• What's your masturbation practice?
    Jan 4 2026

    Nik sits down with his longtime friend Edonis to discuss taking care of their bodies (how many jars a day of peanut butter is too many?), resilience in the face of fires and punches, and finding the humanity of people acting poorly.

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    33 mins
  • What is this smut?
    Dec 21 2025

    Nik meets William Zaluski at the Getty on a tour of Queer Lens: A History of Photography and then scores an interview with the tip-top educator of educators himself.


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    36 mins
  • Asexual means you don’t want to be with anyone?
    Dec 7 2025

    This week: the extraordinary comedian, actress, singer-songwriter Margaret Cho joins us to talk about all the kinds of gay she's been and how she's the number one fan of her own work.

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    31 mins
  • How did you stay alive?
    Jul 13 2025

    Nik visits Cam Clarke, the voice of Leonardo the Ninja Turtle (and hundreds of other characters) at his home in LA. They dive into his pool and the full range of human experience — from suicide, AIDS, and shame to gay joy, healing, and the importance of telling your friends how much you love them.


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    31 mins
  • How scared were you to have sex?
    Jul 7 2025

    Nik reunites with his longtime teacher Jack Plotnick to talk about the covert message in his acting classes, being gay during the AIDS epidemic, queerness & empathy, and how tween-aged Jack tried to teach himself to be straight.

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    32 mins
  • They were gonna pull the gay out of you?
    Jun 29 2025

    Tune in to hear stories from Scotch: a gay dad to triplet teenagers, owner of half the lips responsible for the first same-sex kiss broadcasted during the Emmys, a loyal friend to all his ex girl- and boyfriends, and (in the words of Nik) a man-God sex symbol reminiscent of Lenny Kravitz.

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    31 mins
  • Do gays have more money than the straights?
    Jun 22 2025

    Nik chats with his 90 year old “uncle” John Bowab. A man with an endless supply of love, an extraordinary career as a director, and a famous Hollywood Hills house to pornos!

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    23 mins
  • Is that a lesbian thing?
    Jun 15 2025

    Nik talks with our first lesbian guest, Jill, about her work as a respiratory therapist for the tiniest humans, how she conceived her four kids, common lesbian questions people ask her, and the advantages of being gay.

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    28 mins