Kim Lee
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Kim Lee

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Full disclosure, Kim is not my real name. There is an unfortunate reality that, even though our lifestyle is consensual and legal, there is still a stigma that surrounds the Lifestyle. Using a pen name to tell my story helps me set a clear boundary between my own personal and professional life as a psychotherapist as well as respects the privacy of all parties involved. Professionally, I want my clients to be able to focus on their issues and not be distracted by the intricacies of my alternative lifestyle. Our sessions are not about me, it’s about them. Keeping my professional and personal worlds separate will ensure that I can continue serving my clients as I have done for many years. I grew up in an ultra-conservative Korean household where we didn’t talk about our feelings and emotions, let alone about sex. My home life was oppressive and restrictive. Finding the Lifestyle was the very opposite of what was expected of me and became an outlet. It let me be more expressive and free - everything my upbringing was not. The Lifestyle not only was helpful in my relationship with Kaleb, but it was also helpful for me in discovering my true identity. I am often asked what would happen if my real identity were exposed, if friends and family found out the truth. While I hope it never comes to that, I would start by encouraging them to read the book. It's not all just snippets of sex clubs and erotica–there's more emotional depth that humanizes my experience in a way that is relatable to people in any type of relationship. I hope that, in reading my book, you will get a glimpse into my life but also reflect on your own. For more information about me, including my blogs and guest podcast appearances, please follow me on Twitter (X): @KimLeeAuthor
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