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We're Having Gay Sex

We're Having Gay Sex

By: Ashley Gavin & Studio71
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 After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20PolicyAshley Gavin & Studio71 Copyright 2020 All rights reserved. Social Sciences
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  • Yvette Segan is Definitely Getting Cancelled From This Episode | WHGS Ep. 305

    Yvette Segan is Definitely Getting Cancelled From This Episode | WHGS Ep. 305
    Jan 5 2026
    This episode is saying all the wrong things, listener! Yvette Segan is a fan-favorite stand up comedian, actor, writer, and podcaster with over 400k followers across all platforms from her hilarious videos. However, today she RETURNS to the apartment because she’s finally in a queer relationship — she's dating a bisexual man! We discuss queerness in straight-passing relationships, being so in love that you’re writing poetry (gay), dating vs. self worth, and making dated assumptions about queers that we will NOT edit out of the pod. Ashley and Jen’s parents finally meet for the first time. Lizzy spreads vicious gay rumors about her uncle. FOLLOW YVETTE SEGAN: Listen to her podcast, "Friend Crush,” right now: - https://www.youtube.com/@FriendCrushPodcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/friend-crush-with-yvette/id1819272413 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yevit Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yvettesegan/ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/YMKhxspHxuE ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: FACTOR: Get 50% OFF your 1st box + FREE breakfast for one year with code “gay50off” at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • WHGS Holiday BONUS — Best of YHGS (Reacting to YOUR Stories!)

    WHGS Holiday BONUS — Best of YHGS (Reacting to YOUR Stories!)
    Dec 29 2025
    Happy Holidays, Bottoms! To celebrate everything you have done for us, enjoy this special highlight reel of some of the best moments from our Patreon bonus series, “You’re Having Gay Sex,” where we read and react to stories submitted by you! In addition, Ashley gives an extra long holiday message, answering some of your gayest questions about the holidays. Gather round your chosen family and get ready for some of YOUR most hilarious moments! Want even more bonus? SUPPORT THE PODCAST: Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/k2lrdRBczOM FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincenthasrisen Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincenthasrisen/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189 Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/ FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • When Brandon Rogers Bangs, A Family Falls Apart | WHGS Ep. 303

    When Brandon Rogers Bangs, A Family Falls Apart | WHGS Ep. 303
    Dec 22 2025
    This episode is risking it all, listener! Brandon Rogers is a massive queer actor, content creator, and comedian that’s had you laughing on everything, from YouTube sketches to shows like “Helluva Boss.” However, today he’s in the apartment to have you GASPING from the situations he has put himself in! We discuss your first time having gay sex getting interrupted by your partner’s family walking in, acting, representation, the depth & beauty of queer characters, and interior design. Ashley almost gets arrested. Lizzy lives in the queer underground. FOLLOW BRANDON ROGERS: Watch his content on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@BrandonRogers TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@brandonrogers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonbored/ Twitter/X: https://x.com/hotbananastud FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY ALEX VRAHAS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alvrahas/ SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/k2lrdRBczOM ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: MINT MOBILE: Shop Mint Unlimited Plans at https://www.mintmobile.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 2 mins
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I listen to audiobooks religiously, so I didn't get into podcasts until We're Having Gay Sex. it was the brain break I needed and is absolutely hilarious.

Being an Aussie, I really don't know most of the guests, but it makes zero difference in the overall listening experience, and I am that wierdo driving along laughing madly or grinning like a fool. I love it!

Just listen to it

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