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How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair is the book that can help you, step by step, to recover from betrayal, rebuild trust, and repair your relationship after a betrayal through forgiveness and expert advice from consultant Suellen McDolly. 

Healing a relationship that has recently been tested and broken by an affair is a difficult journey, but not one that is impossible. Many spouses or partners seek to rebuild a relationship or marriage after an affair has come to light, but often do not know what to do or how to talk to their spouse to help begin the healing process. 

How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair is the perfect guide to help struggling couples navigate the turbulent waters of their relationship after an affair, by busting the myths that revolve around infidelity and relationships. It also teaches you how to prevent this kind of betrayal from happening again. 

Suellen McDolly has spent his life counseling countless couples and helping them through some of the most difficult moments in their relationship. His book offers both partners advice and much-needed guidance through every step of the healing process by addressing the most common reasons and motivations for infidelity and how to prevent it from happening again. 

It’s time to recognize the myths around infidelity that you might believe in and start to rebuild your marriage with the help of How to Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair

With the help of this audiobook, you'll learn:

  • What are the signs of a betrayal
  • Why men and women cheat
  • How to deal with traumatic feelings after a betrayal
  • How to rebuild trust and responsibility
  • What are the steps to understand and forgive your unfaithful partner
  • How to make your marriage stronger than ever
  • And many other practical information and tips for rebuilding your marriage

Full of practical advice and helpful anecdotes, this book is crucial if you are ready to find a way to heal, rebuild your marriage, and live your life free of resentment, insecurity, and grief.

©2019 Lino Schepis (P)2019 Lino Schepis

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  • Alan
  • 21-04-2020

Quick, easy guide for handling muddy waters

I really enjoyed this book. It gave insights to the other side of the healing process for my husband. I wish I would have read it before the affair coming to light because I made some of the mistakes she mentions NOT doing. Some great tips and reminders of things not to do and to do in the Rollercoaster of hopeful reconciliation to any marriage struggling with infidelity.

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  • Miguel R. Pressman
  • 16-04-2021

Easy to listen

A audiobook that I am happy to have bought. It has contributed to giving life to constructive conversations. The content is direct and full of very useful advice. It has helped us on the journey towards the recovery of marriage.

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  • Tim N. Seibert
  • 16-04-2021

This is a reliable audible for us

It is a neutral audiobook, and makes no distinction of sex in betrayal. Both women and men can listen it, and indeed I advise the couple to listen both. The reasons that lead to treason are many, but listening this manuscript many aspects are well described and important and valuable tips are given. I recommend the purchase!

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  • Alexander L. Smith
  • 16-04-2021

Important contents

This is a audiobook that everyone should listen, even those who have not suffered betrayal. In my opinion it helps the relationship and highlights aspects that we do not think of and that gives us advice that is as precious as diamonds, where the behaviors that are suspicious in a person who betrays are highlighted.

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  • Ricardo D. Breton
  • 16-04-2021

Gave me a lot of useful info

Absolutely excellent! Gives you very good perspective on the situation. The chapter on children is very interesting. Saved our marriage.

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  • Joseph S. Arce
  • 16-04-2021

This book is very enjoyable to listen

The audiobook reveals great insight on how to deal with adultry. It makes one understands what leads to adultry and steps to be followed in dealing with it. What the spouses need to do in order to fully heal irrespective of whether they stay in marriage or divorce. I believe anyone can benefit from this audiobook even if they're not facing adultry in their lives

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  • Larry S. Ross
  • 15-04-2021

Great Listen!

I have never participated in a couple therapy or listen a book on relationships because I have no problems. I wanted to listen it out of curiosity and to understand first what can be the problems that lead a couple to betray or leave themselves. I can say that this audiobook is chock-full of strategies, tips and real life examples to help you concretely. Each couple could learn from this audiobook.

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  • Bart L. Box
  • 15-04-2021

Best Book

Many expert tips at a small price. Easy to listen with simple and detailed instructions, step by step. Pleasant and well written, congratulations to the writer, whom I did not know but whom I appreciated very much

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  • Rick R. Penson
  • 15-04-2021

Good book

I listen this audiobook even though I wasn't betrayed. I listen it as an investment for my future. It opened my eyes to aspects I didn't know, which I never noticed. Listening it will help you correct aspects that you may be mistaken in your report. It will be a audiobook to prevent future betrayals, or you will understand in advance if your partner is following a wrong path or is trying to betray you. A good book with advice from your old friend.

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  • Justin J. Henderson
  • 15-04-2021

Useful tool for recovery

It absolutely does not justify the traitor, but analyzes in detail the triggering aspects of the betrayal. You understand the great experience of the writer in this sector. I helped more this inexpensive but precious book, that many expensive consultancies. If you need to buy this manual, I recommend it.

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  • Brian
  • 15-02-2020

Totally not every emotional

This book gave the words to what I've been feeling and how my feelings have fluctuated from rage, depression, sorrow and indifference. Why I don't feel like my spouse is putting the effort needed to make amends and what can be done.

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  • Leah Wright
  • 16-04-2021

Very motivated

I cried from the first page to the last one. I relived all the bad moments of my relationship, but it helped me a lot and that's why I wrote this review to recommend it to others.

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  • Alexandra Field
  • 16-04-2021

really enjoyed the book

I recommend this audiobook to people like me who have faced marital infidelity. A audiobook cannot solve this problem by itself, but it can help directly and concretely to understand what happened, and to correct our lives to return to living peacefully.

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  • William O'Donnell
  • 16-04-2021

Gives you lots of techniques

Very helpful. Great to hear it from both points of view. Very honest and truthful. I think this would be a great audiobook for any couple to listen who have experienced the pain of infidelity in their marriage.

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  • Natasha Barker
  • 16-04-2021

Healing process in your marriage

I am very Christian and sought comfort in god after discovering that my husband had been betraying me for several years. I listen some books, but I can say that this audiobook is very well done and helped me overcome the drama, even if my marriage is over. It has helped me to love myself more and to end my relationship.

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  • Mia Wood
  • 16-04-2021

Teaches you step by step

I didn't know this author, so I was very doubtful about the purchase. But right from the start I found this beautiful audiobook and the author writes with simplicity but also with depth. The chapters deal with all the themes of betrayal, and I found a great help with Suellen's advice at the end of the book.

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  • Lauren Long
  • 15-04-2021

Recommended listening for newbies

This audiobook was a very good help for those accompanying people hurt by infidelity and dealt with many issues that one might not consider when in this situation. I can highly recommend it for those suffering and those trying to help.

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  • Naomi John
  • 15-04-2021

Great audiobook to help you through betrayal.

Very helpful. Great to hear it from both points of view. Very honest and truthful. I think this would be a great audiobook for any couple to listen who have experienced the pain of infidelity in their marriage.

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  • Cerys Collier
  • 15-04-2021

Good book

I am a very skeptical person, and I had a lot of doubts that my report took the right path again. Other doubts were in listening books or in the help of a doctor. All my doubts were removed because my report resumed at work. The path is still long and tortuous, but we are on the right path. This small audiobook has contributed

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  • Holly Thornton
  • 15-04-2021

Best Book

I listen this audiobook by chance, attracted by the very nice cover and the positive reviews. This book was a blessing, because after listening it both triggered constructive conversations and put us in front of our responsibilities. Some points are maybe a bit 'technicians, but it is well written and has a clear language. Useful for our journey towards the recovery of the relationship that was now ending.

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