Amazing years don’t just happen by accident; they are planned. But as much as I love a good planner, this episode isn't about checkboxes & productivity hacks. It’s about outlining the true intention of our lives & deciding exactly how we want our days to feel. Whether you’re joining me at the start of the year or catching this later on, it is never the wrong time to reset your energy.

Today, I’m opening up my own notebook to share how I’m stepping into 2026—from showcasing my "Slytherin Alchemist" vibes to finding more sweet "momma life" rituals. We’re talking about the power of romanticizing your life, even the parts you usually dread, & why we need to prioritize rituals that have flow & vibe over rigid, soul-crushing routines.

I also get honest about the "*uck It" list—identifying the goals, habits, & mindsets that simply no longer fit who we are becoming. We’ll discuss where to lower our expectations, how to pre-plan for when things go wrong, & the importance of setting hard boundaries on the energy we allow into our space. Let’s stop letting the year just happen to us & start creating a life that feels as good as it looks.

In the alchemist lounge-

What is one small adjustment you’re making to get big changes in ’26?

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Are you tired of twisting yourself into pretzels just to make other people comfortable? Double-guessing every decision on how the outside world will perceive it. Why do we dedicate so much of our energy into putting others first?

This week we're challenging that deeply ingrained habit of prioritizing everyone else's wants & opinions over our own. It is time to stop editing yourself to fit someone else’s script & start investing that energy into the only person who is with us every moment of our lives: You!

We’re discussing everything from designing your home for your actual reality & wearing what lights you up in that uniquely you way, to setting boundaries that keeps that fire focused where it brings you the most good, & the fact that buying those pre-made groceries is a completely valid lifestyle choice you shouldn't feel guilty about!

We're shrugging off the side-eye & the inevitable questions that come when you finally drop the act & start living for you. Because let's be real, those suffocating, pre-made molds? Nobody is happy in them. It's officially time to stop sacrificing the parts of yourself that sparkle just to keep the miserable crowd comfortable.

We're breaking up with the habit of putting ourselves last & exploring how to stop defining our worth by other people’s visions to start building a life that feels 100% right for us.

Choosing yourself isn’t selfish—it’s the foundation of a life that actually fits & prioritizing your joy is one of the smartest moves you can make.

Go be the main event you were always meant to be!

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Stop comparing your messy beginning to someone else's polished middle.

On this episode, we break down the reality of skill development & why true flow takes years, not weeks. The powerful truth is that everything excellent in life is a skill, not a secret talent.

From personal style & communication to career mastery & setting boundaries, everything you admire is a set of skills that need to be learned & practiced.

Come along as we reveal the true, rewarding price of "effortless" success & discuss how to apply a skill-building mindset to every area of your life for true, lasting transformation.

Building genuine mastery & reaching a state of effortless flow requires a dedicated journey that begins with a crucial mindset shift: you must stop comparing your day-one efforts to someone else's year-ten success, as this is the fastest route to quitting. Instead, you need to conduct an honest skill audit, identifying where your current skill deficits lie, & consciously choose to embrace the necessary, often awkward, "suck" phase of initial growth. This commitment to practice is how you effectively build the fundamental skills that lead not only to competence but to a truly genuine & effortless life.

The Alchemy Homework!

Ready to turn practice into power? Ask yourself:

1. What are the areas of your life you need to build skills in so that you can live your ideal life?
2. What is a small skill that will make you feel like a powerhouse—something special to you—that you want to develop over the next year (or maybe season)?

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Why do we love fall so much? Is it the elegance of layered styles? The beauty of nurturing connections & bringing warmth into our homes? Or is it the sheer power of costumes' ability to showcase hidden parts of ourselves & the pure joy of dedicating a day to ridiculous fun?

Join me on a journey of self-discovery as we uncover the magic of autumn & how deeply its cycles reflect our own lives!

We're exploring the profound connection between the season's transformative beauty & our need for personal growth. Diving into the philosophy of letting go of the old & making space to fully embrace the vital moments of feeding your core.

We also take a moment to discuss the incredible community we are building with Fun Life Alchemy & the immense power each person has to change the world just by being their authentic self.

Fall is not just a season; it's the ultimate time for transformation. We challenge the old mindset, look inward, & build something new. Why wait for the New Year? Let's work together to harness this powerful energy & start building the foundation for those goals now!

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This week, we're making history by welcoming our very first guest: my ride-or-die weirdness & philosophy buddy, Quinn!

We're swapping secrets on how to stop running from the boring parts of life (& how the mundane actually builds the epic moments). Then, we take a mind-altering deep dive into coping with happiness (yes, it’s harder than it sounds!), & get wonderfully sidetracked on the beautiful art of getting passionate about others' excitement.

Finally, we close our chat by setting powerful intentions under the Hunter Moon, capitalizing on our hard-earned wisdom & harnessing it to transform past mistakes & current struggles into a future of alchemical gold.

Grab your headphones & a nice brew—this is friendship, philosophy, & maybe a little bit of beautiful chaos. You won't want to miss our debut guest!

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Get ready to ditch the gloom & embrace the deliciously deliberate life because this week on the podcast, we're diving straight into the core philosophy: living like you are going to die. 💀

Now, before you get morbid, hear me out. This isn't about doom—it's about designing your life so you stop being a spectator & start living intentionally, every single day.

That means embracing my inner "selfish bitch" & look at everything I do through the lens of: how does this benefit me & make my life genuinely better?
It sounds harsh, but here’s the secret: when you build a world that genuinely makes you happy, you show up as a better partner, friend, neighbor, & human.

No more autopilot! Are you randomly bleeding money on things you don't even care about? Throwing on clothes that make you feel meh? Wasting precious time with people who don't absolutely thrill you?

It's time to put your life under the microscope & ask the ultimate question: "Is how I'm showing up day by day reflective of the legacy I want to leave behind?" Because I want to be able to slap my name—with a confident, proud flourish—on every single day I live. Let's dive into how you can, too!

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Have you ever wondered why some connections just don't feel right, even when there's no drama? What if leaving a relationship wasn't about who's right or wrong? In this episode, we're diving into the subtle, sometimes invisible reasons relationships shift, dissolve, or simply struggle to get off the ground. We're talking the messy truths behind different love languages, clashing communication styles, mismatched vibes, future wants that simply don't align, & all the tiny things in life that don't quite sync up.

As well as unpacking the idea that it's okay to admit you can't live up to what's important to someone else.

Let's explore why friendships, romantic relationships, & even jobs sometimes just don't work out, no villain required. And accept that sometimes, the best choice for both people is a change of direction.

Because the longer you stay on the wrong train, the more expensive it is to get where you're supposed to be.

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I'm getting heated & dropping the cold hard truth about why your life feels so shitty.

This week, we're tackling the endless cycle of complaining & calling out the feeble excuses. We'll get into the science of confirmation bias —how your brain works against you to confirm your chronic negative narrative— & then dive into two rules that will change your life.

Rule #1: Don't bitch what you're not trying to fix. We’ll discuss why this simple rule is the key to personal progress, from dating to your career to every other thing in your life. Rule #2: Don't kiss stupid. I won't feel bad for you when you're the one sabotaging your own life.

It's about living intentionally, fixing the little annoyances, & putting in the work to make your life a little better every day.

This is a call to action! Are you ready to stop making excuses, put in the work, & start building the life you actually want?

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