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It's Not Always Depression

A New Theory of Listening to Your Body, Discovering Core Emotions and Reconnecting with Your Authentic Self

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It's Not Always Depression

By: Hilary Jacobs Hendel
Narrated by: Cassandra Campbell
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Penguin presents the audiobook edition of It's Not Always Depression by Hilary Jacobs Hendel, read by Cassandra Campbell. Includes a PDF of reference materials.

We were all taught that our thoughts affect our emotions, but in truth it is largely the other way around: we have to experience our emotions to truly understand our thoughts, and our full selves. This is why we should think not only about cognitive behavioural therapy or medication, but also about our emotions, when addressing psychological suffering.

In It's Not Always Depression, pioneering psychotherapist Hilary Jacobs Hendel reveals the most effective techniques for putting us back in touch with the emotions we too often deny - methods which can be used by anyone, any time, anywhere. Drawing on stories from her own practice, she sheds light on the core emotions (such as joy, sadness and fear), defences (anything we do to avoid feeling) and inhibitory emotions (anxiety, shame and guilt), and how understanding their interaction can help us return to mental well-being.

This is the basis of 'accelerated experiential dynamic psychotherapy:' it accelerates healing through having an emotional experience in the here and now.

It allows you to reacquaint yourself with your feelings, to recover a more authentic self and to be more calm, curious and connected.

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Critic Reviews

The bottom line is this: if you're a human, I recommend that you read this book. (Diana Fosha, the founder of AEDP (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy) and the author of the book's foreword.)
I loved it ... I have drawn my own picture of the change triangle. (Cathy Rentzenbrink, author of The Last Act of Love and A Manual for Heartache)
What is unique in this book is Hendel's mission to take psychotherapeutic tools and present and rework them in a way that can be used by individuals . . . like Penn and Teller showing us how a magic trick is really done . . . she is able to translate the method in ways that individuals can use for themselves . . . the genius of this book is converting formal psychotherapeutic strategies into a self-help toolbox (Alan Eppel, Professor of Psychiatry and Psychotherapy Supervisor in the Department of Psychiatry & Behavioural Neurosciences, McMaster University, Hamilton, Ontario)
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Hilary Jacobs Hendel is one intelligent woman. Everyone should be made to read this book, to better understand their emotions.

A wonderful insight into my life. I am grateful for having access to read this book. Thank you!

Brilliant

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This book answered a lot of questions that I had been grappling with over the years. Hilary’s desire to help others stands out throughout the book. Thank you 😊

Couldn’t have been happier with the content and the narration.

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The first chapter was very intellectual and I almost stopped listening. I’m so glad I stayed, I could relate to so many stories and found the sections about shame very enlightening. Have the tissues ready.

Stick with it

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I found this a little boring. The narrator didn't seem to connect with what she was reading and it took away from the content.

Disappointed

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