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What White Parents Should Know About Transracial Adoption

By: Melissa Guida-Richards, Paula Guida - foreword
Narrated by: Stacy Gonzalez
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Publisher's Summary

The White Fragility for transracial adoption - practical tools for nurturing identity, unlearning White saviorism, and fixing the mistakes you don't even know you're making.

If you're the White parent of a transracially or internationally adopted child, you may have been told that if you try your best and work your hardest, good intentions and a whole lot of love will be enough to give your child the security, attachment, and nurturing family life they need to thrive.

The only problem? It's not true. What White Parents Need to Know About Transracial Adoption breaks down the dynamics that frequently fly under the radar of the whitewashed, happily-ever-after adoption stories we hear so often.

Written by Melissa Guida-Richards - a transracial, transnational, and late-discovery adoptee - this book unpacks the mistakes you don't even know you're making and gives you the real-life tools to be the best parent you can be, to the child you love more than anything.

From original research, personal stories, and interviews with parents and adoptees, you'll learn:

  • What parents wish they'd known before they adopted - and what kids wish their adoptive parents had done differently
  • What White privilege, White saviorism, and toxic positivity are...and how they show up, even when you don't mean it
  • How your child might feel and experience the world differently than you
  • All about microaggressions, labeling, and implicit bias
  • How to help your child connect with their cultural heritage through language, food, music, and clothing
  • The five stages of grief for adoptive parents
  • How to start tough conversations, work with defensiveness, and process guilt 

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©2021 Melissa Guida-Richards and Paula Guida (P)2022 North Atlantic Books

Critic Reviews

"A powerful, worthwhile addition to the growing body of work on race and parenting."—Publishers Weekly, starred review 

“Melissa Guida-Richards lays bare a painful truth: That loss is central to adoption. For those who are adopted transracially and transnationally, the disappearance of culture, familiarity, and language carry added complexity. With grace and sensitivity, Guida-Richards offers clear, insightful guidance for adoptive parents to help their sons and daughters navigate the isolation, racism, and longing they inevitably feel.”—Gabrielle Glaser, author of American Baby 

“Melissa Guida-Richards offers a generous summary of the multifaceted and often-controversial practice of transracial adoption. Part confession, part guide, and part intellectual invitation, Guida-Richards offers expertise with patience and wit. This is a book of experiential knowledge from a transracially adopted person who has thought deeply about the subject. A book that is a true gift to those with enough courage to face it and themselves.”—Jenny Heijun Wills, author of Older Sister. Not Necessarily Related. 

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