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The Hot Young Widows Club

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Narrated by: Nora McInerny
Length: 2 hrs and 5 mins
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From the host of the popular podcast Terrible, Thanks for Asking comes a wise, humorous road map and caring resource for anyone going through the loss of a loved one - or even a difficult life moment.

In the span of a few weeks, 30-something Nora McInerny had a miscarriage, lost her father to cancer, and lost her husband due to a brain tumor. Her life fell apart.

What Nora discovered during this dark time is that when you’re in these hard moments, it can feel impossible to feel like even a shadow of the person you once were. People will give you all sorts of advice of how to hold on to your sanity and sense of self. But how exactly? How do you find that person again? Welcome to The Hot Young Widows Club, Nora’s response to the toughest questions about life’s biggest struggles.

The Hot Young Widows Club isn’t just for people who have lost a spouse but an essential tool for anyone who has gone through a major life struggle. Based on her own experiences and those of the listeners dedicated to her podcast, Terrible, Thanks for Asking, Nora offers wise, heartfelt, and often humorous advice to anyone navigating a painful period in his or her life. Full of practical guidance, Nora also reminds us that it’s still okay to laugh, despite your deep grief. She explores how listeners can educate the people around them on what to do, what to say, and how to best to lend their support. 

Ultimately, this audiobook is a space for people to recognize that they aren’t alone and to learn how to get through life’s hardest moments with grace and humor and even hope. 

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2019 Nora McInerny (P)2019 Simon & Schuster/TED
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The best book for loss

Noone else has explained my feelings as well has Nora did. Definitely a book for everyone.

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  • lola77 edmondson
  • 10-05-2019

Took the words right out of my mouth

I am a widow and felt every single word that was written. I cried I laughed and I was saying YES YES YES... I need to buy this book for EVERYONE!! A MUST READ so well done!! I do hate being apart of this club. RIP peace my beloved Fred 1/24/18

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  • Christine Klein
  • 15-05-2019

Excellent

For anyone who has personally experienced a loss or knows someone who has experienced a loss... so basically every single person... this book is for you. Nora provides wonderful insight into the mind and world of a grieving person and I thoroughly appreciate her insight.

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  • Obtaining Bliss
  • 01-07-2019

Something I definitely needed

It was great to hear about others experience with grief and loss. Thought I was crazy for still being so sad about it even after 27 years. Thank you so much for this book!

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  • David
  • 25-06-2020

Also for Widowers

I am not hot or a widow but really needed this. It was so great to have someone to articulate thoughts I have after losing my wife. Highly recommended

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  • Anonymous User
  • 19-06-2020

healing

I loved this and I really needed to hear all this!! reading this comforts me. thank u!!

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  • Emily Beers
  • 27-04-2020

What I needed

This book was my saving grace during the loss of my fiance. It normalized a lot of the things I was doing, felt, and not only that but gave me ways to reconcile it. It's short which makes it easy to get through. It's the best friend that understands everything I was going through but I never felt like I had to give more of my energy into giving anything back. I could just sit and listen, and be understood. I highly highly recommend this book. <3 Thank you for writing this Nora.

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  • Rex
  • 13-04-2020

Yassssss!

I relate to so much of this in my own experience. Thank you, Nora, for so eloquently and humorously capturing the complicated, beautiful, and unapologetic rawness of grief and loss.

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  • tammy
  • 18-03-2020

Thank you Nora

My husband died tragically 7 years ago and I so wish I had this book. Everything Nora said rang so true to me. I only wish it had been longer.
The best grief advice you can get.

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  • Amy
  • 10-02-2020

Incredibly helpful at a difficult time

This book appeared at a perfect time for me and my best friend who just lost her husband to cancer. Nora’s TED talk popped up on Facebook days after Charlie died. I watched her talk, ordered her book, listened to her book and gifted it to my dear friend with confidence that I had just done something that will ease her journey into and thru grief. Thank you Nora for being poignant, blunt, honest and there for all of us that have loved someone, or knows someone that loves someone.

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  • Andrea Blanchard
  • 22-01-2020

Fantastic

this was fantastic and much needed. the author was great to listen to .

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  • Emily Rose
  • 17-05-2019

Love it

she says everything I'm feeling, just wish it was a longer book, would love to hear more!