Experience

    04:43 The Right Way to Apologize

    06:06 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

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