In this powerful season finale of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey sit down for one of their most honest conversations yet—opening up about how they each found their way into advocacy, what pushed them to share their HS stories publicly, and how their friendship has become a defining force in their lives and in the men’s HS community.

Brotherhood Advocacy

Together, they reflect on the moments that changed everything:
• Joey battling fear and stigma before finally hitting “publish” on his first HS video
• Parish uses music to cope with pain, then discovers the impact of telling his story
• The burnout, the breakthroughs, and the unexpected opportunities that followed
• The first time they met in person—and how that moment cemented the future of the Brotherhood
• The responsibility and reality of being male advocates in a space where men are rarely visible

This episode is full of gratitude, brotherhood, vulnerability, and real talk about what it means to carry this condition while trying to help others do the same. They give each other their flowers, honor how far they’ve come, and talk frankly about the emotional and physical weight of advocacy—reminding listeners that even patient leaders are still patients.

If you’ve ever felt alone, misunderstood, or unsure where your story fits, this episode will remind you that your voice matters—and you don’t have to carry this alone.

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In this powerful and deeply honest episode of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey sit down with Dr. Katelyn Baker for a conversation that every man needs to hear. Recorded during Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, this crossover-style episode dives into the emotional realities men face—especially those living with HS—around identity, relationships, vulnerability, and self-worth.

The guys open up about the challenges of maintaining mental well-being, the pressure to “be strong,” and the lifelong habit many men develop of putting others first while silently struggling. With compassion and clarity, Dr. Katelyn helps them unpack patterns of overcompensation, masking, and losing yourself in relationships, reminding listeners that you don’t have to earn love through performance and that authenticity matters more than perfection.

Together, they explore:
• The emotional exhaustion of pretending to be “the strong one.”
• Why many men feel unworthy of love—and how to challenge that belief
• The fear of therapy and how to safely approach it
• How partners and friends can support men without enabling codependency
• The importance of reframing, emotional awareness, and slowing down
• What it really means to be a “good man” when you're learning to prioritize yourself

This episode is not just a conversation—it’s a mirror. Whether you’re navigating chronic illness, relationships, or your own mental health journey, this dialogue offers powerful reminders: you are worthy, you deserve support, and taking care of yourself does not make you any less of a man.

For more HS resources, mental health tools, and community programs, visit hsconnect.org.

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In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey dive deep into what true friendship — and true brotherhood — actually means when you’re living with HS. Using their own stories of losing friendships, gaining real ones, outgrowing old habits, and learning how to build healthier connections, they unpack the emotional reality many men with chronic illness silently navigate.

Parish and Joey also share personal stories of the people who did show up — the ones who adapted, stayed, listened, and grew with them. They talk about building a new definition of brotherhood, one built not on drinking culture or shared distractions, but on vulnerability, honesty, and a mutual desire to become better men.

This episode is a powerful reminder that losing friendships doesn’t mean you’ve failed — sometimes it means you’ve finally made room for the relationships you truly deserve.

Find more support, education, and community for men with HS at hsconnect.org.

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In this unfiltered episode of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey dive into some of the biggest misconceptions, myths, and home remedies circulating in the HS community — especially those that impact men. From the false belief that HS is caused by weight, to the widespread (and damaging) idea that HS only affects women, the guys break down what the science actually says and share real-life experiences of living with HS as men.

They also tackle home remedies head-on — the helpful, the questionable, and the downright wild. From hot compresses and meditation to onions, Vicks, garlic cloves, celery juice, and crushed ibuprofen “pastes,” nothing is off-limits. With honesty and humor, they discuss where these ideas come from, what can actually support healing, and why so many people in pain are drawn to “miracle cures.”

This episode also includes a conversation about snake oil salesmen — those who prey on the HS community’s vulnerability and desperation by selling fake cures and unproven treatments. Parish and Joey explain how to spot red flags, protect your wallet, and make informed decisions about your health.

Whether you're newly diagnosed or have been living with HS for years, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and a reminder that men with HS deserve representation, compassion, and real information.

For trustworthy HS education, resources, and support, visit hsconnect.org.

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In Season 2, Episode 6 of HS Brotherhood, hosts Parish and Joey get real about what it means to be an HS warrior both in and out of the workforce. This honest, vulnerable, and deeply relatable conversation explores the challenges men face when trying to balance chronic illness, work responsibilities, financial pressures, and personal identity.

Joey shares what it’s like to continue working full-time while managing unpredictable HS flares, the mental load of staying focused in a public safety role, and how supportive coworkers and accommodations have helped him keep going. Parish opens up about the emotional and financial reality of having to leave the workforce due to HS—and what it took to rebuild his confidence, rediscover purpose, and transition into advocacy.

Together, they unpack:
– The pressure men face to “push through” even when their bodies are struggling
– Embarrassing moments, stigma, and the fear of being misunderstood at work
– How to communicate with supervisors and advocate for accommodations
– The mental health toll of lost income, isolation, and identity changes
– The hope found in community, purpose, and reclaiming your story

This episode is for every man who has ever felt torn between showing up for others and taking care of himself, and for anyone who wants to better understand the reality of HS in everyday life.

🔗 Listen, share, and find community resources at: hsconnect.org

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Parish and Joey join Brindley and Cyd for a deep, unfiltered conversation about what it means to be a man living with Hidradenitis Suppurativa. This crossover episode pulls back the curtain on the experiences most men carry silently—including the pressures of dating, showing up in relationships, managing health setbacks, and redefining what strength really looks like.

Inside this conversation, they dive into:
• The truth about dating with HS and deciding when to disclose
• Intimacy struggles men rarely admit—including fear, shame, and ED
• Losing independence and learning to accept help
• Challenging the idea that “providing = masculinity”
• Why the HS Brotherhood group matters—and how it’s creating a safe space for men to finally talk openly

If you’ve ever felt isolated or like no one understands what you’re carrying, this episode is a reminder: you’re not alone, and your story matters.

Learn more about HS Brotherhood and community resources at hsconnect.org.

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Joey and Parish take listeners back to where it all started — the origins of The HS Brotherhood. From a simple idea sparked during an HS advocacy project to a thriving community of men supporting one another through honesty, humor, and healing, the brothers reflect on how this space came to life.

They share the real story behind the vision — from Joey’s early dream of reaching men through barbershop talks to the creation of a safe, judgment-free community where men with Hidradenitis Suppurativa (HS) can speak openly about pain, resilience, and growth.

This episode dives deep into:

• The birth of The Brotherhood and the passion behind its mission
• How advocacy and mentorship transformed both hosts’ lives
• Breaking the stigma around men’s health and vulnerability
• What it means to lead with heart, honesty, and brotherhood

It’s more than a conversation — it’s a look at how two advocates turned shared pain into purpose, creating a movement that’s helping men find strength in connection.

🎧 Listen now, and join The Brotherhood at hsconnect.org

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In this powerful episode of the HS Brotherhood, hosts Joey and Parish sit down with Barry from Ireland — a man whose decades-long journey with hidradenitis suppurativa (HS) reveals the pain, misdiagnoses, and perseverance it takes to find answers.

Barry shares how he went nearly 20 years without a proper diagnosis, enduring countless surgeries and stigma, before discovering not only his condition but his purpose as an advocate. Together, they discuss resilience, the evolution of treatment, and how speaking out can inspire others still living in silence.

For more resources, visit hsconnect.org

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