Episodes

  • Ep 169 – He Gets Around
    May 29 2024
    Michael, Tim and Jon talk all things travel and the do's and don't's of taking kink gear, medication and more when you travel. What should you do about your PrEP? What sort of gear travels well? What should you find out about the places you visit before you go? Later, the team talks about the latest on MPOX cases and vaccination, and keeping informed about travel alerts. Hot stuff Down an'Dirty's Kink on a Budget video, with ideas for travel friendly kink Southern Hibearnation - June 8th to 16th Mpox vaccination information form Emen8 Budget announcement covering all things HIV * This episode originally aired Tuesday, May 28 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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  • Ep 168 – Pups After Dark
    May 22 2024
    Pup Wolf joins us to share a litte about the new VIC-PAH event, Bark After Dark - the group's first event with a sex focus. Wolf shares a little about the pup community, finding safe spaces online and in person, and supporting the pups to get... connected. Later, Michael and Jon talk about news improving HIV prevention programs in the Federal Budget, and the latest on MPOX cases and vaccination Hot stuff Victorian Pups and Handlers Bark After Dark Tickets - Saturday 25 May Mpox vaccination information form Emen8 Budget announcement covering all things HIV * This episode originally aired Tuesday, May 21 2024 on JOY * Check out our other JOY Podcasts for more on LGBTIQ+ health & wellbeing. If there’s something you’d like us to explore on the show, send through ideas or questions at hideandseek@joy.org.au This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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    49 mins
  • Ep 167 – Lock Cock and Two Plastic Barrels
    May 15 2024
    Sir A and FFunotter join the show to talk about lockdown (no, no, not that!) We are exploring chastity, cages, and restricting or delaying gratification. We're here to unpack (pardon the pun) what devices work for what anatomy, some tips for travel, and finding other... activities to do while locked up. This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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    54 mins
  • Ep 166 – PEP Talk
    Apr 30 2024
    Time for a pep talk, well, a PEP talk that is. We are joined by queer content creator Odus Moore to share a little about self advocating in healthcare settings as an LGBTIQ+ person. Recently, Odus needed to access PEP - medication to prevent HIV after a recent exposure - and was met with some perceived queer phobia and didn't walk away with the medication they needed. PEP can be taken to prevent HIV after a recent exposure - but needs to be taken within 72 hours. And, the earlier the better. Odus shares what happened when they visited a public hospital and had a negative experience, which they turned into a training and capacity building experience for clinicians at the hospital - but not before being bullied and gaslit online! Plus, we chat about mpox and preventing it by getting vaccinated! Here's some stuff we mentioned this week... PEP information GetPEP.info https://what-works.org/pep/ https://endinghiv.org.au/stay-safe/pep/ PEP Guidelines, for clinicians: https://ashm.org.au/resources/australian-pep-guidelines/ If you are diagnosed with HIV, you can connect with your local state based HIV organization Training and capacity building https://rainbowhealthaustralia.org.au/training-programs Pride in Diversity: https://www.prideinclusionprograms.com.au/about-pid/ Training and Professional Development from Queerspace at Drummond Street https://www.queerspace.org.au/training-education/ MPOX What is MPox? https://emen8.com.au/health/sexual-health/get-your-monkeypox-shot-what-you-need-to-know-about-the-monkeypox-vaccine/ New Mpox cases: https://www.starobserver.com.au/news/new-mpox-cases-vic/230357 Where to go: Melbourne Sexual Health Centre Thorne Harbour Health Northside Clinic Collins Street Medical Centre Prahran Market Clinic No Medicare? https://oshcaustralia.com.au/ Some pharmacies that operate late or 24 hours. Call ahead or double check as some of these may have changed! https://13sick.com.au/late-night-pharmacies/melbourne-extended-hours-pharmacies/ And https://doctordoctor.com.au/patient-advice/24-hour-pharmacies/ This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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    47 mins
  • Ep 165 – Bodies Bodies Bodies
    Apr 30 2024
    Here to talk affirming trans consent, Michael and Jon are joined by Starlady, the Program Manager at Zoe Belle Gender Collective! With a passion for social justice and a commitment to equity, Starlady tackles discrimination head-on through advocacy, education, and community development. Starlady has worked with remote Indigenous communities and appeared on ABC’s trans focused episode of “You Can’t Ask That” Zoe Belle Gender Collective recently launched new 18+ resources discussing sex and consent for both trans and gender diverse people and their partners. Find resources including the new Gender Diversity, Sex & Consent on the Zoe Belle Gender Collective resources hub Some other fantastic resources supporting trans folk include Say It Out Loud - sayitoutloud.org.au ACON's TransHub - https transhub.org.au Qlife - qlife.org.au Additionally, some of the art from the ZBGC resources is from artist @noahdeaart on X, @noahdea.art on Instagram * This episode originally aired Thursday, April 23 2024 on JOY * This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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    49 mins
  • Ep 164 – Around the World in 80 Lays
    Apr 17 2024
    Content creator Down Under Bri returns to Hide and Seek to recount his journey to the JustForFans conference. Bri shares some of the more titillating panels and plenaries on everything from adult performer taxes, collaborating, and building networks in the world of spicy content. Bri uncovers some of the pomp and circumstance behind content creation, and some of the more prolific creators being more shy than you'd anticipate! Bri travelled through LA and even made a stop at the Trixie Motel, meeting a few key collaborators on the way Bri last joined us on the episode 135 Bri Hard talking about his content creator journey as well as our two part content creators panel Spice Guys Side A and Side B Brian is @downunderbri on just about everything where you can find all his spicy links Twitter – twitter.com/downunderbri Instagram – instagram.com/downunderbri TikTok tiktok.com/discover/Down-under-bri …and Guy Films Guy on Twitter – twitter.com/guyfilmsguy This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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    47 mins
  • Ep 163 – Me and You and Everyone We Blow
    Apr 11 2024
    Open relationships? For gays? Groundbreaking. Michael, Tim, and Jon explore what it means when your relationship is flexible. As all three of us are in open relationships, we discuss the pros and cons of exploring sex, intimacy, and love with more than one person - be that casual or in a polyamorous situation. We overcome jealousy, and increase communication, communication, communication! We also congratulate the newly sashed Mr International Puppy, Pup Jaxx - who traveled to Chicago to the International Pup and Trainer Competition and returned with the top nod. Congrats, Jaxx, save some time for us when you get home. Photo by Polina Tankilevitch from Pexels This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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    49 mins
  • Ep 162 – Fantastic Mr Fox
    Mar 26 2024
    Globetrotting twink and certified smol boi Benny Fox aka @melbournetwink returns to share his experiences of sex work, content creation, and sex worker safety when travelling. We discuss all things from chemsex for content creators, open relationships, and travelling solo in conservative US states. Find and follow Benny on all manner of social media and spicy sites via linktr.ee/melbournetwink Benny last joined us on our episode Sex Shooter to talk about sex worker legislation and decriminilisation This episode was recorded on the lands of the Yalukut Weelam clan of the Boon Wurrung peoples. We pay our respects to their elders, past, present and emerging, and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded. Find other JOY podcasts at joy.org.au
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    49 mins