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Relationship Goals

How to Win at Dating, Marriage, and Sex
Narrated by: Ameen Gaines
Length: 5 hrs and 51 mins
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New York Times best seller

A candid, inspiring guide to finding lasting love and sustaining a healthy relationship by getting real about your goals - based on the viral, multi-million-view sermon series about dating, marriage, and sex

"No matter where you are and no matter what stage of life you are in, Relationship Goals will be a game changer." (Levi Lusko)

Realer than the most real conversation you’ve ever heard on the topic, Michael Todd’s honest, heartfelt, and powerful teaching on relationships has already impacted millions of people in all seasons of life around the world. Now, in Relationship Goals, Michael tells his own story of heartache and healing, unpacks explosive truths from God’s word, and tells it to you straight to help you win at relationships in every part of your life.

Where did the idea for relationships come from in the first place? Does God really care who I hang out with? Is it even possible to avoid relational train wrecks? From his plan for intentional dating in the age of social media to handling break-ups well to doing family instead of just being in a family, Michael tackles the questions we all have about relational success.

As he candidly examines our most common pitfalls in relationships and the start-today ways to get past them, Michael helps you align your longings with God’s awesome desires for your life. Now, that’s a good relationship goal.

©2020 Michael Todd (P)2020 Random House Audio

Critic Reviews

"The way God has moved this message like wildfire to millions of people speaks volumes about its value. There is no turnkey or quick fix to having rich relationships. With down-to-earth honesty, Michael Todd not only gives you a vision for what your relationships could look like, but he also gives you the road map to get you there." (Levi Lusko, lead pastor of Fresh Life Church and best-selling author)

"Michael Todd is one of my favorite preachers. He is a great man of God. I am so proud of him, and I am so glad he wrote this much-needed book about relationships. I know you'll love his authentic, personal, and engaging way of explaining how relationships work best when we do them God's way. Using principles from God's Word, this book will help you learn how to have better and more intimate relationships with your friends, your spouse, and, most important, with God!" (Robert Morris, founding lead senior pastor of Gateway Church and best-selling author of The Blessed Life, Beyond Blessed, and Take the Day Off

"We are often encouraged to practice what we preach. However, I think it's also important to preach what we practice. This is exactly what Mike and Natalie Todd have done. They have taken their lumps and transformed them into lessons. They have taken their pain and turned it into purpose. They have taken their mistakes and turned them into ministry. They have taken their blessings and turned them into a book. If you are looking for a blueprint to a blessed relationship, this book is for you." (Dr. Dharius Daniels, lead pastor of Change Church and author of Relational Intelligence) 

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Very eye opening

Todd gives some great perspectives I hadn't thought of before, such as marrying a person with a faith that is not as strong as yours.

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AAAAMAZING

Mike Todd just drops TRUTH! This book encouraged me to look forward with hope and know God’s plan is best! Know that my past is my past and God’s Grace Covers me always. Trust that I have all I need and all I gotta do is seek JESUS!💙🙏🏽🤙🏽 THANK YOU MIKE AND NAT!

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Great Read

I truly enjoyed this book, my wife and I will attend service at your Church in the near future.

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Wowwwww amazing book.
Everybody needs to read this book. If you apply the knowledge from this book properly, it can save you from lots of trouble. Learn about the singleness stage and why it’s so imperative. Learn about the most important relationship ( Godly relationship). And many more keys to happy relationships and fulfilling marriage. Thank you Ps Mike.

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  • Sugar Sweet
  • 28-04-2020

WOW!!!

This book was amazing. I only wish that Pastor Michael would have done the audiobook. The emotions behind the words didn’t come across.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 11-05-2020

From a Single 30 years old POV man

I was astonished with all the information shared by Pastor Mike. I was treating my relationships, dates without purpose. This book is definitely helping me during my single season and I encourage everyone to read it. No doubt my relationships moving forward are going to be blessed and intentional. The souls tie chapter is an eye opener.

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  • Katrina
  • 08-05-2020

Prepared for Process, Purpose & Partner

I first came across Pastor Mike Todd & TC last year & have since loved the Crazy Faith, Relationship Goals, Marked and several other series! This book is great & I love how you are walked through various seasons & how all ties together. Most importantly, how all is pointing back to God, His Ways, and Aligning to Our Purpose. Love studying also Book of Ruth & Esther in alignment with these principles.

My only prayer is I hope Pastor Todd & Natalie read their next audible. He is so funny and has so much passion - would love to have in his/her voice. I am sure they prayerfully considered for this book - praying changes for future :)

Amazing first book!

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  • Tiranee
  • 05-06-2020

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I only wish that once the wife “Natalie” began to speak that the audio voice switched to a female voice. Since this is an subtle it was hard differentiating who was speaking at times. In all, the book was GREAT. I would definitely recommend and utilize the tools provided. Thank you !!!!!

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  • Kia
  • 05-05-2020

Great Book.

I would say this book added a few side notes that were not in the sermon series. If you’ve watched his sermon series, then you’ve read the book. I like his additional thoughts and other stories he tied into relationships and singleness.

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  • Laila Fritz
  • 30-04-2020

I think I can

This was an amazing read with biblical support! I loved the narrator who emphasized points in his “Pastor Todd” voice!
I feel a lot more secure in my choices and know that God has my back!

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  • Judy Ughanze
  • 28-07-2020

highly recommend

if I could suggest anything, it would be to have a woman narrate Natalie's chapter

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  • maddy925
  • 27-07-2020

Too preachy but had some good advice

This book could've just been the last chapter and would've had the same effect on me. I understand he's a pastor and everything but that was way too much preaching. I think this book should've been called "Christian Relationship Goals" to give the readers a better reality of who this book is meant for.

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  • Royal Todd
  • 09-06-2020

Great message!

This book has a lot of great content, it reads rather simple and redundant in areas.

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  • Kristen
  • 18-09-2020

This is the code sheet for relationships, let’s WIN!


WoW! Such a practical ways to aim at what God’s intention is in relationship!

Giving you general responsibilities to specifics pertaining to marriage. Often times we don’t know what to do to get the results we want, we simply know what we don’t want or what not to do. This book gives you so many answers to help you navigate through life aiming at what God intends in your relationships.

If you want to win in relationships, experience healthy relationships or fulfill God’s purpose in relationships this book is for you!

It’s a easy read, leaving you wanting to not just learn more but APPLY what you’re learning! It’s also a book to reference frequently, as its principles are relevant through out the course of your seasons.

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  • Viola
  • 06-09-2020

Needed for all types of relationships!

Amazing content by Todd, I’ve been touched and will definitely be applying what I’ve learnt!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 04-08-2020

Excellent

I loved this book and cant wait to read it again as I Patiently wait for my Boaz

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  • zuli
  • 12-07-2020

Enjoyable read

informative and insightful read. Good to be reminded of the importance of Christ when it comes to having a successful relationship with anyone.

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  • Odean
  • 19-05-2020

Brilliant...... great for building relationships.

Great read for both married and unmarried people . Will keep on re-reading Buy!

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  • Agatha Chimbetete
  • 29-04-2020

Wow amazing

This book is what I needed now and 17years ago but great news my 10year old son grows up with this truth I am so excited...

I Couldn't put it down.. Defo relistening and buying 2 hard copies..

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  • Anonymous User
  • 28-04-2020

I love it

It is just Worth the wait❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ relevant and necessary for every young person out there.