Alessandra is back after a chaotic trip to Arizona—complete with an unexpected bout of hay fever—and she’s catching you up on everything from Pride in Asbury Park to her nieces visiting and a soul-stirring Teddy Swims concert at Radio City. This week’s “Spill the Tea” dives deep with advice on family betrayal, emotionally manipulative partners, messy weddings, weaponized therapy, toxic grandmothers, and friendship shifts after motherhood. Alessandra unpacks the reality of being single in your 30s, why kids today literally can’t read, and how fake allergies took her out. Tune in for brutally honest advice, heartfelt commentary, and the unfiltered chaos you come for.

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In this hilariously honest episode Alessandra catches us up on her whirlwind week of travel across New York, Delaware, Pennsylvania, and Arizona; all while celebrating family milestones and reflecting on the joy (and chaos) of close relationships. She opens up about overcoming burnout, what it’s really like to pivot careers in your 30s, and how ADHD plays a role in managing creative; fast-paced work.

Plus, Alessandra reads your “Spill the Tea” submissions about everything from a friend stealing your baby name… for a dog?! The group vacation that turned into a group therapy session and more.

Alessandra gets real about growing pains in adulthood, being honest in communication without burning bridges, and how it’s totally normal to feel jealous when your friends are thriving;especially in your 30s. If you’ve ever felt behind, misunderstood, or just burnt out by people, this is your Monday reset.

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Let's revisit an episode with our favorite celebrity sleuth Jordy Cray (@jordycray)! Although he's known for his viral takes on celebrity news and drama, there is more to Jordy's story that Alessandra resonates with. Jordy talks about his experience as an addict, the moment of realization and the long road to recovery that led him to want to help others. To end the episode, Jordy gives us his thoughts on the Zack Bryan drama, the Housewives of Salt Lake City, and Jason Kelce's lack of security guards.

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