What if your kitchen could be more than a place to cook? In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, Licensed Therapist and Mom Coach Vanessa De Jesus Guzman speaks with Janet Iri, founder of My Mindful Kitchen and creator of the MMK Method.

Janet brings over 25 years of experience in hospitality, education, and sustainability — and she believes the kitchen is where parenting, connection, and mindfulness come alive. Together, we explore how everyday food routines can teach kids gratitude, life skills, and eco-friendly habits, while also reducing food waste at home.

This isn’t about picture-perfect meals. It’s about creating moments of learning, laughter, and connection around the table. Whether you’re looking to involve your kids in cooking, reduce your grocery waste, or simply bring more presence to mealtimes, this episode offers practical strategies you can use right away.

EPISODE DESCRIPTION

• Why the kitchen is the perfect place to teach kids life skills and values
• Practical ways to reduce food waste and save money at home
• How mindful eating builds gratitude and family connection
• Creative ways to involve kids in shopping, cooking, and meal planning
• What the Mindful Kitchen Method is and how it can help your family
  
  
  

TUNE IN TO LEARN
✔ How to transform mealtimes into mindful, meaningful family moments
✔ Easy strategies to reduce food waste in your kitchen
✔ Fun and simple ways to get kids engaged with food
✔ Why gratitude and curiosity matter at the dinner table

FREEBIE

https://www.mymindfulkitchen.com/ebook-becoming-a-mindful-foodie

FIND JANET

• https://www.mymindfulkitchen.com/
• https://www.facebook.com/mmkmethod/
• https://www.instagram.com/mmkmethod/

TAKEAWAY MESSAGE
Your kitchen can be more than a place to make meals — it can be a space for connection, gratitude, and teaching kids lessons that last a lifetime.

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Ever snap at your kids because they asked what’s for dinner… while you were literally cooking dinner? You’re not alone — and it doesn’t mean you’re falling apart. It means you’re human.

In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, Licensed Therapist and Latina Mom Coach Vanessa De Jesus Guzman reminds us that you don’t need to be in crisis to deserve support. Mental health isn’t only about anxiety or depression — sometimes it looks like irritability, exhaustion, guilt, or feeling disconnected.

Vanessa shares practical ways to recognize when you’re “in a funk” and how to shift before burnout sets in. She also explains the difference between therapy, mom coaching, and community support — and how each can help you reset, reconnect, and feel more like yourself again.

EPISODE DESCRIPTION

• 5 signs you may be in a funk (that most moms miss)
• What happens when we keep pushing through without support
• 5 simple, research-backed tips to reset before burnout
• The cultural lens of mental health and why unlearning “just push through” matters
• Therapy vs. coaching vs. community: how to know what’s right for you
• A short guided meditation to help you shift perspective and find support
  
  
  

TUNE IN TO LEARN:

• How to recognize the early warning signs of burnout in moms
• Why support isn’t just for crisis moments
• Real, doable strategies to manage stress and overwhelm
• The benefits of therapy, mom coaching, and community support
• Why early support builds resilience for you and your family
  
  
  

TAKEAWAY MESSAGE:
You don’t need to be falling apart to deserve support. Taking care of your mental health can look like therapy, coaching, or simply reaching out for connection. Start small, start now — because when moms are supported, families are supported.

LET’S STAY CONNECTED
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🎧 Podcast: https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast
📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/counselorvdejesus/
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Birthdays have a way of sneaking up on us. When we were kids, it was all about cake, candles, and balloons. As adults - especially as moms — they can start to feel like just another date on the calendar, squeezed between school emails, soccer games, and endless to-do lists.

But what if birthdays weren’t just about a number? What if they became checkpoints, gentle pauses to reflect on how far we’ve come and what we want for the season ahead?

In this heartfelt episode, Vanessa - licensed therapist, mom coach, and host of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast - shares her own mid-forties reflections and the lessons that come with raising both a tween and a toddler at the same time. With humor, honesty, and plenty of real talk, she dives into how aging can feel less like loss and more like coming back to yourself.

Vanessa also opens up about the simple practices she uses around her birthday to reset, writing down reflections, creating an “I Want List,” and giving herself permission slips for rest, joy, and change. And she reminds moms everywhere that we don’t have to wait until birthdays or New Year’s to check in with ourselves.

Whether you’re in survival mode, juggling all the things, or just needing a reminder that it’s never too late to get yourself back, this episode offers grounding, laughter, and a mindful meditation to carry with you.

EPISODE DESCRIPTION

• Why birthdays can serve as powerful checkpoints for growth
• How motherhood changes the way we see aging, and ourselves
• Simple reflection practices you can start today
• The importance of weekly pauses to reconnect with yourself

TUNE IN TO LEARN

• How aging can be an act of alignment, not invisibility
• Why moms often lose themselves in the roles they carry
• Two simple ways to pause and reflect without waiting for New Year’s
• The power of permission slips for joy, rest, and rediscovering yourself

TAKEAWAY MESSAGE
Getting older isn’t about losing who we are - it’s about finding our way back. With each year, we’re invited to stand more firmly in our truth, honor our growth, and give ourselves permission to be more us.

Parents.Com Referenced Article

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Discover how to lighten the mom mental load, reduce overwhelm, and create real mental space. In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, learn practical tips to manage cognitive and emotional labor so you can rest without guilt and show up with more presence.

Vanessa De Jesus Guzman dives into a struggle so many moms know all too well... the mental load. You finally have the house to yourself, the quiet you’ve been craving… yet instead of feeling rested, you’re still carrying the invisible weight of planning, remembering, and holding it all together.

Vanessa breaks down what the mental load really is, why it doesn’t disappear when life gets quiet, and how it’s quietly shaping your energy, relationships, and ability to rest. With a mix of humor and practical advice, this episode is a reminder that rest isn’t earned - it’s essential.

EPISODE DESCRIPTION:

• What the “mental load” is and how it shows up for moms
• The surprising statistic that reveals the imbalance in household mental effort
• Why quiet time can still feel overwhelming
• Practical strategies to lighten your mental load
• How 1:1 coaching can help you create real mental space without guilt
  
  
  

TUNE IN TO LEARN:

• The difference between cognitive labor, emotional labor, and invisible multitasking
• How the default assumption of leadership plays into overwhelm
• Why reframing rest changes everything
• Simple, actionable ways to reduce mental load starting today
  
  
  

TAKEAWAY MESSAGE:
The mental load doesn’t disappear just because the noise does. Lightening it isn’t about doing more, it’s about choosing what’s yours to carry, letting go of the rest, and giving yourself permission to rest without guilt.

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120 COPING SKILLS
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills


CULTIVATE CALM CHALLENGE
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-cultivatingcalmchallenge

1:1 PRIVATE COACHING FOR MOMS

https://www.amigamoms.com/coaching

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Motherhood changes everything - your brain, your identity, and the way you move through the world. In this episode of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, Vanessa welcomes Jeanne Clevenger, licensed clinical psychologist and mom of four, to talk about the overlooked transition called matrescence.

From the fog of “mom brain” to the pressures of postpartum depression and anxiety, Jeanne shares her personal story of raising four kids (including twins) while navigating identity shifts and professional changes. Together, we unpack the science behind postpartum brain changes, the truth about motherhood’s mental load, and the importance of reclaiming time for yourself without guilt.

This honest and practical conversation is a reminder that motherhood isn’t about doing it all perfectly… it’s about awareness, intention, and giving yourself permission to grow alongside your children.

EPISODE DESCRIPTION

• Jeanne’s journey through postpartum depression, anxiety, and raising four kids
• The science behind matrescence and why “mom brain” feels so real
• The differences between therapy and coaching for moms
• Creating intentional family values that anchor your home
• How to find time for yourself without guilt

TUNE IN TO LEARN

• What matrescence really means and why every mom experiences it
• How postpartum brain changes impact memory, identity, and connection
• Practical strategies to reduce the mental load of motherhood
• The role of therapy vs. coaching and when each is most helpful
• Simple ways to bring more intention and calm into your daily life

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Postpartum to Professional Coaching Program: postpartumtoprofessional.com
  
  
• Free Guide for Moms Returning to Work: https://www.postpartumtoprofessional.com/free-guide-podcast-listeners
  
  
• Amiga Moms™ Private Coaching with Vanessa: amigamoms.com/coaching

TAKEAWAY MESSAGE
Motherhood is messy, beautiful, and ever-changing… and that’s normal. By naming the identity shifts of matrescence, giving ourselves grace, and staying intentional abou

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120 COPING SKILLS
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills


CULTIVATE CALM CHALLENGE
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1:1 PRIVATE COACHING FOR MOMS

https://www.amigamoms.com/coaching

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Summer’s over… and somehow we’re already juggling new schedules, endless forms, school supply lists, and those rushed morning routines. For some moms, it feels like a sigh of relief. For others, the chaos is just beginning.

In this season 7 kickoff of the Free to Be Mindful Podcast, Vanessa De Jesus Guzman, Licensed Therapist, Mom Coach, and retired educator, shares a fresh perspective on navigating this transition with more ease and less pressure. Drawing from her Mindful Living Framework, Vanessa offers practical ways to create steady routines, shift morning energy, and bring calm back into your home (and your own mind).

EPISODE DESCRIPTION

• How to release summer guilt and start the school year fresh
• Simple routines that help both moms and kids feel steady
• Tips to create calmer mornings without overhauling everything
• How gratitude rituals can transform busy evenings
• A short guided meditation to set your intention for a calmer school year
  
  
  

TUNE IN TO LEARN:

• Why September feels like a natural reset for moms
• 5 mindful tips to reduce overwhelm during back-to-school
• How to use awareness and intentional action to feel more grounded
• Ways to create calm moments for yourself amidst new routines
  
  

TAKEAWAY MESSAGE:
Back-to-school doesn’t have to mean losing yourself in chaos. With small, intentional shifts, you can create space for calm mornings, connected evenings, and routines that truly support your family. Listen in, take a deep breath, and remember… you’re always free to be mindful.

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120 COPING SKILLS
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills


CULTIVATE CALM CHALLENGE
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-cultivatingcalmchallenge

1:1 PRIVATE COACHING FOR MOMS

https://www.amigamoms.com/coaching

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This season was filled with powerful stories, inspiring guests, and real-life moments that reminded us: this is more than a podcast... it’s a movement.

In this heartfelt finale of Season 6, Vanessa reflects on the highs and the lessons, shares fun behind-the-scenes moments, and gives you a sneak peek of what’s coming in Season 7. With 20 incredible guests — including doctors, therapists, entrepreneurs, and real moms navigating real life — this season offered wisdom, validation, and connection in every episode.

Plus, Vanessa shares how you can pause this summer without guilt, how to stay connected between seasons, and a limited-time free audiobook gift that you don’t want to miss.

EPISODE DESCRIPTION

• A look back at the most listened-to and most watched episodes of Season 6
• Shoutout to the most memorable guest moments and listener feedback
• Why the shift from two episodes a week was necessary (spoiler: motherhood!)
• How you can also slow down this summer, guilt-free
• Summer podcast fun: Tea and Takeaways: A Therapist's POV
• Behind-the-scenes of what’s coming in Season 7
• A special invitation to Amiga Moms™ Private Coaching
• A free audiobook gift from the founders of Brand Builders Group

TUNE IN TO LEARN

• Why Season 6 felt more personal and powerful than ever before
• What slowing down actually looks like in real life (and why it’s okay)
• How to give yourself permission to reset without falling behind
• Ways to stay grounded, supported, and intentional this summer
• How to access a free resource to help you grow your voice and visibility

FREE GIFT

Brand Builders Group Limited Time FREE audio book download: Wealthy and Well Known

https://wealthyandwellknown.com/audiobook-rpp/?affiliate_code=161478

TAKEAWAY MESSAGE
This season may be ending, but the impact continues. Whether you're catching up on past episodes, embracing a summer slowdown, or joining Amiga Moms™ for deeper support, know this: you're not alone — and you’re always Free to Be Mindful.

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120 COPING SKILLS
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills


CULTIVATE CALM CHALLENGE
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-cultivatingcalmchallenge

1:1 PRIVATE COACHING FOR MOMS

https://www.amigamoms.com/coaching

WATCH THE PODCAST ON YOUTUBE:
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GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT!
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What if you didn’t have to wait for a breakdown or life crisis to start living with purpose? In this episode, Vanessa is joined by Malaysia Harrell, a spiritual transformation coach, licensed psychotherapist, veteran, and speaker. Malaysia shares how a near-death experience became the turning point that led her to surrender, heal, and fully step into alignment with her life’s mission.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly putting others first, stuck in survival mode, or unsure how to make time for yourself, this conversation will speak to you. Malaysia opens up about the power of saying no, the importance of listening to your body, and why your legacy begins now, not someday in the future.

You don’t need to wait for the right moment to take action. This episode will leave you feeling inspired to live with intention and create a life that reflects who you really are.

REFRENCED LINKS:

https://www.malaysiaharrell.com/

https://www.blissfullifeconsulting.com

https://www.instagram.com/malaysiahharrell/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/malaysia-h-harrell-a322b19b/

https://www.instagram.com/malaysiahharrell/

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120 COPING SKILLS
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-120copingskills


CULTIVATE CALM CHALLENGE
https://www.freetobemindful.com/podcast-cultivatingcalmchallenge

1:1 PRIVATE COACHING FOR MOMS

https://www.amigamoms.com/coaching

WATCH THE PODCAST ON YOUTUBE:
https://www.youtube.com/@counselorvdejesus


GET THE MUSE HEADBAND AT A DISCOUNT!
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DISCLAIMER:
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