Do you sometimes feel as if you're just going through the motions in life? Are you good at looking and acting as if you're fine, but secretly feel lonely and disconnected? If so, you are not alone. The world is full of people who have an innate sense that something is wrong with them - who feel they live on the outside looking in, but have no explanation for this feeling and no way to put it into words.
If you are one of these people, you may fear that you are not connected enough to your spouse, or that you don't feel pleasure or love as profoundly as others do. You may drink too much, or eat too much, or risk too much, in an attempt to feel something good.
Running on Empty will give you clear strategies for how to heal, and offers a special chapter for mental-health professionals. In the world of human suffering, this book is an emotional smart bomb meant to eradicate the effects of an invisible enemy.
©2013 Jonice Webb, PhD (P)2015 Tantor
No, the book is divided into chapters for very good reasons. I wanted to listen to specific chapters, and not all of them, but I was forced to by the endless run-on format. Insert Chapters!
Part 2 & Part 3: filling the tank are very good.
Why doesn't Audible require audible publishers to have chapter markers? The book is written in chapters to divide chunks of information. Also, re-listening to a part of the book would be so easy in comparison to holding the fast forward button - which is a ridiculous way to search for something in particular!
Dr. Webb described my symptoms perfectly. And also my childhood perfectly. Like the white space in a painting, it's not what happened, but rather what didn't happen. Having this knowledge will help me to create and plan treatment. Thank you Dr. Webb!
Well informed. Excellent for ones self development and for parenting as well. Two in one. New skill to help parents not repeat cycles.
"Little Lee Lee~ pretty powerful "
I listened to this book twice. And will listen to it again. So much information. A lot of insight as to why as adults we feel so empty, scared, lost and lonely. Even though we have children, a husband and friends.
We were emotionally neglected at such a critical time.
I cry uncontrollably almost every day. I'm 48 years old and just now able to start breaking through to the real pain. It's a horrible feeling to have SADNESS all of the time. But through therapy and books like this one I am beginning to put the painful pieces together.
I would highly recommend this book.
"If you need solutions don't buy this book"
No. This book did not deliver as promised.
More information should have been given on recovery. To much information was given about the problem. I know the problem that is why I purchased the book. I was seeking ways to overcome the issues caused not read a bunch of case studies about the issue.
Lol! The voice of the narrator only made it worst.
Disappointment. But not because of what was written. I was disappointed by the promise of help that was not delivered.
When I purchased this book I was looking for direction on how to handle the fallout of emotional neglect. In stead this book seems to be geared toward people who away looking for affirmation of their neglect. As previously stated, I am aware of the issue, which is why I purchased the book. This book fails to provide comprehensive help and direction. Therefore I will be returning it.
"Good book with somewhat robotic sounding narrator"
I loved the content and it's great for therapist use. It was difficult to listen to this narrator. It was similar to listening to Siri trying to narrate a book which is the reason I left off one star overall
"A Must Read for every clinician"
I found this book to be not only highly enlightening but extremely applicable. I believe every clinician should take the time to study the concept of emotional neglect.
Having said that, I also feel this book is extremely helpful for those who may have experienced emotional neglect, such as myself. Dr. Webb is very down-to-earth and this read is user-friendly to the layman as well.
This book was the aha moment that I've been looking for my whole life! It explains me to a tee! Great strategies and support for healing. Thank you!
"This book has changed my life."
I will be listening to this again! The material was so rich, deep and meaningful.
it felt like the book, 'Attached' but delving into the actual causes of these attachment styles in a way that I completely related to.
I loved her list of actual common mindsets of those who have experienced emotional neglect because i could relate to every single one fully. This was a huge wake up call.
I was stunned by the whole concept of emotional neglect because, as the author says, i never missed what i didn't know was missing. i came to this book because i was in a dead end romantic relationship that kept continuing despite how unhealthy it was for me. Listening to this book really helped me understand the root causes of why i would even have been attracted to this partner and stayed- because it replicated the same circumstances of my youth.
"Very insightful and helpful"
This book helped me see how emotionally neglected I was. It finally makes sense why I feel so empty and alone. I knew I had a bad childhood resulting in depression and great anxiety but this is another big piece of the puzzle. Feeling like I never quite fit in, feeling flawed and unloveable. Unworthy of love or attention. Emotional neglect is a terrible thing and causes many struggles until you get lots of help. She really describes me and the effects of this neglect perfectly.
"great content, annoying voice."
the author nails it on the head, getting to the root of most common conditions. I'll recommend this to anyone. the lady reading the book sounded so raspy and cold that I had to listen to it sped up just to get through it. I'm buying the hard copy to re-read just to avoid that whiny dogmatic voice and because it's a great book.
I thoroughly liked the book. It was so relieving hearing about the things that did not happen also has a big impact on children. I found the person reading the book sounded a bit robotic. It annoyed me to begin with until I got used to it.
The person performance is not fluid but the content is exceptional. The ideas and findings by Dr Webb will receive resonate with the majority.
A very interesting theory for the "why am I so unhappy when everything seems right" category of mental health. Manages to tread carefully around blame, even while putting emphasis on causal effect of parental behaviour.
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