How do you talk about betrayal without causing more pain? After infidelity, every conversation about what happened can feel like walking into a battlefield. In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa shares how couples can discuss the betrayal in a way that promotes healing rather than retraumatization.

You’ll discover:

• Why creating a safe space is essential before discussing the betrayal

• The importance of setting ground rules and respectful communication

• How “I” statements reduce defensiveness and foster connection

• Practical boundaries around timing and duration of conversations

• 5 steps to move into non-traumatizing, healing-focused dialogue

These tools will help you and your spouse begin rebuilding trust, restoring communication, and moving forward on your healing journey. And if you’re ready to go deeper, this is exactly what we walk couples through inside Marriage Redesigned—our faith-based coaching program that helps you move beyond behavior fixes into true heart transformation so your marriage can be rebuilt on a stronger foundation than before.

If you’re ready to rebuild your marriage God’s way, start here.

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After betrayal, one of the deepest wounds a wife carries is the loss of safety. In this powerful episode, Lisa unpacks what “feeling unsafe” really means to a betrayed spouse, what safety looks like in the aftermath of infidelity, and why it’s the unfaithful husband’s responsibility to help rebuild it.

You’ll discover five practical ways to create safety again—through honesty, consistency, transparency, empathy, and intentional growth. These are the very foundations couples work through inside Marriage Redesigned, the coaching program designed to help couples heal from betrayal and rebuild a marriage that’s stronger, healthier, and more connected than ever before.

If you’re ready to understand your wife’s pain and take the first steps toward rebuilding trust and intimacy, this episode will guide you in the right direction—and Marriage Redesigned can walk with you the rest of the way.

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Are you resentful that you’re the one doing all the healing work after betrayal? It feels unfair—you didn’t cause the affair or the lies, yet you’re left carrying the heavy weight of betrayal trauma. In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa unpacks why healing, as unjust as it feels, is still your choice, your responsibility, and your gift to yourself.

You’ll discover 3 powerful steps to move out of resentment and step into healing, freedom, and hope. Learn how to shift your mindset from “Why me?” to “What now?”, reclaim your daily power through practical tools, and release resentment through biblical truth.

If you’re ready to break free from bitterness and step into God’s restoration, this episode is for you.

🔑 Key Takeaways:

• Why healing from betrayal trauma is about freedom, not fairness

• 3 steps to release resentment and reclaim peace

• How forgiveness sets you free (without excusing the betrayal)

• The biblical foundation for choosing your own healing journey

✨ Ready for a deeper path to healing? Discover Lisa’s self-guided 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma program

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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org

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Sexual sobriety is about more than your behavior—it begins in your thought life. In this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa Limehouse unpacks why your thoughts matter, how they shape your feelings, beliefs, and actions, and why true freedom requires taking every thought captive and submitting it to Christ.

You’ll discover:

• The biblical foundation for renewing your mind (2 Corinthians 10:5, Romans 12:2, Philippians 4:8)

• What neuroscience reveals about how your thought patterns create or break addictions

• How to rewire your brain through God’s truth

• 5 practical steps to take every thought captive and walk in lasting sexual sobriety

If you’ve ever struggled to break free from lust, pornography, or sexual sin, this episode will give you both biblical wisdom and brain-based strategies to help you finally overcome.

👉 Ready to rebuild your marriage after betrayal? Learn more about the Marriage Redesigned program

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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org

Work with Lisa: Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email: info@lisalimehouse.com

Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

Have you ever tried to explain betrayal trauma to a therapist, pastor, family member, or friend—only to be met with blank stares, clichés, or advice that left you feeling even more alone? You’re not crazy, and you’re not overreacting. Betrayal trauma is real, and in this episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, I’ll give you the exact language to help others finally understand.

You’ll discover:

• 3 powerful ways to explain what betrayal trauma really is

• How betrayal trauma impacts your body, mind, and spirit

• 3 specific things you can share about what you need in order to heal

If you’ve ever felt unseen or unheard in your pain, this episode will give you clarity, confidence, and hope as you invite others into your healing journey.

And if you’re ready to go deeper, my 7 Pillars of Healing from Betrayal Trauma program is designed to help you move from shattered to restored—step by step, God’s way. Don’t wait to begin your healing.

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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org

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Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email: info@lisalimehouse.com

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Is he gaslighting you after betrayal?

In this powerful episode of Beauty Beyond Betrayal, Lisa Limehouse uncovers the 5 clear signs of gaslighting after infidelity—and what Christian women can do to stop the emotional manipulation for good.

If you’ve ever felt confused, questioned your memory, or started to believe you’re the problem… this episode is for you.

Lisa breaks down what gaslighting looks like in a marriage rocked by sexual betrayal, how it keeps you stuck in shame and doubt, and the biblical truth and boundaries that will help you reclaim your voice, your clarity, and your healing.

🌸 Ready to take the next step? Join the Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood—a free private Facebook community for Christian women healing from betrayal trauma

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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org

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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email: info@lisalimehouse.com

Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

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After betrayal, rebuilding trust can feel impossible—especially if every conversation starts to feel like an interrogation.

In today's episode, Christian marriage coach Lisa Limehouse reveals the top daily check-in routine that helps couples restore trust and connection without turning the betrayed spouse into a parole officer.

You’ll learn why proactive, consistent check-ins—led by the unfaithful spouse—create emotional safety, foster accountability, and help both partners begin to heal. Lisa walks you through the exact 5-question nightly routine she teaches inside her Marriage Redesigned Coaching Program, along with Scripture and real-life examples.

Whether you're the betrayed or the unfaithful spouse, this is a must-listen episode filled with practical tools and biblical truth to guide your healing journey.

🔗 Ready to rebuild your marriage God’s way? Learn more about the Marriage Redesigned coaching program.

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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org

Work with Lisa: Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email: info@lisalimehouse.com

Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE

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If you’re the unfaithful spouse wondering how to rebuild trust after infidelity, this episode is for you. Today, I'm sharing powerful insight on why behavior modification isn’t enough—and how true heart transformation is what your wife desperately needs to see.

Learn why early recovery often feels like "checking boxes" and how that structure actually helps you stay the course and support your wife's healing. I offer 3 clear ways to demonstrate real change, plus 3 traits every man becoming new in Christ begins to show—humility, consistency, and servant leadership.

Backed by Scripture and real-world examples, this episode is your next step toward becoming the man God created you to be.

🔥 Ready to restore your marriage after betrayal? Learn about my Marriage Redesigned program and book your free consult at MARRIAGE REDESIGNED

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NEXT STEPS:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website: www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org

Work with Lisa: Coaching Information

Schedule your MARRIAGE REDESIGNED FREE CONSULT

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook: Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email: info@lisalimehouse.com

Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE