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  • The Power of Strangers

  • The Benefits of Connecting in a Suspicious World
  • By: Joe Keohane
  • Narrated by: Jonathan Todd Ross
  • Length: 12 hrs and 52 mins
  • 3.8 out of 5 stars (5 ratings)

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By: Joe Keohane
Narrated by: Jonathan Todd Ross
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An interrogation of why we don't talk to strangers, what happens when we do and why it affects everything from the rise and fall of nations to personal health and wellbeing, in the tradition of Susan Cain's Quiet and Rutger Bregman's Humankind.

When was the last time you spoke to a stranger?

In our cities, we stand in silent buses and tube carriages, barely acknowledging one another. Online, we retreat into silos and carefully curate who we interact with. But while we often fear strangers, or blame them for the ills of society, history and science show us that they are actually our solution. Throughout human history, our attitude to the stranger has determined the fate and wellbeing of both nations and individuals. A raft of new science confirms that the more we open ourselves up to encounters with those we don't know, the healthier we are.

In The Power of Strangers, with the help of sociologists, psychologists, neuroscientists, theologians, philosophers, political scientists and historians, Joe Keohane learns how we're wired to sometimes fear, distrust and even hate strangers and discovers what happens to us when we indulge those biases. At the same time, he digs into a growing body of cutting-edge research on the surprising social and psychological benefits that come from talking to strangers; how even passing interactions can enhance empathy, happiness and cognitive development, ease loneliness and isolation and root us in the world, deepening our sense of belonging.

Warm, erudite and profound, this deeply researched book will make you reconsider how you perceive and approach strangers: paradoxically, strangers can help us become more fully ourselves.

©2021 Joe Keohane (P)2021 Penguin Audio

Critic Reviews

"In a thrilling, immersive journey across time and continents, Keohane upends everything we thought we knew about the people we don't know." (Will Storr, author of The Science of Storytelling)

"Joe Keohane has changed my life. The very thought of talking to strangers has always given me mild nausea and stress sweats. But after reading this book, I've been converted. Joe has inspired me to push through the awkwardness and reap the benefits: A more open and curious mind, less loneliness and depression. This book is an important tool in rescuing our tribal, smartphone-obsessed world. If you see me on the street, please say hi so we can discuss it." (AJ Jacobs, author of The Year of Living Biblically)

"Rare is the book that delivers on the promise of a big answer to an even bigger question, but Joe Keohane's The Power of Strangers does just that. This lively, searching work makes the case that welcoming "others" isn't just the bedrock of civilization, it's the surest path to the best of what life has to offer." (Ayad Akhtar, author of Homeland Elegies)

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boring and underwhelming

The first part started off very good with a dialogue about a cab driver (thought it was going to be much like this) which was interesting and fun to listen to (Practical teaching of talking to strangers). He then he went off on his scientific beliefs about evolution which bored me to death (which takes up half of the book and i felt like returning the book, but soldiered on).

After that, it gets a bit better when talking about different religions bridging the gap on bringing strangers together for chatting throughout history.

During the second half which talks about actually talking to strangers, (in the individual titles) but underwhelms when delivering practical teaching and goes off on American politics; left vs right, white vs black nonsense.

The subway interviews were interesting and also the other interviews with certain people but just did not have that cab driver chat throughout the book where you learn off other people on the sort of questions and topics that they talk about in everyday life (case studies or snippets here and there) maybe I was looking for something different.
It was up and down for me but someone else will probably really enjoy it. It was more lecturer essay than individual conversations.

Good for an American audience, who knows, it is what it is.

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