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Wired for Love

How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship

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Wired for Love

By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
Narrated by: Michael Hinton
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"What the heck is my partner thinking?" is a common refrain in romantic relationships and with good reason. Every person is wired for love differently, with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and rituals, making it possible to actually neurologically prime the brain for greater love and fewer conflicts.

Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this audiobook presents 10 guiding principles that can improve any relationship.

©2011 Stan Tatkin (P)2015 Tantor Conflict Resolution Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Relationships Human Brain Romance Self Help Self Love Marriage Help

Critic Reviews

"A marvelous resource." (Rick Hanson, PhD, author of Buddha's Brain)
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Easily understood for the reader and a good use of scientific language and the use of metaphors

Great Examples

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This is incredible informative to go into or be in relationship with. Committing to bringing each other home.

Be an expert in your love bubble!

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I really enjoyed this book, easy to listen to with very practical and informative advice

Loved this

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Fantastic book which can change the course of a relationship from bad to good or good to better, and better to best!

What couples need is a Couple Bubble!

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I loved it, very interesting read couldn't stop listening to it. recommend reading this book to anyone having attachmemt questions.

good learning rool

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Absolutely fabulous! The knowledge presented in this book changed my life.
This is a must read!

Simply superb!

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So much to take in, process, apply and hopefully be better at being a couple bubble. Thank you Stan

Wow

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really learnt a lot. It provided practical tips to improve the relationship... helped me understand myself more

insightful

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No words can explain how impactful this book is I have shared it 10 times and will continue to do so!

Amazing

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This may as well have been narrated by a computer program. Seeking a refund from audible.

Crap narrator - can't listen

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