Together

By: Michael Elliott and Courtney Wren
  • Summary

  • Courtney Wren & Mike Elliott are a conscious couple living in the forest, on the river with earth based community. They are conscious parents to a 1 yr old little one Cedar. Mike & Courtney were both on an individual path of spiritual awakening & healing. Both feeling the life purpose of embodying & teaching conscious relationship. As their paths crossed they entered into partnership from the beginning with the intention of Sacred Relationship~ Relationship as Awakening. Now, they open up & share openly their day to day journey & learnings of relationship & parenting.
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Episodes
  • Why Porn & Substances Are Ruining Your Relationships (& What to Do Instead)
    May 3 2025
    • In this vulnerable and transformational solo episode, Mike Elliott shares his personal journey through pornography, substance use, shame, and the path to sacred masculine maturity.

      He unpacks how these often-hidden coping mechanisms:


      -Sabotage intimacy and emotional availability
      -Keep men stuck in immaturity and isolation
      -Block the deeper soul gifts of love, leadership, and purpose
      You’ll also hear about his upcoming community for men: The Initiated Man.


      00:00 – Warm Hellos from Costa Rica

    • 01:30 – From Sunshine to Sacred Grounding

    • 03:00 – Easing Into the Space: Consent, Safety & Setting the Tone

    • 06:30 – The Emotional Reality of Building a Life Abroad

    • 09:45 – Illness, Parenting, and Emotional Resilience

    • 13:00 – What Led Them to Seek Support

    • 16:10 – The Power Struggle & Communication Breakdown

    • 20:30 – Discovering the Pattern: The Shame-Defense Cycle

    • 25:10 – “Returning to Love” in Practice

    • 28:30 – What Shifted Through Working Together

    • 32:40 – The Role of Safety in Intimacy

    • 36:00 – Healing Through Witnessing and Slowing Down

    • 40:30 – Rewiring the Nervous System Together

    • 43:20 – The Value of Being Held by a Couple

    • 48:00 – Breakthroughs: From “I Don’t Matter” to Deep Understanding

    • 52:15 – From Emotional Clarity to Embodied Reconnection

    • 56:00 – Where They Are Now: Playfulness, Passion & Presence

    • 59:30 – Final Reflections & An Invitation to Other Couples


      Online Community Link

      ⁠https://www.sacredrelating.com/⁠

      Donation link 👇🙏🏼❤️🌏

      ⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=VWHABJWZ749X4⁠

      Email:

      ⁠⁠transform@itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠

      ⁠relating@courtneywren.com⁠

      Website

      ⁠⁠www.itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠

      Instagram

      @MikeElliott.Relating

      MINDFULMEDS MUSHROOM PRODUCTS

      ⁠https://mindfulmeds.io/⁠

      15% off with

      PROMO CODE: TOGETHER

      THE SKIN DEEP CARDS

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      Promo Code: Together15


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    1 hr and 13 mins
  • Choosing Each Other, Again and Again: Michael & Robin’s Story of Enduring Love
    Apr 1 2025
    What does it take to stay together—not just through the good times, but through unimaginable grief? In this deeply moving episode, Michael and Robin open up about their 30-year journey of partnership, from early friendship and blended family life to the devastating loss of Michael’s daughter.With raw honesty and hard-won wisdom, they share how they rebuilt trust, leaned into personal growth, and stayed connected even when everything around them was falling apart. Along the way, they offer powerful tools for communication, reflection, and healing that have helped them sustain intimacy over three decades.Whether you're in a long-term relationship or navigating love after loss, this episode is a testament to what's possible when two people choose each other—over and over again.00:00 – Intro: Love, Loss & LongevityWelcome to the episode and a brief intro to Michael & Robin’s 30-year journey of partnership and healing.02:11 – The Early Years: Friendship Before RomanceMichael and Robin share how their relationship began as colleagues and friends—and how the spark slowly turned to love.05:45 – Becoming a Couple: Learning to Trust AgainNavigating early fears, family blending, and the pivotal moment Robin said “yes” to moving in.09:30 – A Marriage Formed by FireThey recall the early days of marriage, co-parenting challenges, and the emotional work required to stay committed.14:12 – Tragedy Strikes: The Loss That Changed EverythingMichael and Robin open up about the devastating loss of Michael’s daughter and the grief that nearly tore them apart.18:40 – Choosing to Stay: Healing in the Hardest TimesWhat it meant to stay together during grief—and how their marriage became a container for healing.22:30 – Tools That Transformed Us: From Reactivity to RepairThe couple shares a favorite communication tool that helped them transform conflict into connection.27:15 – Growing Up TogetherHow their individual personal growth work influenced their relationship—and how they learned to grow together.30:40 – The Power of Perspective: Seeing Each Other ClearlyThey discuss the gift of being truly seen by your partner, and the “long game” of intimacy.35:20 – What Keeps the Spark Alive After 30 YearsMichael and Robin reflect on how they continue to nurture intimacy, play, and connection over the decades.39:55 – Final Thoughts: Love as a PracticeClosing reflections on what love looks like now, and their hopes for other couples navigating love and loss.How healthy is your relationship? Take the FREE Relationship Quiz and find out. https://couples.solutions/ Want to learn a couple of tools to upgrade your connection? Attend the two-hour Introduction to True Love. https://couples.solutions/intro/ Partner reluctant to participate? Transform your relationship on your own. Social Handle: instagram.com/couples.solutionsOnline Community Link⁠https://www.sacredrelating.com/⁠Donation link 👇🙏🏼❤️🌏⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=VWHABJWZ749X4⁠Email:⁠⁠transform@itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠⁠relating@courtneywren.com⁠Website⁠⁠www.itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠Instagram@MikeElliott.RelatingMINDFULMEDS MUSHROOM PRODUCTS⁠https://mindfulmeds.io/⁠ 15% off with PROMO CODE: TOGETHER THE SKIN DEEP CARDS⁠https://shop.theskindeep.com/collections/all⁠Promo Code: Together15
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    1 hr and 25 mins
  • Toe curling Spiritual Sex Series- Part 1- Why Isn't She Into It?
    Mar 6 2025

    Episode Summary

    In the first episode of the Toe Curling Spiritual Sex Series, the hosts dive deep into the role of emotions and vulnerability in sexual intimacy. They debunk common myths that both men and women have been told about suppressing emotions during sex and reveal how true sexual alchemy emerges when emotions are embraced rather than repressed. The conversation explores how the masculine can welcome the feminine’s full emotional expression, while the feminine learns to trust the masculine’s presence. Through personal stories and intimate experiences, they demonstrate how emotional honesty in lovemaking can lead to deeper intimacy, profound healing, and "life-activating orgasms." Listeners are encouraged to cultivate sexual alchemy by embracing the full spectrum of emotions, creating a space of surrender, pleasure, and connection in their relationships.


    Chapters

    (00:00:17)Introduction to the Toe Curling Spiritual Sex Series(00:01:28) Debunking the Lies AboutEmotions in Sexuality

    (00:02:21) The Role of Emotions inSexual Alchemy

    (00:03:12) Parenting, Distractions,and Intimacy

    (00:04:08) The Feminine Experience:How Suppressing Emotions Kills Desire

    (00:05:51) The Masculine Experience:The Pressure to Perform

    (00:07:42) Why Avoiding EmotionsCreates Sexual Disconnect

    (00:10:12) Embracing Vulnerability inSexuality

    (00:12:52) The Masculine’s Role inHolding Space for Emotions

    (00:15:19) The Body’s Wisdom: How theNervous System Reacts to Pressure

    (00:17:00) Personal Story: HealingShame Through Sexual Connection

    (00:20:04) The Shift from Performanceto Presence

    (00:22:34) The Feminine’s Invitationto the Masculine

    (00:25:06) How Feminine ExpressionGuides Deeper Intimacy

    (00:30:08) The Masculine’s Invitationto the Feminine

    (00:35:49) Practical Ways to BuildSexual Alchemy

    (00:42:40) A Profound Sexual HealingExperience

    (00:49:54) Expanding Passion Beyondthe Bedroom

    (00:55:31) Closing Thoughts &Invitation to the Community


    Online Community Link

    ⁠https://www.sacredrelating.com/⁠

    Donation link 👇🙏🏼❤️🌏

    ⁠https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=VWHABJWZ749X4⁠

    Email:

    ⁠⁠transform@itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠

    ⁠relating@courtneywren.com⁠

    Website

    ⁠⁠www.itsmikeelliott.com⁠⁠

    Instagram

    @MikeElliott.Relating

    MINDFULMEDS MUSHROOM PRODUCTS

    ⁠https://mindfulmeds.io/⁠

    15% off with

    PROMO CODE: TOGETHER

    THE SKIN DEEP CARDS

    ⁠https://shop.theskindeep.com/collections/all⁠

    Promo Code: Together15


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    1 hr and 1 min

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