Is your baby struggling to latch, feed efficiently, or seem tense for no clear reason? Could the missing piece in your breastfeeding journey actually be hidden tension in their body?

In this eye-opening episode of Breastfeeding With Confidence, I’m joined by craniosacral therapist Meghan Beames to unpack something most parents never hear about in the hospital—how subtle tension patterns in your baby’s body can cause major breastfeeding challenges… and how craniosacral therapy can gently release them.

We talk about:

1. Why your baby’s latch might not improve with positioning tweaks alone

2. What oral motor dysfunction really means and how it’s connected to the nervous system

3. The myth of the “lazy baby” and how fight-or-flight can show up in newborns

4. How bodywork like craniosacral therapy can support milk supply, digestion, and better sleep

5. Signs your baby may be compensating for hidden body tension—and what to do next

Whether you’re exclusively breastfeeding, combo feeding, or just starting to wonder if something feels off—this episode will leave you feeling empowered, equipped, and ready to advocate for your baby’s functional wellness.

🎧 Tune in now to discover how craniosacral therapy can unlock better breastfeeding—without waiting for a full-blown crisis.

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Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Welcome to Breastfeeding With Confidence

00:57 Meet Megan Beams: What is Craniosacral Therapy?

04:56 Tension in Newborns: What to Look For

15:05 Oral Motor Dysfunction & Feeding Struggles

20:43 Common Breastfeeding Problems That Start in the Body

21:15 Fight or Flight in Babies—And Why It Matters

21:59 The Truth Behind the “Lazy Baby” Label

22:31 Feeding Reflexes: What You’re Not Being Told

24:46 Hands-On Tips for Supporting Baby’s Body

28:58 Why Movement Matters for Breastfeeding Success

31:47 How to Trust Your Intuition When Something Feels Off

33:09 Finding a Skilled Craniosacral Therapist Near You

33:56 Traveling for Treatment & Final Thoughts

35:53 Final Encouragement & Next Steps

One Instagram follower asked me recently, "How long should my baby nurse on each side to get the fatty hind milk needed to gain weight" and I thought this made the perfect Breastfeeding Q&A topic! Today we'll unpack the foremilk‑vs.‑hindmilk myth and shows you how breastmilk naturally shifts in fat content as your baby nurses. You’ll learn why timing feeds by the clock isn’t necessary, and how simple cues—like letting baby finish one breast before offering the other—ensure they get the richer milk. Jaimie walks you through gentle breast massage techniques and optimal latch tips to promote even fat distribution and efficient drainage of breastmilk.

Timestamps

00:00  Welcome and Introduction

00:16  Free Resource: Five Mistakes Checklist

01:08  Foremilk vs. Hindmilk Myth Debunked

02:43  Breast Massage & Latch Tips

04:21  Monitoring Intake Without Formula

06:32  Accessing the Free Checklist

07:20  Virtual Consultations Overview

10:16  Conclusion & Next Steps

Have you ever felt like your breastfeeding journey was doomed from the start—like something was wrong but no one could explain it?

That’s exactly how Chelsea felt. In this raw and empowering episode of the Breastfeeding With Confidence podcast, host Jaimie Zaki, virtual lactation consultant, sits down with former client Chelsea to share her real-life breastfeeding success story—one that almost ended before it began.

Together, they unpack the emotional toll of feeding struggles, the confusion around tongue tie diagnosis and release, and how virtual breastfeeding help turned it all around. If you’ve ever wondered if online lactation support is really enough… this episode proves it can be life-changing.

💬 In this episode, you’ll hear about:

• The early signs that something wasn’t right with breastfeeding—and why Chelsea almost gave up

• How a botched tongue tie release nearly derailed their entire journey

• The moment Chelsea realized she needed help and how she found it virtually

• What it really looks like to advocate for your baby when others brush you off

• The role of trusting your gut, even when professionals dismiss your concerns

• How virtual lactation support gave Chelsea the tools and confidence she needed to succeed

• Encouragement for moms who feel like they’re failing—and how support can change everything

Whether you’re a first-time mom, feeling lost in the newborn fog, or navigating a complicated feeding journey—this episode will remind you that you’re not alone, and real solutions do exist.

🎧 Listen in and walk away with:

• Hope from a real breastfeeding story of triumph after tongue tie

• Practical insight into how a virtual lactation consultant can help you right from your couch

• Empowerment to keep going, even when it feels impossible

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Fix Your Latch Guide

6 Week Postpartum Concierge Breastfeeding Support Package

Concierge Breastfeeding Prep & Thrive Package (Prenatal Prep + 6 weeks Postpartum Support)

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Did you see the recent claims by a Thompson Method IBCLC who guested on Pain Free Birth, claiming babies can't swallow air and tongue ties aren't the problem, the latch is? As an IBCLC the claims made in the social media posts were so upsetting -- mostly because thousands of Mamas follow this account and are hearing this misinformation that is being framed as "debunking misinformation". In today's episode of the Breastfeeding With Confidence Podcast, we discuss aerophagia, breastfeeding struggles, tongue tie, and navigating these challenges as a "crunchy" or "holistic" mom who questions modern healthcare practices. If you're a new mom struggling with breastfeeding, and you're doing everything "right" but it's still not working, you need to know there's a reason, and you deserve answers. Breastfeeding Resources: FREEBIE: 5 Mistakes that Sabotage Breastfeeding

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Trying to figure out babywearing and breastfeeding? Not sure why your baby seems to hate the carrier, or it feels like you need too many hands? Maybe you're not sure which carrier is best for breastfeeding or how to baby-wear safely. In this episode of the Breastfeeding with Confidence podcast, I'm joined by Jordan Morillo, a maternal health occupational therapist, certified baby-wearing consultant, and mom whose goal is to support all parents to feel empowered and uplifted during their parenting journey.

Jordan and Jaimie discuss safe babywearing, breastfeeding and babywearing, proper alignment and positioning in the baby carrier, which baby carriers are best (or if there's such a thing), and they both share their opinions on world-facing baby carriers. If you would like a fit-check or additional baby wearing guidance from Jordan, you can access her support resources here.

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6 Week Postpartum Concierge Breastfeeding Support Package

Concierge Breastfeeding Prep & Thrive Package (Prenatal Prep + 6 weeks Postpartum Support)

Why are so many new moms quick to consent to circumcision—an elective surgical procedure—but deeply hesitant about something as therapeutic as a tongue tie release, even when it's sabotaging breastfeeding?

As an IBCLC, nurse, and mom of five, I’m sharing both personal stories and professional insight to challenge this growing double standard. If you’ve ever felt pressure, confusion, or guilt around these choices—this is the permission slip to think deeper.

Inside this episode:

• A compassionate but honest look at the circumcision vs. tongue tie debate

• What most people don’t understand about how oral ties impact milk transfer, maternal pain, and long-term development

• Why choosing not to release a tongue tie often leads to unnecessary formula supplementation

• A call to mamas to trust their intuition, question the status quo, and lead their families with clarity and courage

This isn’t about shame—it’s about empowerment. Let’s stop avoiding the hard conversations and start making decisions that actually support exclusive breastfeeding and lifelong wellness.

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Breastfeeding Resources

Fix Your Latch Guide

6 Week Postpartum Concierge Breastfeeding Support Package

Concierge Breastfeeding Prep & Thrive Package (Prenatal Prep + 6 weeks Postpartum Support)

🕒 Episode Breakdown:

• 00:00 | A personal note from Jamie – Why this episode hits close to home

• 00:16 | Welcome – Setting the tone for an honest, thought-provoking conversation

• 01:07 | Introducing the controversy – Circumcision vs. tongue tie release

• 02:38 | Breastfeeding struggles no one connects to tongue ties

• 06:00 | My personal story – What I chose for my sons, and what I’ve learned since

• 08:44 | Critical thinking in motherhood – Are we really making informed decisions?

• 10:22 | Encouragement and support – You’re not alone if this stirs something in you

• 12:19 | A teaser for next time + final thoughts

Wondering if you really need to get a tongue tie release for your baby? Lisa Paladino, RN, CNM, IBCLC from Tongue Tie Experts podcast & instagram shares her insight after over a decade working with tongue tied babies. In this episode we're going to answer questions like: "I think my baby has a tongue tie, what next?" and "Does my baby really need a release?" We also talk about why there is so much confusing information about tongue ties and breastfeeding. If you have additional questions or need personalized guidance navigating breastfeeding with your tongue tied baby, you can check out Lisa's resource here: Tongue Tie Experts Podcast

Tongue Tie Class For Parents

Educational Handouts

Psst! If you're a healthcare provider needing to learn more about tongue ties in babies, check out Lisa's class here: Tongue Tie Class for Professionals

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Fix Your Latch Guide

6 Week Postpartum Concierge Breastfeeding Support Package

Concierge Breastfeeding Prep & Thrive Package (Prenatal Prep + 6 weeks Postpartum Support)

If you're considering a nipple shield, you might have seen the flow view nipple shield and thought, "That seems cool!" In this episode of the Breastfeeding With Confidence Podcast, Jaimie Zaki, IBCLC breaks down the good and the bad about this new-to-market nipple shield & sets the record straight. If you're having latching issues, worries about milk supply, and worries about your baby getting enough milk, you need PROFESSIONAL GUIDANCE, not a marketing gimmick. Grab your Nipple Shield Guide Here using code PODCAST10 for 10% off

Breastfeeding Resources

Fix Your Latch Guide

6 Week Postpartum Concierge Breastfeeding Support Package

Concierge Breastfeeding Prep & Thrive Package (Prenatal Prep + 6 weeks Postpartum Support)