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  • EP 33| Don't Drop Your Faith: Healing After Church Trauma

    EP 33| Don't Drop Your Faith: Healing After Church Trauma
    Oct 6 2025
    Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. ✅ Join my soulful restoration Christian women's retreat ⁠⁠ Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Get ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT Mav: Child of God, hear me out. I've seen a lot of young people leaving the church, leaving their faith. As a therapist, I've supported many through spiritual abuse and religious trauma. Now, I'm a believer in Christ, so I can speak about your faith in Christ and the church trauma some have experienced. If you've experienced church trauma, chances are you might have also faced childhood abuse or neglect. From my clinical observation, people with untreated trauma often gravitate towards highly structured institutions or communities. These structures provide a sense of grounding and survival. But as you heal, you might realize you don't want to stay in such a controlling environment. Leaving these communities can be re-traumatizing, but it's okay to step away. Mav: There's a local church assembly where you go for fellowship, hear the word of God, volunteer, and form connections. Then there's the universal church, which knows no borders, race, or gender. It's the church you belong to when you receive Jesus as your Savior. While you may leave your local assembly, don't leave your faith in Jesus. Your faith is personal. Paul said, "I bear on me the mark of our Lord Jesus Christ." Your faith in Jesus is personal and not tied to what others did or didn't do. Jesus died for you, and His blood brings you value. Don't cast away your confidence in Jesus because of misunderstandings at the local church. Mav: The devil knows the value of your faith. You can trust God for a job, a good marriage, and wonderful things through Jesus' name. The blood of Jesus gives you authority on earth. Don't drop your faith for anyone. They didn't die for you; Jesus did. If you've experienced trauma, neglect, or abuse, you need your faith. Your healing is spiritual, not just psychological. I can talk about psychological techniques, but I choose a faith-based approach. Your faith is crucial, and the devil knows it. Whatever disappointment or hurt you face, seek therapy with a trauma-informed therapist. But don't leave your faith behind. Mav: It's okay to step away from a local assembly while you heal. We're blessed in this generation with access to the word of God through YouTube and Christian apps. Your faith has cash and social values. Wherever you are, make sure your first connection is to Jesus. Stay there. I'm going to pray with you before I leave. Mav: Father, in the name of Jesus, I pray for every heart that might be broken, disappointed, rejected, or abandoned, especially those who've experienced trauma. I pray that you heal every heart and strengthen them in these last days. Keep your faith in Jesus. Thank you, Father, in Jesus' name, amen. Take care, stay confident, stay beautiful. Until next time.
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    8 mins
  • Ep 32| CHRISTIAN DATING: HOW TO HEAL FIRST AND ATTRACT LASTING LOVE

    Ep 32| CHRISTIAN DATING: HOW TO HEAL FIRST AND ATTRACT LASTING LOVE
    Sep 29 2025
    You can binge every dating podcast or you tube video. You can read about attachment styles. You can point out red flags like a pro. But insight isn’t the same as healing. I hope this episode blesses you! Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. ✅ Join my Live Workshop: LUMINOUS, YOUR ULTIMATE LOVE LIFE GLOW UP⁠⁠ What You’ll Get Inside This Workshop: The Real Tea 🍵 — Why you keep being drawn to emotionally unavailable people (and how to break that cycle for good).Stop Guessing — Get clear on the stages of a romantic relationship so you know where you stand, every time.Faith-Led Roadmap 🙏🏽 — A simple, biblical framework that actually makes sense for modern dating.Master the Vibe Check — How to spot 🚩 red flags and 💚 green flags with clarity and confidence.Your Action Plan — A step-by-step, faith-led roadmap to your love life glow-up. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Get Instant Coaching for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT 🎙️ Podcast Episode 35: CHRISTIAN DATING: HOW TO HEAL FIRST AND ATTRACT LASTING LOVE Intro (0:00 – 1:00) “You can binge every dating podcast or you tube video. You can read about attachment styles. You can point out red flags like a pro. But insight isn’t the same as healing. Real healing isn’t just in your head — it’s in your body, your heart, your nervous system. It’s learning how to calm your anxiety, regulate your emotions, and actually sit with your pain without numbing it away with busyness, food, or even ministry. When you start doing this deeper work, love gets less confusing. Friendships feel lighter. Dating feels less like survival and more like discovery. That’s when you know you’re healing Let’s be real — dating is hard. Like, really hard. And if you’ve ever experienced abuse, neglect, or even just grown up in a home where relationships weren’t healthy, dating becomes more than just hard — it feels like warfare. Friendships are harder. Loneliness hits deeper. You might feel like everyone else is moving forward socially — they’re in relationships, they’re making friends, they’re getting married — and you’re still stuck repeating patterns that go nowhere. And if that’s you, I just want you to know: nothing is wrong with you. You’re not broken. But there may be emotional gaps that need healing. And today, we’re going to talk about why that happens — and more importantly, what you can actually do about it.” Segment 1 – Why Love Feels Hard After Wounds (1:00 – 3:00) “When you’ve grown up with trauma, rejection, or neglect, here’s the truth: you didn’t get a model for healthy love. So your nervous system — your whole emotional map — doesn’t know what safe love looks like. Instead, it looks for what’s familiar. And sometimes familiar means unsafe. That’s why you might notice patterns like: 👉 Constantly ending up with emotionally unavailable people. 👉 Struggling to keep friendships alive. 👉 Feeling anxious, always waiting for someone to leave. 👉 Or being so guarded that nobody ever really gets close. And if you’ve been asking yourself: ‘Why can’t I make this work? Why do I keep choosing the wrong people?’ The answer is simple but deep — emotional wounds shape attraction.” Segment 2 – Knowing Isn’t Healing (3:00 – 5:00) “You can binge every dating podcast. You can read about attachment styles. You can point out red flags like a pro. But insight isn’t the same as healing. Real healing isn’t just in your head — it’s in your body, your heart, your nervous system. It’s learning how to calm your anxiety, regulate your emotions, and actually sit with your pain without numbing it away with busyness, food, or even ministry. When you start doing this deeper work, love gets less confusing. Friendships feel lighter. Dating feels less like survival and more like discovery. That’s when you know you’re healing.” Segment 3 – The Process That Changes Everything (5:00 – 7:30) “So what does it actually take? Here are three things I teach my clients all the time: 💡 Courage to feel. Healing means letting yourself grieve the rejection or neglect you buried....
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    7 mins
  • 31| YOUR LOVE STORY'S NEW ERA: A ROADMAP TO FINDING A LASTING & GODLY LOVE

    31| YOUR LOVE STORY'S NEW ERA: A ROADMAP TO FINDING A LASTING & GODLY LOVE
    Sep 22 2025
    Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. ✅ Join my soulful restoration Christian women's retreat ⁠⁠ Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Get ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. Transcript: Today we're going to be discussing an important topic that I title "Understanding the Stages of Relationship." How to Define Your New Relationship, especially for those who have just exited an abusive relationship. As a relationship and couple therapist, I frequently encounter clients who are re-entering relationships and often find themselves in a disappointing state or start experiencing what I call ambivalence in their relationship. What I usually ask is, what is the status of your new relationship? Their responses are often uncertain. Are you husbands or wives or boyfriends or living lovers? Often, they don't know the next stage of their relationship. Meanwhile, they have become sexually and emotionally intimate. They have pooled resources to make investments in properties, buy pets, and generally live like a couple without establishing the necessary structure for the success of their relationship. So if you've just ended an abusive relationship or you've experienced family of origin trauma, you are more vulnerable than those who have not. Therefore, it is crucial to take your romantic relationships more seriously and don't treat them casually, particularly if you're over 30 years or you feel like you don't have time to waste on relationships going nowhere. Relationships are complicated and they require patience, understanding, and effective communication skills to maintain that healthy connection with your partner. Research shows that when individuals take their time before re-entering romantic relationships, they are more likely to have successful long-term relationships. By taking time to know who you're getting involved with, you better understand your values, their values, their beliefs, and goals, and that helps you to determine if you're compatible and if your relationship has the potential to last. Also, when you take your time before entering a romantic relationship, it helps you prioritize your own needs and ensures that while you're going into that new relationship, you're going in for the right reasons and you're not just feeling pressured to do so. Let's discuss the different stages of a relationship. Number one, we all know is romantic attraction. Wow, is that first time you meet someone, you're drawn to their physical appearance, their personality, or other traits. It's during this stage, it's important that you're aware of your own feelings and you communicate them openly with your partner. You might have doubts or fears about entering a relationship, but take the time to explore those feelings and discuss them in your interactions. If you're finding this video helpful, please give it a thumbs up, comment below with your thoughts, and don't forget to subscribe to my channel for more insightful content. Your support means the world to me. Also, I do provide Zoom or online consultations. You can visit my website, wholesomecounseling.com, and book a consultation if you need help. All right, let's discuss the second stage, which is the stage of romance. Here is where the relationship starts to deepen and become more intimate. Couples begin to explore each other's personalities, their values, and beliefs through what I call self-disclosing conversation. It's that time you express your feelings more openly and you engage in activities that ...
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    9 mins
  • 30 | FAITH, BUSINESS AND SELF AWARENESS

    30 | FAITH, BUSINESS AND SELF AWARENESS
    Sep 8 2025

    In this insightful podcast episode, my guest, Faye Matete, the CEO of Asuna Group, shares her journey of faith, entrepreneurship, and personal growth.

    ✅ Join my soulful restoration Christian women's retreat ⁠⁠

    Faye discusses her mission to support Christian entrepreneurs through the Asuna Group, emphasizing the importance of faith-based investing and leadership.

    She reflects on her personal journey, including her background in pharmacy, her pivot to marketplace ministry, and her work with Destiny Rescue, a charity focused on rescuing children from exploitation.

    Faye opens up about her personal challenges and how her faith provided stability during difficult times.

    She highlights the significance of emotional healing and self-awareness, sharing her experiences with counselling and the impact of EMDR therapy. The conversation delves into the fear of success, the importance of saying "yes" to opportunities, and the role of faith in overcoming personal and professional barriers.

    Throughout the episode, Faye emphasizes the need for healed and whole individuals to succeed in both marketplace and family settings. She shares her passion for helping others discover their purpose and the transformative power of faith in her life.

    The discussion concludes with Faye's contact information and an invitation for listeners to connect with her and explore the work of the Asuna Group. Faye can be contacted on LinkedIn.

    Thank You! For listening/Watching.

    ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women.

    Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together

    Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible.

    Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident.

    WHAT NEXT?

    ✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.

    ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠

    📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠

    ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share.

    ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠

    ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠

    ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠

    📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.

    Hashtags:

    1. #FaithAndBusiness
    2. #WomenInLeadership
    3. #EmpowermentJourney
    4. #EmotionalHealing
    5. #ChristianEntrepreneur

    Keywords:

    1. Faith-based leadership
    2. Women empowerment
    3. Emotional healing
    4. Christian entrepreneurs
    5. Overcoming fear of success
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    33 mins
  • 29 | WORK-LIFE BALANCE: HOW TO AVOID AND HEAL FROM EXHAUSTION

    29 | WORK-LIFE BALANCE: HOW TO AVOID AND HEAL FROM EXHAUSTION
    Sep 1 2025
    Myself and guest Sarah Tse, an organizational psychologist and life coach, address the critical topic of professional Exhaustion. we both highlight how high-achieving women, particularly within the Christian faith, can get lost in the world's demands, sacrificing their well-being for success. ✅ Join my soulful restoration Christian women's retreat ⁠⁠ Sarah vulnerably shares her personal story of fatigue, triggered by redundancy and lockdown. This period of intense loneliness became a "divine pause" that forced her to realign her purpose with God. She reveals that traditional spiritual retreats often focus on intellectual knowledge, but true emotional healing from trauma and chronic fatigue requires a different approach. For her, the path to recovery came through creative and sensory tools like art, music, and essential oils, which bypass the analytical mind and provide a safe space for release. This led her to co-create her own art and aroma retreat, grounded in biblical principles but open to all women. I affirm the importance of these sacred spaces, highlighting how retreats allow the nervous system to finally "exhale" and process deep-seated emotional pain. I shared details about my own upcoming retreat, inviting listeners to a Christ-centered space for deep rest and healing. The conversation concludes with practical advice on burnout prevention. Sarah shares a coaching story, emphasizing that working on oneself is as crucial as working on a business. The episode's key takeaway is a powerful insight: when you lose joy in a task, it's a sign from God to pause, pivot, and reconsider your path. This message provides immense validation for Christian women striving to find work-life balance and a truly purpose-driven life. Thank You! For being a part of this community. Please leave me a review, share and follow. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. Keywords & Phrases: Christian women burnout Work-life balance Christian women Healing from professional exhaustion Burnout prevention for Christian leaders Emotional wellness for Christian women Christian faith and mental health Overcoming chronic fatigue Finding purpose after burnout Spiritual rest for high-achievers Hashtags: #ChristianHealing #EmotionalHealing #ChristianWomen #WorkLifeBalance #BurnoutRecovery #FaithAndWellness #PurposeDrivenLife #SelfCareSunday #TraumaInformed #FindYourJoy
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    31 mins
  • 28 | HEALING AS A CHILD FROM AN AFFAIR AND OWNING YOUR IDENTITY CONFIDENTLY

    28 | HEALING AS A CHILD FROM AN AFFAIR AND OWNING YOUR IDENTITY CONFIDENTLY
    Aug 25 2025
    Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach. Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT Host: Today, we're diving into a deeply personal and often misunderstood path: healing as an "affair-child." This is a topic that touches the very core of identity, and if this resonates with you, know that you are seen, loved, and incredibly brave. We're going to explore four powerful signs that you are truly healing and stepping into the beautiful purpose God has for you. (0:45) Sign 1: You've Processed Your Origin Story and Anchored Your Identity in Christ The first profound sign you are healing is when you've processed and truly forgiven the manner in which you were informed about your maternity or paternity. For many, this revelation comes as a rude shock, a seismic shift in understanding your past. But as you heal, you begin to normalize your birth. You recognize that it truly doesn't matter how you arrived on this earth; your fundamental identity is anchored firmly in Christ. You understand that if God allowed you to be here, if He brought you through any initial pain or confusion, and you are still here – sane, alive, and thriving – surely there is a divine purpose for your pain. Your existence is not a mistake; it is part of God's perfect plan. This shift from shock to acceptance, from questioning your origin to affirming your divine identity, is a beautiful mark of emotional healing for Christian women. (2:15) Sign 2: You've Shifted from Justifying Others to Focusing on Your Own Healing Secondly, you know you are healing when you've stopped justifying either your mother or father for the affair that led to your birth. This is a powerful pivot. You've shifted from sympathy for their choices to a laser-like focus on yourself, your feelings, and your body. This means you are actively releasing the shame, guilt, and rejection that may have been associated with your birth story. Instead of carrying their burden, you are now squarely focused on your healing. This isn't about blaming; it's about acknowledging the impact on you and choosing to nurture your own well-being. This step is crucial for overcoming family of origin trauma and reclaiming your emotional landscape. (3:45) Sign 3: You've Accepted Your Story and Crafted Your Own Narrative The third sign of profound healing is when you have accepted that you are an "affair-child" and you have become genuinely comfortable with it. In fact, you've taken ownership and created your own empowering narrative around your identity. You realize that you are not responsible for the circumstances of your birth, and therefore, you've completely released any form of guilt associated with it. You now have the agency and wisdom to choose which family members, siblings, or extended families you want to associate with. This isn't about cutting people off out of anger, but about wisely discerning who contributes to your peace and who respects your boundaries. You are defining your own tribe, rooted in love and acceptance, rather than obligation or unhealed wounds. This is true self-worth in action. (5:15) Sign 4: You've Quit Blaming and Are Fiercely Engaged in Your Purpose Finally, a powerful indicator of deep healing is that you have quit blaming your parents, recognizing that their relationship and choices are not your responsibility. You understand that your energy is better spent focusing on your own growth and flourishing. Instead, you are now keenly engaged in your divine purpose. You recognize, like biblical ...
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  • 27|SOULFUL RESTORATION WOMEN'S RETREAT LAUNCHING

    27|SOULFUL RESTORATION WOMEN'S RETREAT LAUNCHING
    Aug 12 2025
    TRANSCRIPT You know I’m a psychotherapist… but I’ll tell you this — sometimes, your deepest healing happens in connection with people who truly get you. And in my years of walking alongside high-achieving Christian women — as a therapist, as a coach, and as a sister in Christ — I’ve realised I’m not alone in this. This is exactly why retreats and wellness experiences are in such high demand right now: because they work. They pull you out of your everyday routine, place you in a safe, nurturing environment, and surround you with people who share similar values and life experiences. You feel seen. You feel heard. You feel human again. It’s not just about taking time off — it’s about creating space for deep emotional restoration, meaningful connection, and a reset for your body, mind, and spirit. Why Retreats Matter Now, let’s talk about retreats. A retreat is not just a getaway. It’s a sacred pause. An intentional stepping back from your everyday — not to escape your life, but to return to it renewed, lighter, and more grounded in who God says you are. Retreats are fantastic experiences because they pull you out of autopilot. They break your routine just enough that you can finally hear your own thoughts… and God’s voice. When you’re in a space surrounded by women who understand your values, your struggles, and your hopes, something powerful happens. You feel seen. You feel safe. You feel like you belong — without having to perform for it. My Story & The Gap I Saw I’ve been attending retreats since I was a teenager in church. And they were beautiful — I learned scripture, I grew spiritually, I built friendships. But over the years, I noticed something: Few leaders spoke openly about the pain of rejection or the ache of abandonment. Practical tools for navigating burnout were missing. And there was little space to unpack how perfectionism and people-pleasing were quietly stealing our joy. I saw so many women — smart, capable, even admired — who were performing to get noticed, validated, or loved. Outwardly confident, but inwardly tired. What I See as a Therapist And now, after more than 10 years as a psychotherapist, I can tell you: those unaddressed wounds don’t just fade away. They show up in our marriages, in our friendships, in our work. They make us overextend, overcommit, and over give until there’s nothing left. High-achieving Christian women, especially in their 20s and 30s, often come to me not because they’ve lost their faith — but because they’ve lost themselves somewhere along the way. They want to rest without guilt. They want tools grounded in both faith and psychology. They want to connect deeply with women who just get it — no explanations, no masks. Why Retreats are Powerful for Healing This is where retreats shine. When you’re away from the pressure of daily life — away from the constant doing, fixing, and caring for others — your nervous system finally exhales. You start to process things you’ve been carrying for years. In conversations over shared meals, during walks in nature, or in quiet moments of prayer, you’re able to go beyond the “I’m fine” answers and speak your truth… and be met with understanding, not judgment. It’s a safe space to release, to heal, and to remember who you are before the world told you who to be. Introducing Soulful Restoration That’s why I created Soulful Restoration — a 4-day, 3-night Christian women’s healing retreat in beautiful Victoria, Australia. It’s a Christ-centred, professionally guided space for just 8 women — designed to help you rest deeply, heal safely, and reconnect with your true self. Here’s what you can expect: Luxury coastal accommodation Delicious, nourishing meals Guided therapeutic sessions with me as your facilitator Soothing live music A curated excursion to the hot springs Time in nature for reflection and prayer An intimate sisterhood where you’ll be truly seen No New Age techniques. No ministry “fluff.” Just honest, faith-rooted emotional care in a breath taking setting. November 13–16, 2025 Victoria, Australia Imagine 100 days from now — walking away lighter, clearer, and more confident in God’s call for your life. Call to Action If your heart is stirring right now, there’s a link in the description with all the details. Go have a look — spaces are limited, and I would love for you to be part of this. And remember — if you haven’t subscribed yet, now’s the time. Like, share, leave a review, and send this to a friend who needs to hear it. You never know whose healing journey you might spark. Until next time, stay calm, stay confident, stay beautiful.
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    8 mins
  • 26| HEALING FROM FAMILY REJECTION AND FINDING YOUR PLACE

    26| HEALING FROM FAMILY REJECTION AND FINDING YOUR PLACE
    Aug 4 2025
    Hear this truth: You are not crazy, and you are not too sensitive. You've endured deep family rejection from those who should have been your safest haven. And yes, you were likely blackmailed or punished for circumstances that were not your fault. This is the painful reality for many Christian women seeking emotional healing from family of origin trauma. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Download my ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. Soulful Restoration is a 3-day healing retreat in beautiful coastal Victoria. A retreat with real conversations, meaningful connections, and deep spiritual renewal. designed for: Deep restfor your body, mind, and soul.Mental and spiritual claritythrough inspirational workshops, mindfulness, and hands-on creative sessions.Emotional renewalthrough guided aromatherapy and safe, soul-nourishing connection with other like-minded women.Luxurious accommodationand beautiful and nourishing meals.Rooted in Christian faith— No New Age or Eastern practices.Open to all womenwith a willing heart — you don’t need to be a Christian to attend. You’ve been misunderstood — by family, culture, or even your faith community. Maybe you’ve survived abuse, neglect, or simply feel alone, tired, and unsure of your purpose. If that’s you, this deeply restorative, faith-led retreat is for you. Co-facilitated by an Organisational Psychologist and an aromatherapy coach — both recently nominated for the 2025. Join here TRANSCRIPT When faced with rejection, take a moment to pause, acknowledge your emotions, and observe silence. Use this time to pray with gratitude. Seek professional counselling. Rejection can be a divine signal that God is preparing you for a greater purpose. Avoid the temptation to gossip, as this can exacerbate the situation. Instead, focus on the path forward. Look to biblical figures like Joseph and Jephthah, who exemplify resilience in the face of rejection. Forgiveness is also key. Remember that those who have wronged you may cross your path again. Respond with kindness, knowing that God often uses the very people who have hurt us to test our character. And remarkably, it's often those same individuals who will eventually ask for your help and seek to extend a hand of friendship and fellowship. SEO Keywords (for description/text): Christian women emotional healing Family rejection healing Family of origin wounds Healing from unfair punishment Emotional pain validation Christian trauma recovery Self-worth Christian women Overcoming family hurt Finding peace after rejection Christian therapy support Hashtags (for social media/podcast platforms): #ChristianHealing #FamilyRejection #EmotionalHealing #ChristianWomen #FamilyOfOriginWounds #UnfairPunishment #TraumaRecovery #SelfWorth #FaithAndHealing #HealingJourney #wholesomecounselling services #marveladeyemi Deep Research
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