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We're Having Gay Sex

We're Having Gay Sex

By: Ashley Gavin & Studio71
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 After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20PolicyAshley Gavin & Studio71 Copyright 2020 All rights reserved. Social Sciences
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  • Transitioning, Dating, and Letting Your Parents Pick Your New Name w/ Brenna Jordan | WHGS Ep. 280

    Transitioning, Dating, and Letting Your Parents Pick Your New Name w/ Brenna Jordan | WHGS Ep. 280
    Jul 14 2025
    This episode is challenging gender, listener! Brenna Jordan is an ICONIC trans content creator and comedian making her return to the internet, but today she’s making a return to the apartment to get wet and loose! We discuss adjusting to life a few years into transitioning, finding meaning beyond your trans identity, dating men safely in a world filled with gross fetishists, and the most trans thing ever: the Meisner Technique. Ashley is losing a relationship spark. Maddie confronts the downsides of appearing non-binary. Follow Brenna on IG and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/brennajordan/ https://www.tiktok.com/@brendanwjordan SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/JZ0ZGmv-DEA FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF sitewide at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex FACTOR: Use code “gay50off” to get 50% OFF + FREE SHIPPING at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • How to Date Someone With Disabilities w/ Tina Friml | WHGS Ep. 279

    How to Date Someone With Disabilities w/ Tina Friml | WHGS Ep. 279
    Jul 7 2025
    This episode is disabled and proud, listener! Tina Friml (Comedy Central, The Tonight Show) is an incredible stand up comedian and writer with cerebral palsy that has been taking the internet by storm, but today she’s in the apartment GIVING the internet some TIPS on banging in the world of disabilities! We discuss dating with disabilities and its in’s and out’s, managing social anxieties around your disability, how male gaze affects even male strip clubs, and embracing disability pride because the gay pride flag sucks. Ashley is letting girls into her apartment. Lizzy is having lesbian sex in a straight relationship. Alex is being pimped out for views. Tina taking a break from touring! See her LIVE while you still can: https://linktr.ee/tinafriml Follow Tina on IG and TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/tinafriml/ https://www.tiktok.com/@tinafriml SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/XhvnjwrSuXQ FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW LIZZY CASSIDY @lizzycassidy TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/ Twitter: https://x.com/lizzaster Tour Dates & Podcasts: https://linktr.ee/lizzycassidy PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Being Straight is a Choice w/ Steph Tolev | WHGS Ep. 278

    Being Straight is a Choice w/ Steph Tolev | WHGS Ep. 278
    Jun 30 2025
    This episode is chaos, listener! We have the return of fan-favorite Steph Tolev, one of today's best working stand-ups and actors with a NEW Netflix special out, “Filth Queen,” but today she’s in the apartment to undo her straight conversion therapy! We discuss being sucked out of the lesbian dating pool by a gorgeous man, maintaining a positive body image in the internet age, living life as a boy-girl, and freaking out at your girl-boy boyfriend. Ashley hits the double-date. Maddie self-sabotages. Watch “Steph Tolev: Filth Queen” NOW: https://www.netflix.com/title/81764903 Follow Steph on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/stephtolev/ https://www.tiktok.com/@stephtolev https://x.com/stephtolev SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/mD8N5XTs_0k FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener PRODUCED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: BOULEVARD: Book a demo at https://www.joinblvd.com/gay for 10% OFF your first year! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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    1 hr and 14 mins

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Just listen to it

I listen to audiobooks religiously, so I didn't get into podcasts until We're Having Gay Sex. it was the brain break I needed and is absolutely hilarious.

Being an Aussie, I really don't know most of the guests, but it makes zero difference in the overall listening experience, and I am that wierdo driving along laughing madly or grinning like a fool. I love it!

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