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Emotional Healing for Christian Women with Marvel Adeyemi | Psychotherapist.

Emotional Healing for Christian Women with Marvel Adeyemi | Psychotherapist.

By: Marvel C. Adeyemi
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 Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, guilt, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling Worthy, Beautiful, Confident, and Calm — and doing it with God by your side. That’s the healing we begin together. 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠marveladeyemi.com.au 📌Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌 On my website, download my ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose.Marvel C. Adeyemi Christianity Spirituality
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  • EP 41| MARRIED BUT LONELY. WHY HE AVOIDS INTIMACY - HOW TO RESPOND

    EP 41| MARRIED BUT LONELY. WHY HE AVOIDS INTIMACY - HOW TO RESPOND
    Dec 1 2025
    Being married doesn't always mean being fulfilled. Are you feeling unseen? This week, I unpack the heavy burden of emotional loneliness in marriages. It's time to validate your feelings and reclaim your emotional space! What steps are you taking to nurture your emotional well-being? Drop a comment! Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. ✅ Join my soulful restoration Christian women's retreat ⁠⁠ Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Get ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ Connect with me, online for Christian Counselling and coaching. I support high-achieving Christian women or couples in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing and faith-led wisdom. 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT Title: Understanding Loneliness in Marriage: Navigating Emotional Unavailability Introduction: In today's episode of the Emotional Healing for Women podcast, I unpacked a profound yet often unspoken struggle—feeling lonely within a marriage. Many women find themselves married but emotionally isolated, especially when their spouses are emotionally unavailable. In this episode, we’ll explore this issue, drawing insights from the podcast to provide understanding and actionable steps for those grappling with this painful experience. Main Content: Section 1: The Reality of Emotional Loneliness The podcast opens with a powerful statement: "You can be married and lonely." This resonates with many who experience emotional disconnection in their marriages. Mav emphasizes that emotional loneliness is not merely physical solitude but a deep sense of being unseen and unheard by one’s partner. This feeling can lead to confusion and self-doubt, particularly when one spouse feels neglected or invalidated by the other. Section 2: The Impact of Enmeshment A significant factor contributing to emotional unavailability is enmeshment within family dynamics. Mav explains that individuals from enmeshed families often struggle with blurred boundaries, making it hard to separate their emotional needs from those of their family members. This can lead to a spouse being emotionally occupied by unresolved family issues, resulting in their inability to connect with their partner. For example, first-born children often take on caregiving roles, which can diminish their ability to recognize and articulate their own emotional needs. Section 3: The Cycle of Emotional Avoidance The podcast highlights how emotionally unavailable husbands may not even recognize their avoidance. Mav points out that many individuals learn to navigate relationships without true emotional intimacy, leading to patterns of invalidation. This can leave the lonely spouse feeling dismissed, as one listener recounted, "My husband would just say, no, that’s all in your head." This dismissal can create a cycle where the wife feels increasingly isolated and confused. Section 4: The Consequences of Emotional Neglect Mav discusses the toll that emotional neglect can take on a woman's mental and physical health. Chronic stress from feeling invalidated can lead to various health issues, including fatigue and anxiety. Furthermore, many women may find that past emotional wounds resurface in their current relationships, especially if they grew up with emotionally unavailable parent figures, which can lead to heightened feelings of abandonment and rejection. Section 5: Taking Action Towards Healing Despite the challenges, Mav encourages listeners to take control of ...
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    19 mins
  • EP. 40 | STOP BEING THE GO-TO: YOUR "SUPER RESPONSIBLE" VIBE LEADS TO HFP BURNOUT

    EP. 40 | STOP BEING THE GO-TO: YOUR "SUPER RESPONSIBLE" VIBE LEADS TO HFP BURNOUT
    Nov 24 2025
    Are you the family's go-to person? If you're a highly functioning woman (HFP) struggling with anxiety, insomnia, and a crippling need to take care of everyone else, this episode is your intervention. I discussed with Licensed Therapist Ibiye Oyali to spill the tea on the super responsible identity, where people-pleasing is driven by cultural expectations and the "first-born girl" narrative. There is a difference between healthy excellence and paralyzing perfectionism, why you feel guilty for saying "no," and how to set luminous boundaries that protect your peace. Get the simple, strategic steps you need for HFP recovery—starting with the 80% rule. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. ✅ Join my soulful restoration Christian women's retreat ⁠⁠ Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Get ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ Connect with me, online for Christian Counselling and coaching. I support high-achieving Christian women in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing and faith-led wisdom. 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. TRANSCRIPT Mav: Hey, hey, hey, welcome everyone. Today's show is going to be very exciting and I'm already pumped up to hear everything about the high functioning processing. And with me today on the show is Ibinye. Ibinye is back today. Ibinye, thank you so much for coming in again. Mav: Ibinye Oyali is a licensed marriage and family therapist, as well as a coach for highly sensitive women. As a coach, she helps women manage big emotions, stand up by themselves, by certain healthy boundaries, and finally stop people pleasing. And as a therapist, her practice focuses on anxiety, insomnia, and couples' relationships. Mav: She works with high achieving women who struggle with anxiety and the need to take care of everyone else. She helps couples learn how to communicate better, create a stronger connection and resolve conflicts faster. Finally, she helps people with insomnia quickly fall asleep and stay asleep without pills or drastically changing their lifestyle. I think that is really holistic. Mav: Welcome, Ibiya. Thank you so much for having me back, Marvel. So today we're going to discuss, as I introduced earlier, the highly functioning pressing. Ibiya, please tell me, in your own expertise and experience and clinical observations, who would you say is a highly functioning pressing? So in my practice, Mav: I like to call them the super responsible member of the family. That's how I like to describe them. So the one person that everybody can turn to, whether at work, even at home, because it bleeds from the home to the workplace to friendships. The one person everybody calls when they need help, the one person who organizes everything, she is like the center of everybody's world. Mav: She takes care of everyone even before taking care of her own self. So that is how I would describe the high functioning person. Interesting. The go-to person who seems to be able to focus on what other people's needs are and helping them meet it most likely would be prioritizing their needs last. Yes, exactly. Sometimes they don't even know that they have needs. Mav: dear, wow. So what I'm imagining the highly functioning person would be would probably be, is it when they have really just burnt off or shut down, then they are now forced to confront their own needs, emotional needs in particular? Yes. So they get to a point where they're feeling completely overwhelmed. Mav: The burden on ...
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    28 mins
  • EP.39 | SPILL THE THERAPY TEA: WHY DIVINE PURPOSE IS THE KEY TO MENTAL HEALTH ALIGNMENT

    EP.39 | SPILL THE THERAPY TEA: WHY DIVINE PURPOSE IS THE KEY TO MENTAL HEALTH ALIGNMENT
    Nov 17 2025
    Stop stressing about your path! Mental health expert Manna Maniago is here to spill the tea on how to achieve ultimate vibe check success by locking into your divine purpose. We discussed into her journey starting Kairos Care, discussing why psychotherapy principles mirror biblical teachings, and why community is the secret sauce for your identity glow up. Learn why self-confidence is simply knowing your worth in God, how to handle the evolution of women friendships, and why aligning with purpose is the ultimate fulfilment. I hope this blesses you. Welcome to Emotional Healing for Christian Women. Thank You! For listening/Watching. ⁠I’m Marvel C. Adeyemi⁠, a licensed Psychotherapist and Faith -Based Coach who supports Christian women. ✅ Join my soulful restoration Christian women's retreat ⁠⁠ Imagine waking up without the weight of shame, fear, and loneliness. Imagine finally feeling worthy, confident, and at peace — and doing it with God by your side. That's the healing we begin together Perhaps you’re struggling with low self-worth, rejection, persistent anxiety, spiritual confusion, neglect, abandonment, or feeling disconnected from your purpose… If you're afraid of repeating painful patterns in parenting or relationships… If your past still triggers you — please know that healing is possible. Through biblical lens, I’ll help you rebuild self-worth, trust, peace and clarity — so you can feel empowered, beautiful, and confident. WHAT NEXT? ✅ Get ⁠free resources⁠ for guidance and healing from past wounds and finding clarity and purpose. ✅ Order my new book, Beyond the Hurt. ⁠E-book ⁠ and ⁠Paper back⁠ 📌Work with me 1:1: book a session: ⁠Book Here⁠ ✅Please leave a comment/review, subscribe/follow and share. ✅ Join my private ⁠face book group ⁠ ✅ Book a 1:1 Coaching Call if you’re ready to dive deeper into your healing journey. ⁠https://marveladeyemi.com.au/⁠ ✅ Send me an⁠ email⁠ Connect with me, online for Christian Counselling and coaching. I support high-achieving Christian women in Ballarat, Melbourne Victoria- Australia, and globally who are ready to transform their relationships through inner child healing and faith-led wisdom. 📢Disclaimer: I share content from my reflections for educational purpose only and should not replace professional therapy. If you need immediate support, please reach out to a licensed mental health professional. SHOW NOTES In this episode, Manna Maniago, a passionate mental health practitioner and psychotherapist, shares her journey of faith and professional growth. She discusses the importance of living authentically, embracing one's identity in God, and the role of community and friendships in personal development. Manna also highlights her experiences with starting her own practice, the challenges faced, and the significance of aligning one's life with divine purpose. Keywords Manna Maniago, mental health, psychotherapy, faith, identity, community, friendships, Kairos Care, divine purpose Takeaways Embrace your strengths and weaknesses to live authentically.God's plan for us is already set before we are born.Cognitive behavior therapy mirrors biblical teachings.Community and friendships play a crucial role in personal growth.Faith can guide us through professional and personal challenges.Aligning with divine purpose brings fulfillment.Self-confidence is rooted in understanding one's identity in God.Friendships evolve with seasons of life.God places people in our lives for specific reasons.Sharing personal journeys can inspire and encourage others. Sound bites "Embrace your strengths and weaknesses.""God's plan is set before birth.""Therapy mirrors biblical teachings.""Community is key to growth.""Faith guides through challenges.""Align with divine purpose.""Confidence in God's identity.""Friendships evolve with seasons.""God places people for reasons.""Inspire others with your journey." Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction to Manna Maniago00:00:00 Living Authentically and Embracing Identity00:00:00 Faith and Professional Growth00:00:00 The Role of Community and Friendships00:00:01 Overcoming Challenges with Faith
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    25 mins
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