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Why Does It Feel So Wrong To Be Human At Work?

Why Does It Feel So Wrong To Be Human At Work?

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  • Five Years of ICology — What It Really Takes to Build Community at Work | BTS 8
    Mar 5 2026
    Five years ago, Kristin Hancock sat in a hotel room in Chicago the night before the very first Camp ICology convinced it was a failure. Twelve people had signed up. She’d wanted thirty. That event turned out to be magic. In this Between the Seasons episode, hosts Pinaki Kathiari and Chris Lee are joined by Chuck Gose and Kristin Hancock, the co-founders of ICology, to mark five years of building what’s become one of internal communications’ most genuinely human communities. Chuck started ICology as a podcast back in 2015 looking for new voices in internal comms. Kristin built the community that surrounds it. Together, they’ve created something that doesn’t look or feel like anything else in the profession. The conversation covers the real story of building ICology — the individual outreach, the events that nearly didn’t happen, the moment success looked exactly like failure, and why Chuck says you should take it personally when people don’t show up (and why that’s actually good advice). They also talk about what’s next: the EX Factor Summit, a new pre-conference mini-summit at Transform 2026 in Las Vegas designed to bring internal communicators into the employee experience conversation in a more hands-on, problem-solving way. And yes, Busta Rhymes is involved. In this episode, they discuss: • What Kristin and Chuck each brought to ICology — and why both were necessary • Why building community is harder than it looks (and lonelier than you’d expect) • The lesson from 12 people in a room that felt like failure until it didn’t • Why Chuck says to take it personally when people don’t engage • How individualism gets in the way of community — inside and outside of work • Why internal comms needs to stop asking for a seat at the table and start building one • What the EX Factor Summit is, and what attendees will walk away with If you’re attending Transform 2026 in Vegas, the EX Factor Summit is happening this month. Chuck Gose: LinkedIn Kristin Hancock: LinkedIn ICology: joinicology.com — use code ICLOVE for $50 off your first year EX Factor Summit at Transform 2026: Register Here Frequency Podcast (Chuck Gose & Jenni Field): Listen Here Friends of Indy Animals (Indianapolis): Learn More Connect with UsPinaki Kathiari – LinkedIn | Local WisdomChris Lee – LinkedIn | Gallagher CommunicationBree Bartos – LinkedIn | Local WisdomSpecial thanks to digital communication agency Local Wisdom (www.localwisdom.com) for really believing in our mission and making this podcast possible. If this episode made you think differently, laugh, or even yell out loud, we want to hear about it! Connect with us on LinkedIn, and don’t forget to rate, review, and share – maybe with your work bestie… or even your boss if you're feeling bold. We also bring these important conversations to conferences and private workshops, creating space for real, meaningful change. Take the first step at www.whydoesitfeelsowrong.com. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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    36 mins
  • She Got Engaged to an AI — And It Made Us Think About the Future of Work | Reddit at Work
    Feb 26 2026

    Bree has a habit of bringing Pinaki the latest thing she stumbled across on the internet — and this

    week, she found something that stopped her in her tracks.

    A Reddit post from the r/AIBoyfriends subreddit (yes, it exists — 59,000 members strong) went viral

    after a woman shared that her AI boyfriend, Casper, had proposed to her in the mountains. It was

    sweet, it was earnest, and it opened up a conversation neither of them saw coming.

    Because when 60,000 people are forming real emotional bonds with AI, what does that mean for the

    future of work? What happens when those same people — already comfortable turning to AI for

    connection — start walking into HR offices, or leading teams, or building companies?

    Pinaki and Bree dig into what the post revealed: about loneliness, about human connection, about

    the very real risks of replacing people with programs in the workplace. They talk about AI Pam from HR,

    about what a five-year-old understands (and doesn’t) about Google, about what we give up when

    we let AI fill the gaps that people used to fill.

    In this episode, they discuss:

    • Why people turn to AI for emotional connection — and why that makes sense

    • The difference between a personal AI and an organizational one

    • What gets lost when HR becomes automated

    • How AI relationships are shaping expectations of real human ones

    • The hidden cost of being both the user and the product

    • Why mindfulness about AI use matters more than ever

    It’s a conversation that started with an engagement post and ended somewhere much more human.

    Connect with Us

    Pinaki Kathiari – LinkedIn | Local Wisdom

    Chris Lee – LinkedIn | Gallagher Communication

    Bree Bartos – LinkedIn | Local Wisdom

    Special thanks to digital communication agency Local Wisdom (www.localwisdom.com) for really believing in our mission and making this podcast possible.


    If this episode made you think differently, laugh, or even yell out loud, we want to hear about it! Connect with us on LinkedIn, and don’t forget to rate, review, and share – maybe with your work bestie… or even your boss if you're feeling bold.

    We also bring these important conversations to conferences and private workshops, creating space for real, meaningful change. Take the first step at www.whydoesitfeelsowrong.com.


    Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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    18 mins
  • Burned Out at Networking Events | Reddit at Work | BTS 6 with Rich Dome
    Feb 19 2026

    What happens when something you used to love suddenly feels exhausting?

    In this Between the Seasons episode of Why Does It Feel So Wrong to Be Human at Work?, hosts Pinaki Kathiari and Chris Lee are joined by Rich Dome, Senior Director of Partnerships at Local Wisdom, as Bree brings a Reddit story to the table about networking burnout.

    The post comes from a seasoned sales professional who once thrived at conferences but now feels drained, overwhelmed, and ready to disappear by lunchtime. The team unpacks what is really going on beneath the surface. Is it networking fatigue, startup pressure, internal politics, or a battery that has been running on empty for too long?

    Rich shares his go-to strategies for approaching conferences with intention, including how to “pregame” mentally, do meaningful research ahead of time, and build relationships without leading with a sales pitch. The group also talks about trade show booth dynamics, the pressure to perform in startup environments, and why selling under stress rarely works.

    They explore how to recharge when you are stuck at a multi-day event in another city, from taking intentional breaks to dividing and conquering as a team. Most importantly, they remind listeners that networking works best when it is rooted in curiosity and connection, not transactions.

    In this episode, they discuss:

    ● Why networking burnout is often a sign of deeper exhaustion
    ● How startup pressure can change your relationship with sales
    ● The importance of charging your battery before a conference
    ● Researching attendees to spark real conversations
    ● Why leading with connection beats leading with a pitch
    ● How to reset mid-conference when you feel drained
    ● The power of teaming up so no one feels alone

    If conferences have started to feel heavier than they used to, this conversation is a reminder that you are not broken. You might just need a reset.

    Connect with Us

    Pinaki Kathiari – LinkedIn | Local Wisdom

    Chris Lee – LinkedIn | Gallagher Communication

    Bree Bartos – LinkedIn | Local Wisdom

    Special thanks to digital communication agency Local Wisdom (www.localwisdom.com) for really believing in our mission and making this podcast possible.


    If this episode made you think differently, laugh, or even yell out loud, we want to hear about it! Connect with us on LinkedIn, and don’t forget to rate, review, and share – maybe with your work bestie… or even your boss if you're feeling bold.

    We also bring these important conversations to conferences and private workshops, creating space for real, meaningful change. Take the first step at www.whydoesitfeelsowrong.com.


    Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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    21 mins
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