In this episode, we dive deep into the highs and lows of long-distance relationships. We’re joined by Kelsey and Becky, a couple who fell in love 5,000 miles apart after matching on Hinge — and yes, there was a ghosting plot twist 👀

From navigating a transatlantic relationship (UK to LA) to their first in-person meeting, we unpack how they’re making long-distance love work. We talk conflict resolution, healthy communication in long-distance relationships, building trust across time zones, and the realities no one warns you about.

Whether you're in a long-distance relationship, thinking about starting one, or just love a good modern-day love story, this episode is full of honest insights, relationship advice, and a real look at what it takes to stay connected when you're worlds apart.

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• Instagram: ⁠@kelseyandbecky
• Tiktok: ⁠@kelseyandbecky
• Youtube: ⁠@kelseyandbecky

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This week, we're joined by our friend Amy to talk all things heartbreak, healing, and sapphic dating chaos. Amy shares how she rebuilt her confidence, stepped back into dating, and how it felt getting ghosted by the same girl as co-host Alana 👀💔 We unpack red flags, WLW dating patterns, navigating trust after betrayal, and what healing really looks like.

We also dive into spiritual healing after a breakup and the surprising ways energy work, intuition, and astrology can support healing.

Whether you've been ghosted, cheated on, or you're trying to date again after heartbreak—this one's for you.

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In this episode, we sit down with queer writer, artist, and pottery studio owner Megan Elliott-Hewson to dive into the beauty and complexity of queer marriage, building a life in creative partnership, and the unfiltered truth about writing queer fiction.

👉 We talk:

💍 The honest reality of queer marriage

🖋️ Writing queer novels in a straight-centered industry

🫖 Creating safe, soft spaces through queer pottery classes

💬 Finding love, art, and community as a queer woman

Find Megan Elliott-Hewson on:

• Instagram: @meganelliotthewson
• Clay wild studio Instagram: @claywildstudio

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In this episode, we’re joined by Moe Ari Brown (they / him) —Hinge’s Love & Connection Expert and a licensed therapist—to dive deep into the complexities of queer dating in 2025.

We talk about everything from label fatigue to performance pressure on dating apps, and what Hinge has learned about how LGBTQ+ people swipe, flirt, and connect differently than straight users.

Moe shares insights on:

• How queer users are moving away from traditional identity labels
• What it means to perform queerness on apps, often without realising it
• Why the pressure to be “dateable” can lead to self-erasure
• What underrated green flags to look for in queer dating
• How non-binary and gender-expansive users navigate a still-binary app culture

We also ask Moe for practical advice on building a more authentic dating profile, understanding identity ambiguity, and flirting past stereotypes like “soft masc” and “femme top.”

Read Hinge’s 2025 LGBTQIA+ D.A.T.E report (love beyonds labels): https://hinge.co/newsroom/2025-LGBTQ-Report

Find Moe Ari Brown on:

• Instagram: @loveoutproud
• Tiktok: @loveoutproud

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Being queer in your 20s means dating drama, messy breakups, and a few…questionable choices. This week, we play truth or drink and confess it all—from kinks to the ex we’re still not over.

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Let’s talk about it: why do anxious girlies keep falling for avoidant people?

In this episode, we get personal about our own experiences dating avoidant partners while navigating anxious attachment. From spiraling over mixed signals to learning how to show up more securely, we’re unpacking what it really feels like to be in these dynamics — and how we’re slowly breaking the pattern.

If you’ve ever felt clingy, overthought a text for hours, or kept giving chances to someone who couldn’t meet you emotionally — you’re not alone.

🎧 Topics we touch on:

• anxious vs avoidant attachment
• dating while anxiously attached
• our personal journey toward becoming secure

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We're talking all things WLW sex in this weeks unfiltered episode!

We answer YOUR most asked questions:

- Is scissoring actually a thing?

- How do WLW deal with long hair during sex?

- What's a myth vs fact when it comes to lesbian intimacy?

Plus, we dive into the serious gaps in sex education when it comes to queer relationships, and how growing up without proper info left many of us confused and googling things we shouldn’t have had to.

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In this episode, we’re joined by queer model, actor, writer and artist Abisha for a candid and inspiring conversation. She opens up about being best friends with her ex-girlfriend—and how her current girlfriend has become part of the friendship too. We talk about meeting her girlfriend online during the pandemic, their bold U-Haul love story, and what it’s really like navigating relationships with openness and emotional maturity. Abisha also shares what inspired her to write an LGBTQ+ children’s book, the importance of representation in queer literature and she gets real about the challenges and lessons that come with dating someone in the public eye.

Find Abisha on:

• Instagram: ⁠@abisha
• Tiktok: ⁠@abishaofficial

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