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How to Be Less Useful

The Joy of Inefficiency

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How to Be Less Useful

By: Priyanka Mattoo
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Summary

A delightful book about reclaiming pleasure in mid-life – a potent mix of self-help and memoir, from one of today’s wittiest, wisest voices.

'A hilarious chillout manual for cool people who want to be more than their appointments and obligations' Samantha Irby

"I have done everything right, and I have missed everything."

Think about what we choose to cut out or overlook as we approach the deep end of adulthood: Dessert. Naps. Pretty underwear. Sweaty dancing. “Pointless” hangs with the people we love most. And then, activities that used to be fun somehow lose their luster, usually in the decade between thirty and forty: summer vacation (exhaustion), stay-in-touch texting (bandwidth), finding the perfect restaurant (the algorithm).

When did our lives become entirely about efficiency and optimization?

Priyanka Mattoo shares her journey toward being less useful, delivering life lessons without an ounce of preachiness or pressure. She looks at where pleasure begins and what it serves. Did you know karaoke can cure a stomachache? Or that Paddington Bear is a stealth lifestyle guru? Or that nobody actually asked you to do that labor-intensive thing you begrudgingly did? With self-deprecating humor, devastating insight, and bracing honesty, Priyanka shows us how to step out of the grind as a friend, as a partner, even as a parent, and welcome joy back into our lives without burning it all down.

What if, instead of being useful, we could all learn how to be happier, lighter, more present, more engaged?

Refreshingly funny and sparklingly astute, How to Be Less Useful is the perfect book for our current moment.

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Critic Reviews

‘A delightful and useful account of trading compulsive productivity for (gasp) fun. It reads like a gentle yet firm pep talk to stressed-out overachievers everywhere’ Vogue
‘If you're so tired of doing everything, if you’ve felt that particular ennui of planning something immense and feeling nothing, if you are VERY USEFUL and are struggling to even consider what it would feel like to be less so…..maybe this not-advice will hit you where you need it today.’ Anne Helen Petersen, Culture Study via Substack
‘In a world that rewards productivity, this astute self-help memoir reminds us of the value of the pursuit of pleasure’ People
‘If you’ve ever said to yourself, ‘I used to be fun!’ If you’ve struggled to relax, to ‘go with the flow,’ to let people sort things out for themselves. If you’ve craved an earlier, less harried version of your marriage, your life, yourself—this book is for you’ Maggie Smith, author of You Could Make This Place Beautiful
‘This is a painfully relatable yet also hilarious chillout manual for cool people who want to do and be more than their appointments and obligations’ Samantha Irby, author of Wow, No Thank You.
‘Priyanka Mattoo has written the funniest and most resonant survival guide for anxious eldest daughters everywhere. This is the liberating and necessary feminist manifesto for the modern age of optimization’ Bess Kalb, author of Nobody Will Tell You This But Me
‘Approachable and witty… . A winning combination of memoir and self-improvement… . Highly recommended’ Library Journal (starred)
'Self-deprecating and thoughtful… . Being less useful is not a switch to flip, a product to order online, or one book with all the answers’ Chicago Review of Books
‘A candid memoir of much-needed transformation’ Kirkus Reviews
‘Written with insightful wit and honest self-reflection’ Electric Literature
‘Read this book, gift it, annotate it, dog-ear the pages, tattoo its wisdom onto your arms and legs’ Diksha Basu, author of Destination Wedding
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