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You Make It Happen

You Make It Happen

By: Missy ML
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Summary

Travel, trauma, food and everything in between! In this podcast, we explore the connect between travel, trauma healing, self improvement, self-love, self-compassion, and cultivating more happiness, joy and gratitude in our lives.

Missy ML
Hygiene & Healthy Living Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Episodes
  • 36 - Who the f*ck goes to therapy?! pt2
    Mar 12 2026

    Finding a Good Therapist: Part 2 - Navigating the Therapeutic JourneyIn this episode, the discussion from the previous episode continues on how to find a therapist who is the right fit. Emphasis is placed on understanding your own readiness for therapy and being clear about your goals. The host highlights Dr. Brene Brown's concept of 'doing your best,' and stresses the importance of self-awareness in both therapy and dating. Insightful tips on choosing a qualified therapist, recognizing the signs of a good therapeutic relationship, and the necessity of a therapist also having a therapist, are discussed. Book recommendations such as 'The Body Keeps the Score' and 'No Bad Parts' are highlighted to complement the therapy journey. The episode concludes with a hiatus announcement, urging listeners to prioritize their mental health and take everything shared in the podcast with a grain of salt.00:00 Introduction and Recap00:33 The 'Doing Your Best' Story02:21 Dating and Therapy: Finding the Right Fit06:13 Interviewing a Therapist: Key Questions08:29 Knowing Yourself: Are You Ready for Therapy?10:51 Personal Anecdotes and Therapy Insights14:57 Final Tips for Finding a Good Therapist23:35 Podcast Announcements and Hiatus

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    26 mins
  • 35- Who the f*ck goes to therapy?! pt 1
    Feb 12 2026

    How to Find a Good Therapist: Personal Experiences and Practical AdviceIn this episode, the host addresses their audience after a brief hiatus, expressing appreciation for the feedback received on the podcast.

    They discuss a listener-requested follow-up to Episode 4, 'How to Find a Good Therapist.'

    The host emphasizes that podcast advice is no substitute for professional mental health help and delves into their personal journey with therapy.

    Topics covered include the importance of finding a therapist who is the right fit for an individual's emotional and spiritual readiness, differences in attachment styles, and levels of therapeutic work such as inner child healing and DBT/CBT. The episode concludes with an analogy comparing the slow, incremental progress in therapy to a child's development and stresses the importance of sticking with therapy while also knowing one's limits.

    00:00 Introduction and Listener Feedback

    00:20 Revisiting Episode Four: Finding a Good Therapist

    01:26 The Importance of Professional Help

    03:01 Personal Experience with Therapy

    05:32 Understanding Attachment Styles

    11:58 Therapy Progress and Expectations

    16:02 Finding the Right Therapist

    20:34 Dating and Emotional Availability

    24:58 Conclusion and Upcoming Topics

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    26 mins
  • 34 - pt3, Anna on BPD and much more!
    Jan 15 2026

    The Importance of Emotional Support and Understanding BPDIn this episode, the speaker discusses the critical need for individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) to seek external perspectives and support from trusted friends to counteract extreme views. The discussion highlights how trauma responses can create self-doubt and the importance of reassurance and affirmations. The conversation also explores the broader issue of mental health education, arguing for its inclusion in school curricula to better equip individuals to handle emotional regulation and mental wellbeing. The speaker reflects on their personal journey with BPD, the gaps in mental health care, and the importance of patience, empathy, and fact-based advice in supporting loved ones with BPD. Suggestions include verifying the credibility of information sourced from social media and other platforms.00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Reaching Out02:10 The Role of Affirmations and Reassurance04:29 Mental Health Education: What We Should Have Learned08:25 Challenges in Seeking Help12:12 Understanding BPD: Diagnosis and Information14:54 Supporting Loved Ones with BPD18:17 The Importance of Credible Information

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    22 mins
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