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giving (un)bothered

giving (un)bothered

By: Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever
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 Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun.

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Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • truth or drink: sapphic age gaps & getting caught having s*x

    truth or drink: sapphic age gaps & getting caught having s*x
    Oct 29 2025

    We’re back with another Truth or Drink, and things got way too real. From sapphic fantasies to virginity stories we probably shouldn’t have shared, this one’s pure chaos in the best way. Grab a drink and dive into the mess of queer dating, lesbian love, and our very own red flag behaviour 🌶️


    Find us on:

    • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
    • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
    • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


    #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships #wlw #lesbianpodcast #sapphic


    LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, queer dating mistakes, WLW relationship advice, I kissed a girl, IKAG, jojo siwa, gillian anderson, scream, dating red flags, intimacy, age gap relationships



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    37 mins
  • gold star lesbians, baby gays & heartbreak advice

    gold star lesbians, baby gays & heartbreak advice
    Oct 15 2025

    We’re answering your questions about gold star lesbians, baby gays, and queer heartbreak. Real listener confessions, breakup advice, and chaotic first-date stories: unfiltered and very gay. 🌈💔


    Find us on:

    • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
    • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
    • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠

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    42 mins
  • lesbian hot takes : why do lesbians sleep with their friends?

    lesbian hot takes : why do lesbians sleep with their friends?
    Oct 1 2025

    We’re back, season 2 of giving (un)bothered is here! 🎉 And we’re starting off strong with lesbian hot takes: all the unfiltered, spicy opinions you’ve been thinking (but maybe not saying out loud).

    From controversial takes on queer dating to the unspoken truths about lesbian friendships and community dynamics, we’re laying it all on the table.


    💌 Don’t forget to subscribe and drop your hottest take in the comments


    Find us on:

    • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
    • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
    • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


    #lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships

    LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, queer dating mistakes, lesbian situationships, lesbian dating mistakes, lesbian love signals, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically


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    26 mins
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