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How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved

Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
Length: 8 hrs and 51 mins
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In How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved, Sandra L. Brown, MA, describes eight types of dangerous men, their specific traits, and characteristics. She explores victim's stories that tell how they came in contact with each type of dangerous man and their outcome. Brown then presents how to develop a defense strategy - how to spot, avoid, or rid themselves of this type of dangerous man. Brown explains women's innate "red flag" systems - how they work to signal impending danger, and why many women learn to ignore them. With red flags in hand, Brown then guides the listeners through their own personal experiences to develop a personalized "Do Not Date" list. With these tools, Brown shows women how they can spot and avoid patterns of engagement with dangerous men.

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Great guide and self reflection tools

This book is an excellent narrative which supports looking inward to what you are willing to tolerate, why you believe you should put up with that behaviour and how to recognise and name the types of abuse. The book provides fundamental nformation to recognise if you are suffering at the hands of someone with pathology which makes any really change almost impossible and will hopefully equip readers with the ability to see red flags early and get out of harms way.

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Fantastic read for all women!!

I wish that I had this book years ago. All young women should have this book and treat it like a bible.

Thank you Sandra x

Donna from Tasmania

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  • Miss K
  • 13-11-2017

Thank you Sandra Brown, for writing this book!!

This has already given me a much broader sense of confidence again in navigating romantic relationships now & in the future. Your no-nonsense, clearly defined & objective wisdom is sooooo greatly appreciated & refreshing to grasp on any level! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

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  • Just the image
  • 11-08-2017

Females

All women should read this book. Even if you have never experienced a dangerous man, this information will keep it that way!

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  • Chrome Dragonfly
  • 04-09-2018

Hear, learn, move forward.

It seems elementary to hear it.
I can't look back though.
That's not the direction I'm going.

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  • Terrie M.
  • 28-07-2018

Wonderful Wonderful!!!!

Ladies take the time to listen to or read this valuable resource. I had no idea there are dangerous men other than psychopaths. Thank you for opening my eyes - wide open!!!

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  • Annemarie
  • 05-01-2019

Every woman should read or listen.

Every woman should read or listen to this book. It’s helpful, informative and well written. I highly recommend this book.

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  • MommyInDC
  • 01-11-2018

This Should Be Required Reading!

I wish I’d had this book as a freshman in college. 20 years later and the revelations it has brought me are tremendous. Thank you for sharing this treasure with us.

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  • Phiphi23
  • 18-10-2018

A Must Read for ALL women

the reader's voice is monotone throughout with no real inflrcionbut I think she had to be due to the series divussionn. I thought I detected a victim mentality promotion at the beginning but she straightened out the misconception at the end. The information is absolutely necessary and should be mandatory for all women before we make/ or fall for these mistakes. This is one of the best Self-Help books I've listened to Ever. I will b gifting it to a few family members and friend that I think need the message and are open to receiving it. I'm going in again...its more than a one time listen. Oh, I feel so empowered just listen to this book. now I have to act on the lessons learned. I am in a relationship trying 2 get OUT and Now that I've identified hi I will act accordingly. God Blessin

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  • Angela Davis
  • 23-07-2018

Thank You for Writing This Book

This book has changed my life for the better—thank God you wrote this book and have the companion workbook. Although I knew something was wrong with these dangerous men I was dating- I also knew that I picked these men to date so something was wrong with me too! Thank you for this book!

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  • Shayleen Webb
  • 19-09-2019

WOW! I felt moved by so many emotions!

This book was so insightful and gave such great detail in what to look for a dangerous man. How to prevent being or getting involved with a dangerous man. I just wish I ready it 7 years ago. I could have protected my self and my babies.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 16-06-2019

Excellent! Excellent!

Learning, internalizing and following this information can be life changing. This book is frank and no-nonsense. It is well researched, well organized, and we'll written. I highly recommend this for all women who date, and maybe for all dating men as well.

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  • Meika A.
  • 31-05-2019

A must have book for any young woman or any woman

wish I'd been given this information as a teen I could of avoid a whole life time of poor dating choices. I didn't appreciate all my choices as "dangerous" however after listening to this book I can see how they were all incredibly damaging to me my life and my purpose. I've ordered the workbook and will be giving my 16yr old niece a copy. cannot recommend enough!

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  • CaroleM
  • 03-12-2018

brilliant clear and concise guidance

brilliant clear and concise guidance regarding dating and learning to trust your own Instincts, and easy for us to ignore our own warning systems that lead us into relationships that are not worthy of us.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 11-07-2018

Every dating woman needs this

The real life examples are so powerful.
Teenage girls through to divorced middle aged women should read this.

Dangerous men span so many areas of life and the havoc they wreak is earth shattering.