• Ep. 111 - Compulsive Eating by Your PDA Child or Teen
    May 6 2025

    Many of you know that my PDA son stopped eating most foods when he was in burnout. But I've also worked with countless parents whose PDA child or teen can't stop eating. And so I've dedicated this episode to the topic - how to understand compulsive eating as part of PDA, and an approach that may be helpful.

    xo,

    Casey

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    23 mins
  • Ep. 110 - Speech Dude and I Talk School Accommodations for PDA Children and Teens
    Apr 29 2025

    In this episode I spoke with Chris Wenger - AKA "Speech Dude" - a speech language pathologist with extensive experience accommodating PDA teens in a public school. I loved our conversation, and I hope you will too!

    We talked about:

    • Practical ways to communicate about PDA in a public school setting (in this case a high school).
    • How to write PDA-specific goals/supports in an IEP (Institutional Educational Plan here in the United States).
    • Supporting PDA teens to feel safe, engage in learning, and make social connections in creative ways that don't feel demanding.
    • The role that autonomy plays in PDA teens' success.

    Here is more about Chris!

    Chris Wenger is a neurodivergent high school speech-language pathologist of over 20 years, international speaker, and creator of the Dynamic Assessment of Social Emotional Learning, a strengths-based assessment for autistic students. He is also the founder of NeuroAffirm, a first-of-its-kind worldwide interactive directory connecting providers and families. Globally known as Speech Dude, he has amassed nearly one million social media followers, sharing inspiring and educational content, always with a humorous twist.

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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Ep. 109 - My Conversation with Physician and Founder of All Brains Belong, Dr. Mel Houser
    Apr 22 2025

    Dr. Mel Houser, MD, shares stories from her childhood, career as a doctor, and work reimagining healthcare and community at All Brains Belong in Vermont. PDA Autistic herself, I hope you'll find her insights as interesting, helpful and hopeful as I did.

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    58 mins
  • Ep. 108 - 10 Tips to Improve Connection and Communication with your PDA Child or Teen
    Apr 15 2025

    The thing that underpins so much of how we support and accommodate our PDA children and teens - and thereby lower their nervous system activation so they can thrive - is our connection with them.

    And this connection can get very, very strained. Especially if they're in burnout, which often means we are, too.

    In this episode I share ten tips to improve connection and communications. I hope it's helpful.

    xo,

    Casey

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    28 mins
  • Ep. 107 - 20 Things I'd Tell Myself About My PDA Child's Restrictive Eating
    Apr 8 2025

    Five years ago, when my son barely ate anything, and I feared he would end up with a feeding tube, and none of the traditional therapies worked, these are the 20 things I wish someone would have said to me, because I was freaking out!

    I hope they are as helpful to you now as I know they would have been for me back then.

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    39 mins
  • Ep. 106 - Screens and Your PDA Child or Teen
    Apr 1 2025

    I dive deep on screens in this episode - to give you every bit of information you need to make decisions you can feel confident in concerning screens and screen limits. I talk through how formal studies on screen time handle PDA children (spoiler - they don't) and share what I've seen working with over 1,000 families who have all handled screen limits their own ways. I do this because no matter your decision, I don't want you to feel all the doubt I did from the judgement I received from others and from myself. You know your child, your family and your constraints, and I know you are doing your best to balance all of this, and that is what matters.

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    45 mins
  • Ep. 105 - How to Know if Your Child or Teen is PDA
    Mar 25 2025

    In this episode I discuss the five most common characteristics of PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance / Pervasive Drive for Autonomy) to help parents determine if their child or teen fits the profile.

    If you want to dig deeper into figuring out if your child fits the PDA profile, I designed my Clarity Masterclass to help. It's free on my website: Clarity Masterclass

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    36 mins
  • Ep. 104 - Harmful Myths About PDA in Children and Teens
    Mar 18 2025

    "All kids are demand avoidant" is just one of the misconceptions about PDA that I take down with clinical psychologist Alex Klein in this feisty episode. I hope it helps you take on any doubts foisted on you, too.

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    40 mins