• Zindagi Se - Ep 28: Healthy Boundaries: Protecting Your Peace While Building Connections
    Jun 15 2025

    You've healed your inner child. You've discovered your authentic self. Now comes the crucial question: How do you protect this newfound authenticity in a world that's used to your people-pleasing patterns?


    This episode tackles one of the most misunderstood concepts in personal growth - healthy boundaries. RJ Ritu Roy addresses the deep cultural conditioning that makes boundary-setting feel like betrayal, selfishness, or rudeness, especially within Indian family dynamics where "sacrifice" and "adjustment" are often seen as virtues.


    Discover the six essential types of boundaries that everyone needs: physical boundaries that protect your personal space, emotional boundaries that shield you from manipulation, time boundaries that preserve your energy, digital boundaries for the social media age, and value-based boundaries that honor your core beliefs.


    Learn practical, respectful ways to communicate your limits using the Sandwich Method, "I" statements, and clear, specific language that maintains relationships while protecting your peace. Understand why boundary pushback is normal and how to handle guilt-tripping, testing, and emotional manipulation without compromising your newly discovered authentic self.


    This episode provides real-world scripts for challenging situations: saying no to extra work without seeming uncommitted, maintaining individual identity in romantic relationships, managing family expectations during festivals and functions, and protecting your emotional energy from energy vampires.


    Boundaries aren't walls that disconnect you from others - they're the foundation that allows for genuine intimacy and authentic connections. When you stop over-giving from obligation and start giving from choice, your relationships actually improve.


    Essential listening for recovering people-pleasers, anyone struggling with family expectations, workplace boundary issues, or relationship dynamics where you've lost yourself trying to keep others happy.


    Tags: Healthy Boundaries, People Pleasing, Self Care, Emotional Wellness, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Relationship Tips, Family Dynamics, Workplace Boundaries, Self Respect, Boundary Setting, Emotional Intelligence, Life Coaching, Hindi Podcast, Personal Development, Authentic Relationships, Mental Health Journey​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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    29 mins
  • Zindagi Se - Ep 27: Rediscovering Your True Self: Beyond Masks and People-Pleasing
    Jun 8 2025

    Are you exhausted from constantly adapting yourself to make others comfortable? Do you feel like you’re wearing different masks for different people, losing track of who you really are underneath? This episode is your guide to breaking free from the performance trap.


    Building on our inner child healing foundation, RJ Ritu Roy tackles the modern epidemic of lost identity - how we become so skilled at people-pleasing that we forget our authentic selves. This isn’t about childhood wounds; this is about the daily choices that either honor or betray your true nature.


    Explore the anatomy of people-pleasing: the chameleon effect that makes you automatically adjust to others’ expectations, the approval addiction that drives constant performance, and the conflict phobia that silences your real opinions. Understand how social media has intensified the pressure to curate perfect versions of ourselves, creating an even deeper disconnect from authenticity.


    Learn to recognize the subtle signs of when you’re wearing masks versus being genuine - from body language cues to energy levels. Discover the powerful practice of “personality archaeology” to uncover your authentic preferences, values, and reactions buried under layers of learned behavior.


    This episode provides practical tools for sustainable authentic living, including daily check-ins, emotion recognition practices, and strategies for handling the pushback that often comes when you stop people-pleasing. Understand why authentic relationships are deeper, why authentic leadership is more effective, and why the world desperately needs your real self.


    Warning: This journey requires courage. When you stop performing, some people will resist. But the freedom, energy, and genuine connections that come from authentic living are worth every uncomfortable moment.

    Your authentic self isn’t just enough - it’s exactly what the world needs.


    Tags: Authentic Self, People Pleasing, True Identity, Self Discovery, Personal Growth, Emotional Wellness, Self Acceptance, Mental Health, Life Coaching, Personal Authenticity, Breaking Masks, Real Self, Hindi Podcast, Self Worth, Emotional Freedom, Personal Transformation, Being Real​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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    21 mins
  • Zindagi Se - Ep 26: Nurturing the Inner Child: Healing Your Past to Transform Your Present
    Jun 1 2025

    "Nurturing the Inner Child: Healing Your Past to Transform Your Present" - World Parents Day Special


    Why do you react so strongly to certain situations? Why do some people trigger intense emotions in you? Why do you sometimes feel like you're not "enough" despite your achievements? The answer might lie in understanding and healing your inner child.


    On this special World Parents Day and Children's Day episode, RJ Ritu Roy guides listeners through the profound journey of inner child healing - a psychological concept that explains how our childhood experiences continue to influence our adult relationships, decisions, and emotional patterns.


    This episode goes beyond surface-level self-help to explore the unconscious childhood beliefs that govern our lives: "I'm not safe," "I don't matter," "Love must be earned." These beliefs, formed in our developmental years, create patterns of perfectionism, people-pleasing, fear of abandonment, and difficulty with boundaries that persist into adulthood.


    Through compassionate guidance and practical exercises, learn how to:

    - Recognize when your inner child is driving your reactions

    - Understand your emotional triggers from a deeper perspective

    - Practice "reparenting" - giving yourself the unconditional love you needed as a child

    - Break generational patterns of trauma and dysfunction

    - Rediscover the joy, creativity, and wonder that may have been suppressed


    This episode is essential listening for anyone who feels stuck in emotional patterns, struggles with relationships, or simply wants to understand themselves more deeply. The healing journey begins with awareness, progresses through compassion, and culminates in transformation.


    Whether you're a parent wanting to break negative cycles, someone dealing with childhood wounds, or anyone seeking emotional freedom, this conversation offers both understanding and hope for profound healing.


    Tags: Inner Child Healing, Childhood Trauma, Emotional Healing, Self-Compassion, Generational Trauma, Reparenting, Mental Health, Personal Growth, Psychology, Therapy, Emotional Intelligence, Self-Care, Mindful Parenting, World Parents Day, Hindi Podcast, Life Coaching​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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    17 mins
  • Zindagi Se - Ep 25: Building Bridges - The Power of Connection in a Divided World
    May 25 2025

    Are we more connected or more divided than ever before? In this essential episode, RJ Ritu Roy tackles one of the most pressing challenges of our time: how to create genuine human connections in a world that seems increasingly polarized and digitally dependent.


    Through thoughtful analysis and practical wisdom, this episode examines why despite having unprecedented access to communication tools, many people feel profoundly isolated and misunderstood. From the echo chambers of social media to the lost art of face-to-face conversation, Ritu explores how our digital habits are reshaping human relationships—not always for the better.


    The episode features powerful original poetry that vividly captures our modern digital dilemma, questioning whether our "social" media is actually making us antisocial. But this isn't just about identifying problems—it's about solutions.


    Listeners will discover practical strategies for building bridges across differences, from mastering the art of active listening to approaching disagreements with curiosity rather than judgment. Learn how to find common ground even with those who hold opposing views, and understand why empathy and genuine understanding are more powerful than winning arguments.


    This episode offers hope for anyone feeling disconnected in their relationships, overwhelmed by social divisions, or simply wanting to foster more meaningful connections in their personal and professional life. The message is clear: in a world that profits from division, choosing connection is both a radical and necessary act.


    Tags: Human Connection, Social Media Reality, Digital Detox, Building Relationships, Community Building, Active Listening, Overcoming Division, Authentic Communication, Empathy Building, Life Coaching, Social Awareness, Meaningful Conversations, Unity in Diversity, Modern Relationships, Hindi Podcast​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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    17 mins
  • Zindagi Se - Ep 24: The Ultimate Transformation: When a Woman Becomes a Mother
    May 11 2025

    What happens when your heart begins beating outside your body? In this powerful Mother's Day special, RJ Ritu Roy explores the most profound transformation a woman can experience—becoming a mother.


    Through intimate personal reflections on raising both her 14-year-old daughter and 11-month-old baby, alongside stories from mothers at all stages, Ritu illuminates the complex reality of motherhood that extends far beyond the sanitized images we typically see.


    This episode delves into the biological miracle of pregnancy, the life-altering moment of birth, and the challenging early days of motherhood when many women feel simultaneously overwhelmed with love and completely lost. With remarkable honesty, Ritu addresses the identity shift that occurs, how relationships transform, and the struggle to maintain selfhood while nurturing another human being.


    Most importantly, this episode honors the continuing journey of motherhood—how women evolve through each stage from infancy to empty nest, discovering strengths they never knew they possessed, and eventually finding their way back to themselves, forever changed but never diminished.


    For every woman who has felt both the indescribable joy and the crushing pressure of motherhood, who has questioned if she's doing it right, who has sacrificed pieces of herself along the way—this episode celebrates your journey, validates your struggles, and reminds you that taking care of yourself isn't selfish, but essential.


    Whether you're a mother, have a mother, or mother in your own unique way, this special episode offers both a celebration and a permission slip to honor the complete, complex experience of maternal love.


    Tags: Motherhood Journey, Maternal Transformation, Women's Identity, Postpartum Reality, Working Moms, Self-Care for Mothers, Modern Motherhood, Mother's Day Special, Life Transitions, Parenting Wisdom, Motherhood Challenges, Women Empowerment, Personal Growth Through Motherhood, Indian Moms, Hindi Podcast​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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    24 mins
  • Zindagi Se - Ep 23: The Evolution Of Woman
    May 4 2025

    What does it mean to evolve as a woman in today's world? In this heartfelt episode, RJ Ritu Roy explores the intricate journey of womanhood - from the "good girl" expectations of childhood to the complex identity shifts of adulthood.


    Through personal reflections and cultural insights, Ritu examines how society shapes female identity at each life stage, the invisible emotional labor expected of women, and the continuous process of losing and finding oneself through life's transitions.


    This episode thoughtfully unpacks how girls are socialized from birth, the conflicting messages received during adolescence, the empowering yet challenging phase of young adulthood, and how relationships and marriage create profound identity shifts. The narrative builds toward the anticipation of motherhood - setting the stage for next week's special Mother's Day episode.


    Whether you're a young woman navigating society's expectations, someone in the midst of a major life transition, or simply interested in understanding the female experience more deeply, this episode offers compassionate wisdom about embracing evolution while maintaining your core essence.


    Tags: Women's Identity, Life Transitions, Self-Discovery, Personal Growth, Women's Empowerment, Relationship Dynamics, Cultural Expectations, Female Experience, Personal Transformation, Mother's Day Special​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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    21 mins
  • Zindagi Se - Ep 22: The Art Of Transformation with Rajashri Gaikwad
    Apr 27 2025

    What happens when you face your limitations head-on instead of letting them define you? In this powerful episode, RJ Ritu Roy speaks with Rajashri Gaikwad about her journey from struggling with communication and technical knowledge to becoming a confident presenter who travels throughout Maharashtra conducting seminars.


    Rajashri shares the exact tools and practices that transformed her life—from courses that built her skills to the affirmations and visualizations that rewired her self-belief. With remarkable candor, she reveals the pivotal moments in her evolution and the mindset shifts that turned perceived barriers into stepping stones for growth.


    This conversation offers rare insight into the actual process of personal transformation. Rather than focusing solely on the end result, Rajashri illuminates the path itself—the courage required to acknowledge limitations, the persistence needed to overcome them, and the beautiful balance between humility and confidence that emerges through authentic growth.


    For anyone feeling limited by their current skills, struggling with self-doubt, or simply wanting to reinvent some aspect of themselves, this episode provides both inspiration and practical guidance for the journey ahead.


    Tags: Self-Transformation, Personal Growth, Communication Skills, Mindset Shifts, Affirmations, Visualization, Confidence Building, Career Evolution, Overcoming Barriers, Breakthrough Moments

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    31 mins
  • Zindagi Se - Ep 21: Rising Through Resilience with Neha Gaurkar
    Apr 20 2025

    What happens when life's unexpected turns threaten to derail your dreams? Meet Neha Gaurkar, an accomplished engineering professional whose journey from a career-altering accident to achieving her delayed US professional opportunity embodies the transformative power of resilience.


    In this powerful episode, Neha shares how a seemingly minor fall led to physical challenges that doctors suggested might never fully heal. Expected to abandon her dreams of an international career, she instead chose to defy limitations and rewrite her story.


    Through candid storytelling, Neha reveals:

    • The mental shifts that transformed medical setbacks into stepping stones

    • How engineering mindsets can be applied to personal healing journeys

    • The moment she finally stepped foot in the US for professional meetings—years after the opportunity was initially lost

    • Practical strategies for maintaining hope and momentum during recovery

    • Why resilience isn't just about bouncing back but about growing stronger


    This conversation transcends a simple recovery story to offer universal insights about human potential, the power of perseverance, and the beautiful ways life can circle back to our dreams when we refuse to give up.


    Tags: Resilience, Personal Journey, Overcoming Adversity, Career Comeback, Healing Story, Perseverance, Inspirational Stories, Life Lessons, Human Spirit, Transformation​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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    20 mins