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How to Woo

How to Woo

By: Luna Robbie
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 Conversations on love, making love, and making a life we love that start fun and go deep. Normal people and sexperts alike share details of what they’re into and insights on satisfying connection. In a time of decreasing social norms, How to Woo draws on our personal and collective wisdom so we can come together to talk about how we'd like to....come together. Hosted by artist and full service creative guide Luna Robbie, the goal is to co-create a world where taking care of each other is the norm—one ripple of love at a time. Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyi2018-2025 Luna Robbie Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Social Sciences
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  • 315 | Let Me In Too: Shay Sights on Woo

    315 | Let Me In Too: Shay Sights on Woo
    Aug 20 2025

    Fetish porn, healing retreats, pegging joy, and spiritual connection—Shay Sights shares how she built a life of creativity, sensuality, and unconditional love while rebuilding a beach resort and exploring gangbangs.


    📈 STATS | 51 bisexual single woman, she/her pronouns, holistic healer, porn star, property manager, Vancouver native, Los Angeles-based, into: twisted mommy talk, adventure, connection, pushing the envelope, fetish play, taboo play, ramping up energy with partners, originality, and coming up with creative content ideas to turn other people on, building things, gardening, animals, and remote places.


    ⏰ TIME CODE

    00:00 Meet Shay: holistic healer, porn star, and beach resort rebuilder

    02:10 Pajama joy and the thrill of canceling a shoot

    03:08 Buying land in Mexico based on intuition and kombucha

    07:08 Construction as spiritual healing and creative expression

    10:00 Why quiet energy and solitude are essential to her joy

    12:54 Future retreats and transforming a falling-down property into magic

    13:25 Self-care, saying no to toxicity, and letting people help

    16:12 How sex work, healing, and hospitality all help people connect

    21:28 Behind the scenes of porn health and safety practices

    27:48 Personal sex life and upholding industry standards

    28:18 Toilet fetishes, stepmom porn, and freedom from shame

    31:51 Cringing at judgment, not at her own choices

    33:20 What makes someone sexy? Amazing energy over appearance

    35:48 Learning sex through sex work, and connection through spiritual growth

    42:49 Onscreen vs. real-life sex: entertainment vs. intimacy

    47:19 Porn as curated emotional performance

    49:58 Bloopers, realism, and letting audiences see the effort

    51:33 Shay’s slutty fun list: pegging, gang bangs, and mommy talk

    56:09 Aries sun, Scorpio rising, and the archetypes of porn

    57:40 Clit-sucking toys and sensation preferences

    59:14 Favorite sex lesson to teach: communicate everything

    1:01:31 Why every body—and every day—is different

    1:03:09 Consent and connection protocols on porn sets

    1:04:17 Favorite partners, flogging, and flog-worthy memories

    1:04:55 Still on her list: a five-guy gangbang

    1:07:53 Sex in Mexico: beach shoots and rooftop fantasies

    1:09:34 What we need for a more loving world: unconditional love

    1:10:39 Karma, the Golden Rule, and living as an example

    1:11:53 Reflections on love, shame, and human connection


    🤩 TOPICS | Abraham hicks, age and sensuality, airbnb landlord stories, amateur porn realism, angel investing intuition, architecture preservation, artisan tile details, bisexual female performer, blood and urine testing, body-safe toys, business-minded porn stars, Caribbean dive culture, childhood sex education gaps, clitoral stimulation toys, communication in adult scenes, content creator bloopers, creative real estate, deep energy sensitivity, direct German yoga teachers, DIY home restoration, emotional fluidity in sex, ethical adult filmmaking, fetish curiosity, finding kombucha in small towns, French decorative influence, full moon rituals, gang bang choreography, holistic hospitality, hot milf persona, industry compliance standards, jungle building logistics, kinky latex fashion, love-based living, Mexican construction permits, ocean-view roof decks, palm tree privacy, pegging with passion, personality integration, porn career longevity, professional dominants, property zoning in Mexico, quiet nightlife preferences, reality vs fantasy in porn, remote living joy, roof deck sex, Scorpio rising porn stars, sex and spiritual integration, sexual archetypes, sexual energy healing, short film porn scripts, social media expectations, spiritual sex exploration, spoken consent videos, strap-on adventures, tropical solitude, vaginal vs anal testing, voiceover vignette scripts, water sign placements, women-led retreats, and yoga contractor networking.


    🔗 SHAY LINKS | shaysights.com / OF / @shaysighstofficial / x / tiktok

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    1 hr
  • How I Turn Nervous Partners Into Sex Gods: How to Brothel

    How I Turn Nervous Partners Into Sex Gods: How to Brothel
    Aug 13 2025

    Luna shares her three-step lover invitation framework for turning nervous, shy, or hesitant partners into confident, creative lovers. With real scripts, personal stories, and juicy practicals from her work as a legal courtesan, this episode covers everything from desire check-ins and genital inspections to safe-touch communication and transforming don’ts into delicious do’s. A deeply detailed how-to for co-creating extraordinary sex that feels amazing for everyone involved.

    Go Woo Yourself: How to Brothel full blog post here.

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    49 mins
  • 314 | Foreplay For Days: Lady C on Woo

    314 | Foreplay For Days: Lady C on Woo
    Aug 6 2025
    Butt rub orgasms, week-long sexting, and a love of blowjobs—Lady C shares how open communication transformed her long-term relationship into a kinky, pleasure-filled partnership. 📈 STATS | 30 straight female, she/her pronouns, in a relationship of 7 years, production planner, from Tennessee, into: giving blowjobs, anal, sending her significant other sexy photos and naughty videos, getting choked, being held down, days-long foreplay, and is curious about bondage. ⏰ TIME CODE00:00 Lady C’s current sexual shame level01:33 A one-night stand in a balcony closet02:49 Comfort and open communication with her partner04:15 Sexy conversations as foreplay and podcast-inspired curiosity06:04 First exposure to porn and early sex education gaps08:25 Bed-corner masturbation and losing her virginity10:38 Disappointing first partnered sex and craving more11:44 Teenage friend group, social vibes, and curiosity13:11 College exploration, pregnancy, and single motherhood14:25 Horny while pregnant but no sex15:43 Post-baby body image and a year of no sex17:11 First orgasm from penetration with a coworker18:41 First anal experience—planned, communicative, and orgasmic20:32 Struggles with anal and a very girthy partner22:10 Anal fantasies, DP brainstorms, and new toy ideas23:29 Anal curiosity and sexual openness with women24:59 Clitoral masturbation preferences and low solo desire25:34 Dating app hookups and emotional disconnection27:17 Relationship origin story and deep erotic bond27:57 Playing with foreskin and blowjobs as her favorite thing29:15 Deep throating while high and learning each other’s angles30:37 Sexual timeline of their seven-year relationship31:00 Fingerplay details and being choked with trust33:56 Toys, vibrating rings, and week-long foreplay36:39 Opposite schedules, sexy video exchanges, and weekend reconnection39:18 Orgasm from butt massage—accidental and amazing41:20 Full-body massages, nipple play, and preferred touch42:39 Being held down, bondage fantasies, and trust blocks44:28 Running from orgasm and wanting to be held in place45:37 Erotic overstimulation, surrender, and varied body reactions47:36 Watching porn separately and what types she prefers49:32 Homemade blowjob videos and OnlyFans curiosity50:31 Naughty videos she sends and his reactions51:35 Why she loves blowjobs and teasing him post-orgasm52:55 Exploring new ball play and clit-focused oral sex55:24 Surprise analingus and loving it56:10 Curious about manual anal play but haven’t tried57:22 Interest in threesomes and how to find a second partner59:09 Enthusiastic about pleasing her partner and willing to try1:00:14 Bondage preferences and playroom dreams1:01:56 Love and sex go hand in hand1:02:44 Naked dancing as self-love1:03:24 Pleasure palace wishlist: wax, whips, a pole, and mirrors1:04:49 “Let people be great”: her motto for a more loving world1:06:00 Compliments, kindness, and spreading ripples of love 🤩 TOPICS | After-sex touch, ass obsession, ass teasing, baby weight and self-image, being face down and melting, big hand kink, blowjob technique with foreskin, body chemistry, body complex, butt cheek spreading, cancer zodiac personality, clit toy solo video, comfort with long-term partner, consent conversations, couch christening, day shift sex planning, dick sensitivity play, dick sucking while high, early porn exposure, erotic tension during sexting, female-led pleasure teasing, fingering and humming combo, flexible sexual identity, foreskin teasing tips, front-to-back licking, girthy penis challenges, hands-over-head restraint, headspace and surrender, homemade sex tape ideas, intimate long-distance foreplay, internal stroking with fingers, late-in-life confidence, lingerie photo sharing, mirror dancing naked, mommy mode vs sex mode, morning-after cuddles, neck pressure play, nipple pulling, NSFW work distractions, oil on breasts, open to pegging, oral feedback and coaching, partner-first mentality, porn curiosity with partner, postpartum sexual reconnection, pussy slaps to reset, receiving instructions during oral, rough teasing after climax, running from climax, safe word practice, sexting routines, shared masturbation videos, slippery stroke tricks, solo play discomfort, spontaneous oral, teasing the tip, thick dick strategies, titty oil massage, trust in submission, turning pain into pleasure, under-the-influence blowjobs, unfiltered sex stories, unlearning shame, visual turn-ons, weekend-only sex life, work spouse flirtation. Ask a question, share a story or be a guest: howtowoo.fyiExplore Luna's rabbit hole: @lunarwoohoo
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    1 hr and 7 mins
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