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Awake & Aligned

Awake & Aligned

By: Dr. Phyllis Hayes-Reams
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Are you a high-achieving Christian woman who feels like you're going through the motions? You have a big heart and cherish being able to help and care for others—your career, your family, your faith are all important to you—but somewhere along the way, you started living on autopilot. You've reached a point where you realize there has to be more. Whether you're navigating major life transitions, juggling competing roles and responsibilities, facing crossroads in relationships, dealing with workplace changes, processing grief, or managing complex family dynamics, life has a way of pulling us away from intentional living. Join Dr. Phyllis as she helps Christian women break free from regret and rediscover the joy of living present and purposed. Each episode delivers practical strategies to help you tap into your God-given identity, stay connected to your true calling, and navigate life's inevitable challenges without losing yourself in the process. When life happens and everything feels overwhelming, it's easy to slip into survival mode. But you weren't created to just survive—you were created to thrive. This show will equip you to move beyond autopilot living into a life that's fully awake and aligned with God's purpose for you, no matter what season or challenge you're facing. It's time to stop going through the motions and start living the radiant, regret-free life you were created for. New episodes drop every week. Ready to break free from autopilot? Hit subscribe and let's get awake and aligned together.© 2025 Awake & Aligned: Break Free from Autopilot Spirituality
Episodes
  • #113- From Numb to New: How God Revives You in Tough Seasons
    Nov 13 2025

    When life feels heavy and the days start to blur together, it’s easy to slip into survival mode without even realizing it. In this episode, Dr. Phyllis shares encouragement for anyone walking through a difficult season and wondering how to keep believing when life feels too much.

    God meets us in the hard places not to break us but to restore us. Faith is easy to talk about when things are going well, but it’s in the testing that our faith grows deeper. Even when you feel stretched or unsure, this season will not last forever.

    Dr. Phyllis also walks through a simple self-coaching practice called the 3 Rs to help you move from numbness to renewal: Recognize where you’ve gone numb, Remember God’s presence, and Rebuild through small, steady steps of faith.

    You’re not failing. You’re growing. Don’t rush to get back to normal. Allow yourself to move through the process, trusting that God is in control. With His guidance, you’ll continue to grow, and He will do a new thing in you.

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    16 mins
  • #112- Awake and Aligned: Break Free From Auto-Pilot
    Nov 6 2025

    You might notice something different about the podcast—new name, new season, new energy. Welcome to Awake and Aligned, where Dr. Phyllis guides you to step out of auto-pilot and start living fully present in your life and purpose.

    In this episode, Dr. Phyllis shares her own journey of being out of alignment and what it taught her about living awake. Purpose isn’t about striving or checking off boxes—it’s about choosing alignment for yourself, noticing when life has been on auto-pilot, and taking intentional steps to live fully engaged.

    We explore what it really means to listen between the lines of your life, why auto-pilot isn’t just a scheduling issue but a soul issue, and how small, mindful choices can bring you into alignment.

    This week’s reflection: Find a quiet moment and ask yourself, Where in my life have I been running on routine and auto-pilot instead of being fully engaged?

    Key Takeaways:

    • Alignment is a choice, not a chase.
    • Auto-pilot is a soul problem, not just a schedule problem.
    • Living awake is possible when you slow down, notice, and act intentionally.

    Tune in to hear Dr. Phyllis share stories and insights that will inspire you to step into your next chapter fully awake and aligned.

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    19 mins
  • #111- Persistence Over Perfection
    Oct 30 2025

    We all have those days where nothing goes according to plan and life feels messy and out of rhythm. But what if those moments are not setbacks, but invitations to shift your focus?

    In this episode, Dr. Phyllis reminds us that sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is keep showing up. It is not about being perfect, it is about being persistent.

    She shares how she had to let go of perfectionism and learn to realign with what truly matters. Through prayer, pause, and perspective, she invites us to reset, simplify our expectations, and focus on faithfulness instead of flawlessness.

    You will hear practical ways to pause and invite God into the moment, let go of unrealistic expectations, extend grace when you fall short, and refocus on what actually needs your attention today.

    God never asked us to be perfect, only present. When life feels like it is unraveling, choose to show up anyway. Breathe, reset, and remember that you cannot walk in peace if you are punishing yourself for being human.

    Listen in for encouragement, truth, and a reminder that persistence is its own kind of progress.

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    25 mins
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