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Hey, ever just act on impulse and instantly regret it? Ugh, we know that feeling! This week, we're diving into the absolute best tool for getting emotionally sober: Slowing Down! Dr. Eddie Capparucci calls it his number one rule: “Slow Everything Down.” This episode shows you how to interrupt that destructive speed and actually make a conscious choice.

We’re blending modern recovery tools with the faith. You’ll see how moments of distress—when your Inner Child is throwing a fit—can make you shoot right out of your Window of Tolerance and straight into destructive hyper-arousal. Not good!

Get ready to learn the awesome spiritual and practical disciplines of Slowing Down and implementing a Sacred Pause. We’re talking 12-Step wisdom, the virtue of Prudence, how to heal from betrayal trauma, and how to finally show up as the safe, solid partner you want to be!

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-Steve and a betrayed partner coach guide couples through the Full Disclosure process for those looking for full truth in their relationship. Email Steve for more info.

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In this episode, I sit down with Dan Drake—literally the man who wrote the book on Full Therapeutic Disclosure—to talk about one of the most important (and misunderstood) parts of the recovery journey.

What happens when the truth finally comes into the light?

We unpack:

• What Full Therapeutic Disclosure is (and what it isn’t)
• Why honesty is the foundation of rebuilding trust
• How empathy and truth-telling go hand in hand
• The role of polygraphs in the process
• Whether or not disclosure lines up with Biblical teaching

This conversation is raw, practical, and filled with hope. If you’re a man battling secret struggles—or a spouse who has been betrayed—you’ll walk away with clarity on why disclosure matters, how it brings healing, and why God always calls us into the light.

Ultimately, disclosure isn’t just about naming failures—it’s about creating a pathway toward healing, safety, and deeper intimacy. When couples have the courage to face the truth together, they discover that God’s grace is bigger than any secret, and that honesty really can set them free.

HELPFUL LINKS:

Dan Drake at Kintsugi Recovery Partners here.

-Instagram @kintsugirecoverypartners

-Disclosure Workbook for Men here.

-Disclosure Workbook Volume 1 of 3 here.

-His Website here.

-Banyan Instagram @banyantherapygroup

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-Join an amazing group of men in the Finally Free Group here.

-Get daily, uplifting CFP BOOST Texts by texting SUPPORT to (941) 279-2337

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-Connect with me on Instagram @catholicrecovery

-Steve and a betrayed partner coach guide couples through the Full Disclosure process for those looking for full truth in their relationship. Email Steve for more info.

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In this episode, I sit down with Tom Weaver from Come to the Table Ministry to talk about the real struggles of sex addiction, betrayal trauma, and the hope of lasting transformation. Tom shares his powerful story of being exposed to pornography as a young boy at the “Paper Shack” in his church, how that struggle carried into marriage, and how God brought him and his wife through deep betrayal to healing and restoration.

We also talk about the ministry’s Men’s and Women’s retreats and their Couples Conference, where hurting hearts find community, truth, and tools for recovery. Check out the 'Men Make Men' retreat and the 'Princess Warrior' retreat as well as the 'Maintaining the Bridge: Hope and Healing After Betrayal' Couples Conference!

Whether you’re battling addiction, walking through betrayal, or longing for deeper intimacy in your marriage, Tom offers encouragement that freedom is possible and healing is real.

To close, Tom takes on some rapid-fire questions about recovery and relationships—practical insights you won’t want to miss.

If you’ve ever wondered if there’s hope after betrayal, or if freedom is possible after years of struggle, this episode will speak directly to you.

HELPFUL LINKS:

Tom + Michele Weaver at Come to the Table Ministries:

-Website here.

-Retreats + Conferences here.

-Their Podcast here.

-Email: info@tableministry.com

CATHOLICS FIGHT PORN:

-Join an amazing group of men in the Finally Free Group here.

-Get daily, uplifting CFP BOOST Texts by texting SUPPORT to (941) 279-2337

-For 30 days Free of Covenant Eyes, sign up at: https://www.covenanteyes.com
PROMO CODE: CFP

-Get a sweet, safe, locked-down phone [that's not a flip phone] - Get a Wisephone! Use Promo Code: CFP to save $25 -- https://www.techless.com/CFP

-Join the Finally Free Coaching Group: https://www.catholicsfightporn.com/need-help

-Book a FREE Call with Steve: https://www.catholicsfightporn.com/contact

-Email: steve@catholicsfightporn.com

-Sign up for the email newsletter at the bottom left of catholicsfightporn.com

-Connect with me on Instagram @catholicrecovery

-Steve and a betrayed partner coach guide couples through the Full Disclosure process for those looking for full truth in their relationship. Email Steve for more info.