 
                The Dating Pool Has Pee in It
A Guide to Dating in Today’s Society
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Narrated by:
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Terri Bakken
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By:
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Vashann Valdez
About this listen
Dating today feels like a toxic swim—confusing, exhausting, and sometimes downright ridiculous.
Welcome to The Dating Pool Has Pee in It — a brutally honest, refreshingly funny, and emotionally intelligent guide to surviving and thriving in today’s chaotic dating world.
If you’ve ever asked yourself:
- “Why do I keep attracting the wrong people?”
- “Is this love or a situationship?”
- “Should I keep trying... or just get a cat?”
This book is for you.
With raw storytelling, laugh-out-loud moments, and powerful truth bombs, this guide dives deep into:
- Red flags you’ve been taught to ignore
- Emotional manipulation, breadcrumbing & dating app fatigue
- How to heal, set boundaries, and stop settling
- What real connection looks like (and how to find it)
- Why it’s okay to walk away and choose you
- How to swim confidently, even when the pool is full of pee
Whether you're single, dating, or done with love altogether — this is the dating detox your heart has been craving.
Because in a world full of mixed signals, catfish, and emotional unavailable partners… clarity is your superpower.
©2025 Vashann Valdez (P)2025 Vashann Valdez
                        
 
  
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