Have you ever looked at your life on paper, the career, the house, the image, and thought, “Why am I still not happy?”
In this powerful episode of Don’t Shrink to Fit, Claudia Noriega Bernstein sits down with award-winning author Khristin Wierman, winner of the 2024 IPP White Bronze Medal in Popular Fiction and author of Buck’s Pantry and This Time Could Be Different.
Khristin shares her journey from a high-powered, soul-crushing corporate career and a childhood shaped by a mentally ill, narcissistic mother to becoming a novelist who writes about women unwinding the knots of their past and reclaiming their lives in midlife.
Through deep, honest conversation, Claudia and Khristin talk about what it really means to:
- wake up in midlife and realize you have been living everyone else’s script
- break cycles of emotional abuse, overgiving and “being the fixer”
- stop shrinking to make others comfortable and finally choose yourself
If you grew up walking on eggshells, overexplaining, people-pleasing or constantly asking “What is wrong with me?” this conversation will feel like sitting with two women who truly get it.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
• How a “perfect on paper” life can still feel empty and misaligned
• What it is like to grow up with a narcissistic, mentally ill parent and carry that into adulthood
• Why so many women in midlife are awakening, questioning everything and rewriting their story
• The difference between fitting in and truly belonging to yourself
• How people-pleasing, over-achieving and never saying no are often trauma responses, not personality traits
• Why healing often starts with one brave decision to say “not this” even when you do not yet know what comes next
• How fiction became Khristin’s safe way to heal, process and tell the truth through her characters
• Why setting boundaries can cost you relationships, but give you back your peace, dignity and self-respect
• How to stop assuming something is “wrong with you” and start seeing what was wrong with the environment you were in
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