This week we sat down with Daniel Harding – journalist ("She's a journalist!"), author, and the brilliant mind behind "Letters to My Younger Queer Self" and "Gay Man Talking."

We dive deep into Daniel's journey from closeted teenager to award-winning LGBTQ+ voice, exploring the conversations we wish we'd had growing up. From navigating coming out anxiety to building a career telling queer stories, Daniel shares the raw truths about finding your authentic self in a world that doesn't always make space for us.

Plus, we get into the messy realities of dating, the power of writing your own narrative, and why sometimes the best advice comes from looking back at who you used to be.

You can find Daniel Harding here: https://www.instagram.com/danieljharding/?hl=en

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From first flings to forever love - what really happens in queer relationships? In this episode, we’re joined by a sex and relationships therapist, Tom Bruett LMFT, who specialises in working with the LGBTQ+ community to unpack the 7 key stages many queer couples go through.

We talk about navigating hookups, emotional intimacy, communication struggles, sex ruts, healing past trauma, and building lasting connection — all through a queer-affirming lens. Whether you're single, dating, or deeply partnered, this one’s for you.

Expect honest chat, expert advice, and plenty of “ah-ha” moments.

Tom's website: https://tombruetttherapy.com/

Tom's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queerrelationshipinstitute/

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Joe Baggs (star of Gogglebox and social media!) and his boyfriend Kaine Ruddach (theatre star and now keen gardener on social media!) join us this week! From meeting at a birthday party (with some very heavy breathing involved) to moving in together after just 6 months, these two spill ALL the tea about modern gay dating.

We put them through our Red Flag, Green Flag, Beige Flag game where they accidentally call out each other's worst habits - from Joe's need to win every argument to Kaine's plant obsession that's literally taking over their house. Plus, Joel reveals why he ghosted his therapist mid-session and Kaine explains how he converted his anti-plant boyfriend into a secret plant lover.

Joe Baggs: https://www.instagram.com/joebxggs/?hl=en

Kaine Ruddach: https://www.instagram.com/kaineruddach/?hl=en

In this episode:

🚩 Dating red flags that hit way too close to home

🌱 The great indoor plant vs outdoor garden debate

🎭 Why Joe refuses to sit through a 3-hour musical (sorry, Les Mis fans)

💑 Moving from Gogglebox fame to couple content creation

🏠 Their quest for the perfect 13-foot statue (yes, really)

✈️ That time Joe disappeared for 50 minutes in West Hollywood and came back in full glitter

From therapy ghosting to BAFTA red carpets, Joe and Kaine prove that being a "happy healthy homo" means embracing your authentic self - plant obsessions, argument-winning tendencies, and all.

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After a long (and much-needed) hiatus, we’re finally back—and we’ve missed you! In this special Season 5 premiere, we catch you up on everything:

➡️ Where we’ve been

➡️ Why we took such a long break

➡️ What’s been going on behind the scenes

This season is shaping up to be our most exciting yet—with a lineup of diverse and dynamic guests spanning everything from pop culture and mental health to activism, identity, and beyond. Expect honest conversations, unexpected laughs, and moments that’ll make you think.

We also dive into the current status of our long-awaited LGBTQ+ docuseries—what’s working, what’s evolving, and how YOU can be part of its journey.

Thanks for sticking with us. Let’s make Season 5 unforgettable 💫

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After a brief break, your favorite queer podcast is back with more laughs, love, and a sprinkle of holiday cheer! This week, we dive into:

✨ Keegan’s Fabulous New Style – What’s the inspiration behind their bold look?

🎉 Planning for 2025 – Goals, dreams, and maybe a little too much ambition.

🎄 Social Events at Christmas – Surviving (and thriving) in the season of endless parties and family gatherings.

Join us for a fun, festive, and heartfelt chat as we celebrate being back together just in time for the holidays. Grab your cocoa (or wine) and let’s get into it!

💬 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe to stay updated with our weekly episodes. Share your holiday survival tips in the comments below!

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Get ready for a hilariously petty episode where we spill the tea about our most ridiculous relationship moments - from changing Netflix passwords to expensive fans being rendered useless! Plus, our listeners share their own delightfully petty and pretty stories that'll either make you feel better about yourself or give you some ideas (we're not judging! 👀).

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Let our paid partner BetterHelp connect you to a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home. Visit https://betterhelp.com/happyhealthyhomo and enjoy a special discount on your first month.

If you have any questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are credentialed, their privacy policy, or therapist compensation model, check out this FAQ: https://www.betterhelp.com/your-questions-answered/

Join us for a special podcast episode where we read and answer messages from our listeners! This week we help three different people from our community with their questions and problems that they have emailed to us. Some shocking stories here from relationships to cheating - and yes, we're totally qualified to give advice (we googled "how to give advice" and everything!).

Want us to answer your question or give advice about your dilemma? Send us an email (hello@happyhealthyhomo.com) and you could be featured in our next episode!

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