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Not Nice

Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty... And Start Speaking up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, and Unapologetically Being Yourself

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Not Nice

By: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
Narrated by: Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD
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About this listen

Are you too nice?

If you find it hard to be assertive, directly ask for what you want, or say "no" to others, then you just might be suffering from too much niceness.

In this controversial book, world-renowned confidence expert, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, takes an incisive look at the concept of nice. Through his typical style, Dr. Aziz uses engaging stories, humor, and disarming vulnerability to cut through the nice conditioning and liberate the most bold, expressive, authentic version of you.

You'll discover how to:

  • Easily say "no" when you want to and need to
  • Confidently and effectively ask for what you want
  • Speak up more freely in all your relationships
  • Eliminate feelings of guilt, anxiety, and worry about what others will think
©2017 Dr. Aziz Gazipura, PsyD (P)2017 Dr. Aziz Gazipura, PsyD Communication & Social Skills Personal Development Self-Hypnosis Witty Learning Patients
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I cannot recommend this book enough, it will change your life.

Aziz has done an amazing job.

The most valuable book I have ever read.

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This is amazingly relevant for all people-pleasers, with revelatory and life-changing insights. I intentionally listened to this over several months to allow me to process and adopt the suggestions.
It’s humorous and deep, even with the occasional self-promotion, so well worth a listen.

Very helpful and practical, but too self-promoting

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I have read countless of self help books but this one takes the cake. Absolutely life changing. It has helped me to understand so much about myself and I can relate to everything in it 100%. The author, Aziz is so genuine and passionate about helping people and I loved hearing his stories about how he has transformed his life through learning to be not nice. So many amazing tips to help work through and grow. Absolute must read for anyone who is too nice!!

Life Changing!

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As above. Good. Making me wake up to s@@t I don’t wanna do
Now I’m just like naaaaaaa brooooo.
Not happening byyyyye

Good. Making me wake up to s@@t I don’t wanna do

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Deep and insightful content that people can relate to. Very well suited for audio by there author himself.

Another magnificent book by Dr. Aziz

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Great book, marked down due to online resources being hidden behind a paywall. Otherwise would highly recommend it.

Great marked down due to online resources being hidden behind a paywall.

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great self help book very helpful, lots of great real life examples and the narrating was great

great book

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Dr Aziz is truly unique - he is so humble and endearing and such a supportive and warm voice for those looking to break out of the cage in their own minds. Highly recommended! 5 stars

So good it made me buy the physical book

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it's 18hrs long and every minute of it is engaging. life changing listening experience. I am so glad I listened to it and looking forward to applying the learnings. Thanks Dr Aziz, I have become a big fan of yours.

life Changing Material

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Wow, Aziz nailed this topic. As a high performance coach my nice tendencies have got in the way of a lot of my life - this book effectively helps us recognise it and work on it so we can improve. Love it

Practical wisdom at its finest

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