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We're Having Gay Sex

We're Having Gay Sex

By: Ashley Gavin & Studio71
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 After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20PolicyAshley Gavin & Studio71 Copyright 2020 All rights reserved. Social Sciences
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  • Dan Docimo Overcomes Getting Misgendered Through Hate | WHGS Ep. 297

    Dan Docimo Overcomes Getting Misgendered Through Hate | WHGS Ep. 297
    Nov 10 2025
    This episode is non-binary, listener! Dan Docimo (they/them) is an incredible up-and-coming comedian that opens for some of the biggest comedy acts in the world, but today they’re in the apartment to open some LEGS! We discuss being non-binary in a very straight field, staying sane in a gendered world, dating not going well, and not putting in much effort at all to change all that, anyways. Ashley is a pincher. Lizzy goes butch on her toilet. Follow Dan on IG, Twitter/X, & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/dandocimo/ https://www.tiktok.com/@dandocimo https://x.com/DanDocimo And see them live this Friday, 11/14, for New York Comedy Fest: https://checkout.square.site/merchant/MLBV7Q7F9NG4G/checkout/G3XH3HZJ5ZEAMJHZSNGFTC74 https://punchup.live/dandocimo FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/4fM7EuMqmwg PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 25% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex BBOUTIQUE: EVERYONE who signs up wins a FREE toy or gift card! https://www.bboutique.co/vibe/werehavinggaysex-podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Claire Sundbye Gets Tortured By Conversion Therapy (Internally) | WHGS Ep. 296

    Claire Sundbye Gets Tortured By Conversion Therapy (Internally) | WHGS Ep. 296
    Nov 3 2025
    This episode is ALARMING, listener! Claire Sundbye is a queer stand-up comedian and writer that opens for Ashley all across the Midwest, but today she’s in the apartment to open up Pandora’s Box — because she’s suddenly BANGING MEN?!?! We discuss sleeping with men and enjoying it after living as a lesbian for your whole life, why this may have happened, the sexual and emotional trauma fueling it all, and growing up queer surrounded by the notoriously hateful Westboro Baptist Church. Also we talk about cruises. Follow Claire on IG & TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/lilshrimpsnack/ https://www.tiktok.com/@lilshrimpsnack And see here live in Chicago at one of her weekly shows: -https://laughfactorychicago.standuptix.com/events/fresh-faces-chicago-15 -https://www.eventbrite.com/e/comedians-you-should-know-cysk-at-timothy-otooles-pub-tickets-168198250495 FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/vsQlFCgW3o4 PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELLOFRESH: Get 10 FREE MEALS + FREE breakfast for LIFE at https://www.hellofresh.com/gay10fm Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • The Truth About Trans Athletes In Sports w/ Harrison Browne | WHGS Ep. 295

    The Truth About Trans Athletes In Sports w/ Harrison Browne | WHGS Ep. 295
    Oct 27 2025
    This episode is deeply informative, listener! Harrison Browne is a transgender actor, filmmaker, and former professional hockey player in the National Women’s Hockey League, but today he’s in the apartment to silence the moral panic around trans athletes in sports ONCE AND FOR ALL! We discuss coming out as trans in a professional sports league, testosterone vs. athletic performance, the nuances of regulations around transgender players, and bizarre gay sex scandals in Boise. Ashley transitions into a woman-woman. Lizzy gets gay typecasted. Check out his queer short film, “Pink Light:” https://www.instagram.com/pinklight.film/ Follow Harrison on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/hbrowne24/ https://www.tiktok.com/@hbrowne24 https://x.com/hbrowne24 FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/bs8hvUxFy3U PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: MINT MOBILE: Get incredible coverage with no hidden fees at https://www.mintmobile.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 5 mins
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I listen to audiobooks religiously, so I didn't get into podcasts until We're Having Gay Sex. it was the brain break I needed and is absolutely hilarious.

Being an Aussie, I really don't know most of the guests, but it makes zero difference in the overall listening experience, and I am that wierdo driving along laughing madly or grinning like a fool. I love it!

Just listen to it

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