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It's Not Supposed to Be This Way

Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave You Shattered

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It's Not Supposed to Be This Way

By: Lysa TerKeurst
Narrated by: Lysa TerKeurst, Jolene Barto
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READ BY THE AUTHOR | Also includes an exclusive interview with Lysa!

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

Find hope and assurance in God's faithfulness when it feels like your world is crumbling.

New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst invites you into her own journey, amid heart-shattering circumstances, and shows you how to live assured when life doesn't turn out how you expected.

What do you do when God's timing seems questionable, His lack of intervention hurtful, and His promises doubtful?

Life often looks so very different than we hoped or expected. Some events may simply catch us off guard for a moment, but others shatter us completely. We feel disappointed and disillusioned, and we quietly start to wonder about the reality of God's goodness. Lysa TerKeurst understands this deeply. But she's also discovered that our disappointments can be the divine appointments our souls need to radically encounter God.

In It's Not Supposed to Be This Way, Lysa invites you into her own journey of faith and, with grit, vulnerability, and honest humor, helps you to see your life in the context of God's bigger story. Whether you're dealing with daily disappointments or life-altering loss, you can find unexpected strength as you learn what it means to wrestle well between your faith and your feelings. With refreshing honesty and deep encouragement, Lysa will help you to:

  • Stop being pulled into the anxiety of disappointment by discovering how to better process unmet expectations and other painful situations.
  • Train yourself to recognize the three strategies of the enemy so you can stand strong and persevere through unsettling relationships and uncertain outcomes.
  • Discover the secret of being steadfast and not panicking when God actually does give you more than you can handle.
  • Shift your suspicion that God is cruel or unfair to the biblical assurance that God is protecting and preparing you.
  • Know how to encourage a friend and help her navigate hard realities with real help from God's truth.

Disappointments are an inevitable part of life, but they don't have to be the end of the story. In fact, they are often what must happen for something new to begin. It's Not Supposed to Be This Way, offers you a safe guide, fresh biblical insight, and a reorienting perspective to help you rediscover God's faithfulness and renew your strength when it feels like the world is crumbling all around you.

Christian Living Christianity Divorce & Separation Grief & Loss Personal Development Relationships Divorce Recovery
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I think it would be easy to critique this book for the sheer challenging nature of the subject matter. I like how Lyla shares her story of a broken marriage and such disappointments but then still honours her ex-husband and doesn’t make this a gossip session or a chance for her to offload. I think she shows herself more Godly in just doing that than anything. It’s hard because the sinful part of me wants to know every gritty detail but the truth is we don’t need to know, all we need is her God breathed words that WE ARE NOT ALONE. God is faithful to walk closely with us through every season and I think Lysa says that beautifully. I was inspired, challenged, felt heard and comforted throughout this book. I highly recommend it. Lysa is the real deal and I can’t wait to hear more from her!

Wonderful God Breathed Book

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Lysa Terkeurst brings a raw and real message to believers. Her writing style is easy and leads to great revelations. Root issues are revealed and her book encourages us to get real with God ourselves. Absolutely recommend to men even though it seems to be directed towards women. A must read for everyone.

Deep Healing

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I read sections of this book almost daily because of LT’s gentle compassionate manner and wise referencing of scripture. It can help everyone stay focussed on Gods love for them (us) through life’s challenges. Full of sound, intelligent biblical references and real life corollaries. This book is sound and trustworthy and uplifting and useful on a daily basis.

Nutritious Vital Biblical

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I like the stories in this book that I’ve hope. Would have like to have heard more about her marriage. Wasn’t a huge fan of the audio book narrator her reading of the book sounded more like she was reading a child’s book.

Gives Hope

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I want to give this book a nil but thats not possible unfortunately. She repeats herself and she is rewriting the bible. Just terrible

Its not supposed tob this way : terrible

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