If you walked into a store and saw a price tag hanging off your own body, what would it say? "Worth depends on productivity"? "Value increases with achievement"? Most women don't realize they're walking through life with an invisible price tag that changes based on performance. But what if your value isn't something you earn—what if it's something you were born with?

This episode reveals the belief sitting underneath almost every woman's exhaustion, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and burnout. You'll discover why you've been spending your entire life trying to achieve something you already have—and how reclaiming this truth changes everything.

In This Episode, You'll Discover:

• The "Worth Lie" that keeps you trapped in endless performance mode and constant emotional debt
• Why by age six, girls start associating their worth with being helpful and self-sacrificing
• The exhausting math you're doing in your head about whether you've "earned" basic human needs
• How believing your worth is conditional makes you endlessly exploitable
• The two simple proofs that your worth has always been inherent (the Baby Test and the Value Paradox)
• What happens the moment you stop performing for worth—and why everyone will benefit
• Why discomfort isn't danger; it's your nervous system learning a new way of being

Key Insights:

"Worth that has to be earned can always be lost. So you live in a constant state of emotional debt—always trying to pay off a balance that never hits zero."

"You're not a product with a price tag. You're priceless. Not because you're beyond measure—but because you cannot be assigned a price at all."

"You didn't lose your worth. You lost your awareness of it. Somewhere along the way, you traded inherent worth for earned worth. You traded identity for performance. You traded being for proving."

Take This with You:

Do one thing this week that challenges the Worth Lie. Just one. Rest before you've "earned" it. Say no without over-explaining. Take care of yourself without justifying why you deserve it. One moment. One choice.

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In this powerful episode of Your Utmost Life, Misty Celli unpacks the quiet, yet devastating, experience that many women face but rarely name: the slow erosion of identity under the weight of being a “good woman.” If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought, I don’t even know who I am anymore, this episode is going to feel like someone finally turned the lights on.

You’ll hear the story of how ambitious, loving, high‑capacity women unintentionally make themselves invisible — not because they’re weak, but because they were taught that love equals sacrifice. And you’ll learn the truth that changes everything: if you made yourself disappear, you have the power to bring yourself back.

In This Episode, You’ll Discover:

• The subtle moment when a woman realizes she’s disappeared into her roles
• Why “being a good mother, good wife, good woman” becomes an identity trap
• The emotional and physical cost of shrinking yourself down to “I’m just…”
• The research behind identity loss in women and why it’s so common
• The validation‑frustration loop that keeps you overfunctioning
• Why reclaiming yourself feels disruptive — and why that’s a good sign
• The exact moment every woman faces when she begins to reappear
• How to start excavating the real you beneath years of self‑abandonment

Key Insight

You didn’t disappear.
You buried yourself under expectations, obligations, and the belief that your worth depends on what you provide.
And what’s buried can be excavated.

Take This With You

Reclaiming your identity isn’t selfish — it’s essential. Your children, your partner, your work, and your future all benefit when you stop living as a ghost in your own life and start showing up as the whole, vibrant, opinionated woman you were always meant to be.

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Have you ever felt crushing guilt for wanting something beyond your role as wife and mom? In this transformative episode, Misty Celli shares her personal story of sitting outside a real estate office with a 15-year dream in her hands and the wave of shame that nearly stopped her from pursuing it.

If you've ever convinced yourself that wanting personal dreams somehow betrays your family, this episode will completely shift your perspective. Misty reveals why the belief that "wanting more means you're ungrateful" isn't just limiting you, it's actually robbing your family of the gift of your full potential.

In This Episode, You'll Discover:

• Why wanting more is evidence of your design, not proof of ingratitude
• The hidden cost of suppressing your dreams (and what it teaches your children)
• How to shift from "either/or" thinking to "both/and" living
• The oxygen mask principle: why pursuing your dreams makes you a better wife and mother
• Practical steps to reclaim your "more" without guilt
• How to reframe desire as sacred rather than selfish
• The legacy you're building when you honor your full design

Quotes to Remember:

"Wanting more doesn't mean your family isn't enough. It means you're recognizing that God created you to be more than just a supporting character in everyone else's story."

"Your family doesn't need you to be smaller. They need you to be whole and alive."

"You cannot pour from an empty cup. Depleted women make depleted wives and mothers."

"The guilt you feel about wanting more isn't your intuition telling you you're wrong. That's programming telling you to stay small."

"Your desire for more isn't evidence that being a wife and mom isn't fulfilling. It's evidence that you were designed for expansion."

Action Steps:

1. Audit your postponed dreams—write down what you've been putting on hold
2. Schedule weekly "dream time" that's just for you (start with even 5 minutes)
3. Stop apologizing when you talk about your dreams
4. Reframe "wanting more" as "honoring my design"
5. Do ONE thing this week

Real human to real human...I would love to hear from you, I will personally read and answer. Share with me what resonated with you the most, what you are struggling with, or just say, Hi!

Feel stuck, invisible, or unrecognizable to yourself for the last 3 months? Want your spark, feel seen, and find joy? Get personalized next steps based on where you are, not generic advice. Find your voice again, remember what makes you come alive, and create something that's actually yours. It begins with you—the woman underneath all the roles. Ready to let her be seen? Click

📲 If this episode spoke to you, share it with a woman who needs to hear she’s not alone. One message from you could be the moment she finally exhales.

🧭 Want to know where you truly are on your journey — surviving or thriving?
Take my free quiz and get instant clarity on what’s holding you back and what you need next. Take the quiz “Surviving or Thriving?” and you’ll find it

🔗 Join me on Instagram for daily encouragement, honest conversations, and behind‑the‑scenes moments from this journey: @yourutmostself

🎧 Follow the podcast so you never miss an episode that brings you back to who you truly are and helps you step into your utmost life.

✨ Explore more tools, articles, and free resources to support your growth and identity work at Your Utmost Self.