• Episode 9 • Guts and Glory
    Mar 24 2026

    Bodies bodies bodies! They're getting older, and we're going to talk about 'em. About cosmetic enhancements and laser hair removal and varicose veins and shooting botulism into your face. It's a rollicking, freewheeling conversation in which we probably overshare, so tune in!

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Episode 8 • I Love You
    Mar 17 2026

    Spurred by an email from one of our listeners, we talk about “I love you” — when do you say it, why do you say it, when shouldn’t you say it, and what does it mean?

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    1 hr and 1 min
  • Episode 7 • Baggage Claim
    Mar 10 2026

    Yes, folks, it’s part three of our continuing series of episodes about dating. In this one we talk about baggage, all the junk-in-the-trunk you bring to relationships forged later in life. Prior loves, complicated families, changing careers, turbulent finances — we tackle ’em all and try not to Cattrall, so tune in!

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Episode 6 • Knitting Sweaters Out of Sand
    Mar 3 2026

    In this episode, filmed in the backyard in our bathrobes, we talk about male vulnerability. Do you want Chalamet or McConnaughey? YOU CANNOT HAVE BOTH!

    Lots of other stuff is covered as well because we could not stay on topic. The morning was just too nice.

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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Episode 5 • We’ve Got Mail
    Feb 27 2026

    A bonus episode where we read and react to some of your emails about dating. Have a great weekend!

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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Episode 4 • Is That a Red Rose or a Red Flag? (dating, part two)
    Feb 24 2026

    By popular demand, more talk about dating! In this one, we walk you from app to appetizers: Like, what if you treat a first date as a job interview — does that make it less scary? Also discussed: our first conversation, the last shot of The Graduate, and P’s foolproof test to help you discover why you make the relationship choices you do.

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    58 mins
  • Episode 3 • Modern Lovers (dating, part one)
    Feb 17 2026

    Everyone wants to talk about dating! And not just how we met (on an app), but also what it’s like to put yourself out there in middle age. Should you lie about how old you are? Brandish a large fish in your profile picture? Tune in for all the answers!

    Here’s Jeff’s monologue, “Observational Proficiency,” in which he talks about his disastrous Raya profile and why P clicked on it anyway.

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    1 hr and 4 mins
  • Episode 2 • The Argument Clinic
    Feb 10 2026

    Have we had our first argument? Are you kidding?? We’ve had many!

    In this episode, we talk about that first argument — which occurred mere days after our first date — and what we learned from it. About arguing, and about relationships.

    Cited herein: Us, by Terrence Real.

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    1 hr and 2 mins