Parenting a neurodivergent kid can feel like endless chaos - meltdowns over sandwiches, spilled nail polish disasters and I've screamed "why me?" into a pillow more times than I can count.

In this episode, I share my reflections on flipping that question to "why not me?" We explore the idea that these kids aren't here to be "fixed" - they're here to awaken us, helping us grow through the mess and find deeper meaning in the daily struggles.

What You'll Discover

- The "Why Me?" Flip: How shifting from frustration to seeing your child as a teacher turns overwhelming moments into opportunities for personal growth.

- Meaning Beneath the Mess: The quiet truth that neurodivergent parenting isn't about control - it's about awakening to your own strength and purpose.

- Tools for the Journey: Simple ways to exhale amid the storms, like conscious parenting strategies rooted in real neuroscience.

This one hit close to home for me - if you're a parent feeling the weight, it might just remind you you're exactly the right person for this path.

Check out my Conscious Parenting Support Group at happierbytheminute.com.

Ever feel like your home is a permanent storm zone, with slammed doors, shouted "no's," and tears coming out of nowhere and your kid seems to be the one calling the shots?

In this episode, I dive into parenting neurodivergent kids through those relentless "raining triggers." I break down why it feels so overwhelming, the inner conflicts that make it worse, and share practical ways to find calm without losing your mind.

What You'll Discover

- The Storm's Real Source: How your kid's brain wiring turns everyday moments into emotional downpours and why it's not about control but understanding.

- Calm in the Chaos: Simple strategies like breathwork, reframing, and building emotional tools to weather the triggers without getting soaked every time.

- Finding Your Rainbow: Why ditching the fantasy of perfect parenting leads to more peace and how connecting with a supportive tribe changes everything.

If you're feeling drenched and done, this episode will remind you calmer skies are possible (and help you spot those rainbows sooner).

Check out my Conscious Parenting Support Group at happierbytheminute.com.

I've spent a lot of time thinking about how school can feel like a battleground for neurodivergent kids and their families.

In this episode, I dive into why modern education - still stuck in that 19th-century factory model - sets up creative, curious ND kids for struggle and burnout. We talk about the mismatch that's leaving families exhausted, the hidden costs of pushing kids to fit, and what real change could look like.

What You'll Discover

- The Factory Model Mismatch: How schools designed for obedient workers clash with ND kids' need for movement, depth, and innovation and why it's the system failing, not the children.

- Burnout's Hidden Toll: The emotional and physical price families pay when "what's best" means forcing kids over the edge just to survive school.

- A Path to Change: A call for parents to trust their gut, prioritise well-being over conformity, and explore alternatives like conscious parenting support.

If you're a parent feeling the overwhelm or just curious about making education work for every kid, this conversation will give you hope and a way forward.

Check out my Conscious Parenting Support Group at happierbytheminute.com.

What if the secret to helping children flourish isn’t in doing more, but in shaping a world where they can bloom on their own?

In this episode, I sit down with Dr Deborah McNamara, developmentalist, author, and educator, whose work is grounded in attachment science, neuroscience, and developmental psychology.

We explore the power of psychological rest, the importance of play as the foundation of development, and why taking the lead as parents isn’t about control, but about creating safety, connection, and trust.

What You’ll Learn

Rest as a Foundation: How psychological rest anchored in attachment and safety creates the conditions for growth.

Play as Essential Work: Why unstructured play is key to emotional development and building a child’s unique sense of self.

Leading with Care: How stepping confidently into a leadership role as a parent nurtures security, trust, and resilience.

Dr Deborah’s insights remind us that children don’t need perfection - they need presence, connection, and room to be.

Conscious Parenting Your ADHD Child: The Coachcast is produced by Urban Podcasts.

What if the most powerful way to build a stronger bond with your child was simply to pause, look into their eyes, and give them 30 seconds of your world?

In this episode, Penny reveals that meaningful connection with our children doesn’t require elaborate plans or endless hours - it begins with being truly present. By simply pausing, breathing, and truly listening, Penny learned how even the briefest interactions can build trust, ease tension, and bring a sense of joy back into everyday family life.

What You'll Learn

Small Moments, Big Impact: How just 15-30 seconds of genuine presence can strengthen connection.

Shifting Energy: Why turning towards your child - without distraction - can dissolve frustration and open up space for ease.

Simple Tools: How a single deep breath or soft pause can reset not just your child's emotions, but your own.

This is a gentle reminder that connection isn't measured in hours, but in the quality of moments we choose to give.

Conscious Parenting Your ADHD Child: The Coachcast is produced by Urban Podcasts.

What if everything you thought you knew about parenting was a lie?

In this episode, I share a powerful and personal reflection on why traditional parenting expectations often do more harm than good. Drawing from my own experiences as a mother and the stories of hundreds of parents I’ve supported, I challenge the "A + B = C" equation that suggests perfect parenting produces perfect children.

I unpack the weight of socially constructed obedience, patience, achievement and the guilt that comes when children don't meet those standards on someone else's timeline.

What You'll Learn

- The Parenting Lie: Why the belief that we control how our children turn out creates unnecessary conflict and pressure.
- Expectations vs. Reality: How letting go of "shoulds" reduces battles and builds deeper connection with your child.
- From Designer to Guide: Why our role is not to shape children into our vision, but to support who they already are.

This episode is a reminder that our children did not come here to live our dreams, but their own and the greatest gift we can give them is to truly see them for who they are.

Conscious Parenting Your ADHD Child: The Coachcast is produced by Urban Podcasts.

In this episode, Paula shares her daughter’s struggles with reading and her fears of being rejected by friends. We explore practical, actionable strategies to help children overcome social anxiety, challenge fixed mindsets, and embrace authentic self-expression to build genuine connections.

What You’ll Learn

- Challenge Negative Beliefs: Teach kids to question fears, like “no one will like me,” by gently asking, “Is that really true?” to shift their perspective.

- Build Authentic Confidence: Discover how to help children recognise and celebrate their unique strengths, encouraging them to be themselves rather than conforming to others’ expectations.

- Foster Genuine Connections: Guide kids to express their true selves, forming meaningful friendships based on authenticity rather than pretense.

We discuss practical approaches, such as staying calm to avoid parental anxiety, using gentle language to reframe limiting beliefs (e.g., “Just because you think it doesn’t mean it’s true”), and asking reflective questions to help kids evaluate their friendships.

Conscious Parenting Your ADHD Child: The Coachcast is produced by Urban Podcasts.

How do you keep your cool when your child’s ADHD-driven outbursts disrupt precious family moments? In this episode, Angela shares a heartfelt story of a gathering where a simple request for space spiralled into shouts and tears.

We dive into the root causes of these intense reactions—unmasking the impact of school masking, underdeveloped communication skills, and evening energy slumps—and reveal how empathy, not ultimatums, fosters connection.

Discover how medication can serve as a supportive tool, why honouring your child’s need for space is key, and how imperfect yet powerful strategies, like a calm, quiet presence, can de-escalate tension.

Conscious Parenting Your ADHD Child: The Coachcast is produced by Urban Podcasts.